Khulani njengombhangqwana. Akungabazeki ukuthi lokhu kuyisifiso sonke esinaso, sokukwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane obusivumela ukuthi siqhubeke nokukhula mathupha futhi sindawonye. Manje, siyazi ukuthi into enjengale kwesinye isikhathi ingaba nzima, ikakhulukazi uma elinye lamalungu amabili alo mbhangqwana lingayihloniphi indawo yomuntu siqu, ngokwesibonelo, lapho kuvela khona umona nokungathembani.
Uthando olunempilo futhi oluhlala njalo alusekelwe kuphela ekutheni "Ngiyakuthanda" komunye nomunye nsuku zonke. Impela. Kungaphezulu kakhulu kwalokho. Ukukhula njengombhangqwana kuyadingeka ukuthembana, ukunikela inkululeko nenhlonipho, ngenkathi kuqiniswa izibopho zokuzibophezela. Kukwazi ukudlala naye "Wena" futhi "thina" de un modo sabio, sin egoísmos ni rivalidades. Y ojo, con todo esto no estamos describiendo un simple ideal, sino una realidad que todos podemos y merecemos lograr. Hablemos hoy en Bezzia de ello, de los hábitos sencillos que nos pueden hacer crecer en pareja.
Imikhuba esenza sikhule njengabantu abashadile: Yisebenzise
Kunokuthile okumele sicacelwe ngakho. Ukukhula njengezithandani kuyadingeka ukwazi ukuthi ungakhuthaza kanjani uchungechunge lwezici kusukela osukwini lokuqala, kusukela kulowo mzuzu lapho siqala ubudlelwano obunzima. Akuwona neze umbuzo "wokunquma imithetho emisha" kusuka osukwini olulodwa kuye kolandelayo, yimikhuba elula leyo zisicebisa nsuku zonke futhi lokho futhi, kuhlanganisa kakhulu isibopho esisakhayo nomuntu esimthandayo.
Zithole ngezansi:
1. Ukubaluleka kokuzizwa uphephile
Ezokuphepha yileso sifiso esidingeka kuwo wonke umuntu. Izingane nentsha bayayidinga futhi siyayidinga nabantu abadala. Ukuzizwa sivikelekile futhi siphephile ebudlelwaneni bethu nabanye abantu kungenye yemizwa ezuzisa kakhulu futhi yanelisa esingayizwa.
Ngaphakathi kwaleyo security, ngena ngaphandle kokungabaza ukwethembana, sazi ukuthi umlingani wethu uyasisekela kukho konke esikwenzayo, nokuthi bayakwazi ukuzivikela ebunzimeni nokuthi siyabona ukuthi sibaluleke kakhulu komunye umuntu. Ukuthanda ukunakekela, inhlonipho, uthando nokuvikela.
2. Xhumana, uqonde futhi ulalele
Ubudlelwano bezithandani abusoze babuqiniswa noma buqiniswe uma lezi zinsika ezintathu zingekho: ukwazi ukulalela, ukuqonda nokukwazi ukusungula inkhulumomphendvulwano evulekile lapho kwenziwa khona izivumelwano, hhayi ukungaboni ngaso linye nokungahambelani. Siyazi ukuthi akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi, ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi siwela ezingxabanweni, ekulweni nakulezo zinto ezicasulayo ezihlala imizuzu noma izinsuku.
Akukho okwenzekayo, umehluko kwesinye isikhathi uyaqondakala, okubalulekile ukuthi izingxoxo zihlala zingenzeka, lapho sobabili silalelana khona futhi lapho isikhathi esiningi sigcina khona ukumamatheka emva kweziphepho.
3. Yisho izinto ezinhle ngomlingani wakho kwabanye abantu
Kungabonakala kufisa ukwazi kuwe, kepha lesi sici singesinye sezinto ezaziswa kakhulu. Iqiniso lokuthi umlingani wethu usho izinto ezinhle kwabanye, ukuthi uyasibona futhi akhombise uthando lwakhe ngathi, kuyajabulisa impela. Manje, ungakhohlwa ukwenza okufanayo, nokuthi lo muzwa uhlale ukhonjiswa kufayela le- iqotho futhi iyazenzekela.
4. Ukwazi ukuxolela
Kwesinye isikhathi kubiza, kepha labo abangaxoleli abaqondi, labo abangacabangi kahle abakwazi ukunikeza uthando oluqotho. Manje, siyazi ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi kunezimo ezithile ezingaphikisana nazo Amagugu ethu, kulapho-ke lapho sibuza khona ukuthi kufanele sixolele noma cha.
Kuyisinqumo somuntu siqu, akukho kungabaza. Kodwa-ke, ukuze sikhule njengabantu abashadile kubalulekile ukuthi sikwazi ukuthethelela izinto ezithile, izici zansuku zonke, ezinjengokungafani, ukukhohlwa, ukungaqondi kahle, amaphutha ...
5. Zithokozise
Kungabe kukhona okuthile okubaluleke ngaphezu kokuzijabulisa ndawonye? Siyazi ukuthi usuku lonke sinezibopho eziningi, ukuthi sifika ekhaya sekwephuzile, ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi sizizwa sicindezelekile ... Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi isikhathi esisinikezela kumlingani wethu ube nekhwalithi.
Cabanga ukuthi wagcina nini ukuba nosuku olukhetheke ngempela. Uma usanda kubona ukuthi awusakhumbuli, faka isixazululo kukho. Hlela ukuphunyuka, noma uhlele usuku olukhethekile ekhaya. Khumbula njalo ukuthi esinye sezitha ezimbi kakhulu ebudlelwaneni yinto ejwayelekile. Ngakho-ke letha okuncane, ukuzenzela kanye nefantasy osukwini lwakho nosuku.
6. Lala ngasikhathi sinye
Kungabukeka kuwubuwula kuwe, kepha le datha ibingenye yezinto ezinconywe kakhulu yibo bonke labo abashadikazi abazinzile nabajabule lapho kwenziwa lolu daba. Umkhuba olula wokulala ngasikhathi sinye awusivumeli nje kuphela ukulandela izindlela ezifanayo, kepha futhi nokufeza ukubumbana nokusondelana okukhulu.
Iqiniso lokuthi oyedwa walaba ababili uyeza, ngokwesibonelo amahora amabili kamuva, sekuvele "kungafani." Elinye iqiniso okufanele ulikhumbule ukuthi "kubalulekile" lokho ungalali uthukuthele. Umbhede akuyona indawo yempi lapho kufanele ulwe noma uphikisane khona, umbhede uyindawo esondelene yezocansi nokuphumula, akukho okunye. Lapho sidinga ukucacisa okuthile noma ukukhuluma ngokungafani, ngaso sonke isikhathi kwenze endaweni ethulile lapho kungenamuntu khona, kodwa ungalokothi ulale. Ngaleyo ndlela, le ndawo izohlala ikhululekile emizweni emibi.
Khumbula ukusebenzisa le mikhuba elula ukuze ukhule njengombhangqwana, ubukhulu bayo obuzokwakha ubuhlobo ihlala isikhathi eside futhi ijabule.
Lokhu kuhle kakhulu, iqiniso belizosiza wonke umuntu ofuna ngempela ukugcina impilo yakhe njengabantu abashadile, uNkulunkulu usihlanganisa kuze kube phakade, futhi, indoda nowesifazane banjengamanzi namafutha, kepha uNkulunkulu wenza isimangaliso sothando.