Kujwayelekile ukuthi kwababili bahlanganiswe futhi bahlala ngesikhathi, kwenziwa uchungechunge lwemikhuba emibi engalifanele ikusasa elihle labashadikazi. Ekuqaleni, le mikhuba ingahle ingabaluleki, noma kunjalo, kufanele kuthiwe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi inyunyana yabantu abanjalo ingahlukana kancane kancane.
Uma imikhuba enjalo inganqanyulwa ngesikhathi, izinto ezibaluleke kangako phakathi kwezithandani zingalimala njengoba kwenzeka ekwethembeni noma enhlonipho. Ukuze lokhu kungenzeki, kubalulekile ukukhomba le mikhuba bese uyiqeda. Nazi ezinye izibonelo zemikhuba emibi engenzeka ebudlelwaneni.
Qhathanisa
Ukuqhathanisa kuhlala kunenzondo futhi kufanele ugweme ukukusebenzisa njalo phakathi kwezithandani. Umuntu ngamunye unamaphutha nobuhle bakhe ngakho-ke akudingekile ukuthi aqhathanise. Akunakuqhathaniswa ukuqhathanisa okuhle noma okubi.
Ukuba khona kwentukuthelo
Ngaphakathi kwezithandani akunakubakhona ukucasuka futhi uma kukhona, kubalulekile ukukhuluma nabashadikazi ukuze kuxazululwe izinto. Akufanele ukuthethelela omunye umuntu uma kungenziwanga ngokusuka enhliziyweni. Intukuthelo ingcwatshiwe ayixazululwa, ingakhula ibe nkulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi idale izinkinga ezinkulu zobudlelwano.
Ukulwa obala
Ukulwa phambi kwabantu ongabazi kungenye yalemikhuba emibi okufanele igwenywe ngaso sonke isikhathi. Izinkinga ezahlukahlukene kufanele zixazululwe ngasese hhayi emphakathini. Kungumkhuba owanda ngokwandayo emibhangqwaneni eminingi yanamuhla.
Ukuntuleka kokuthopha
Kujwayelekile futhi kujwayelekile ukuthi eminyakeni yokuqala yobudlelwano, bobabili abantu bathola ukuncoma kwabashadile. Wonke umuntu uthanda ukuthi umuntu amthandayo unikezela ngamagama amnandi othando nezincomo ezithile. Ngeshwa, njengoba isikhathi sihamba, ukuncoma okunjalo kuyancipha futhi bobabili abantu bangacabanga ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi abasakhangi kwabashadikazi.
Umona
Indaba yesikhwele phakathi kwalezi zithandani yinkinga ethize enzima. Ukuba nomona ngezikhathi ezithile kuyinto engathathwa njengokujwayelekile futhi ungakhathazeki ngayo. Kodwa-ke, uma umhawu udlulela phambili futhi uholela enkingeni enkulu ngokwanele, kungabubeka engcupheni ubuhlobo. Umona awusoze waba umkhuba omubi phakathi kwezithandani.
Ngamafuphi, lezi zinhlobo zemikhuba azizifanele izithandani. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, imikhuba enjalo ingalimaza umlingani womuntu. Imikhuba kufanele ibe nempilo enhle ngangokunokwenzeka ukuqinisekisa ukuthi isibopho phakathi kwabantu bobabili siyaqina futhi uthando luyanqoba kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lwenkinga. Kufanele wazi ukuthi ungazinakekela kanjani lezi zithandani futhi ubeke isixazululo ezinkingeni ezahlukahlukene ezingavela ezinkingeni ezahlukahlukene ezingavela ngaphakathi kwazo.