Ukuthomba yisigaba sempilo lapho izinguquko ezinkulu zenzeka ezimpilweni zabafana namantombazane. Umzimba uqala ukushintsha futhi wedlule kusuka ebuntwaneni uye ekuvuthweni ngokomzimba ngezinguquko zocansi nezomzimba ezitholwa ngumzimba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Umzimba nengqondo yezingane ziba nezinguquko ezinkulu ezingahluka kuye ngengane. Bobabili amantombazane nabafana bazodlula kulesi sigaba ukubasusa ebusheni baye ekuvuthweni. Lo mzuzu uvame ukwenzeka phakathi kweminyaka eyi-10 nengu-14 ngezinguquko ekuziphatheni, isifiso sobulili, ukungafisi, njll. AmaHormone imvamisa yiwona abhekane nakho konke okwenzekayo ngaphakathi komzwelo lapho usuthomba.
Mhlawumbe unendodana eseminyakeni yokuthomba ngokugcwele okwamanje futhi unokungabaza okuthile ukuthi awunakulokotha ukuphawula noma ukuthi unayo ekhanda lakho kepha awufuni mpendulo. Ungakhathazeki ngoba namuhla ngifuna ukukuphendula eminye imibuzo ebuzwa njalo kobaba nomama mayelana nokuthomba, mhlawumbe uzothola izimpendulo ezikukhathazayo.
Kungani enye intsha inezinguquko ezingokwenyama nezingokomzimba kunezinye?
Uma ubona ukuthi amantombazane amabili aneminyaka efanayo angaba nomehluko omkhulu ekuguqukeni kwawo ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo, angaya esikhathini ngaphambi kwabanye futhi angathola nokuvuthwa okuhlukile. Ezinganeni futhi umehluko ungabonakala njengoba izingane ezimbili zeminyaka efanayo zingakhula zihluke ngokuphelele okungabonakala ekukhuleni ngokomzimba, izinwele ngisho nomthamo womzimba.
Lokhu kwenzeka ngoba izici zofuzo zidlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu, kanye nobuzwe noma isifunda. Ngokuya ngofuzo nobuzwe, abafana ababili noma amantombazane abalinganayo bangakhula ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele.
Kuyiqiniso yini ukuthi intsha iyajuluka kakhulu futhi inuke kabi lapho ithomba?
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi intsha iyajuluka kaningi futhi iqine ngokwengeziwe ukuze ibe nephunga elibi kakhulu. Lokhu kunjalo ngoba ama-hormone okuvuthwa nawo azoshintsha izici zomjuluko.
Ngabe yonke intsha inezinduna?
AmaHormone kufanele asolwe ngezinduna zezingane zethu lapho sezithomba. Banesibopho sezinduna ezivamile ebusheni yize kungenzeki kuwo wonke umuntu futhi kuzoncika ekuzweleni kwezingane kumahomoni nohlobo lwesikhumba abanazo.
Ukugwema ukuba nezinduna, kuzofanele bageze ubuso babo kahle futhi bagweme ukusebenzisa okhilimu abanamafutha. lokho kuzoletha kuphela izinduna eziningi. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi ungazithinti izinduna noma izinduna ngoba zingadala amabala ngisho nezibazi.
Ungakhuluma kanjani nezingane ngocansi?
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi ukukhuluma nezingane ngezocansi kungakhathazi kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukukwenza ngendlela engokwemvelo kakhulu. Izingane zakho kumele zazi ukuthi yisihloko esifana nezinye futhi zingakuthemba ukuthi uzobuza ukuthi yini eziyidingayo.
Ngabe banesifiso sobulili kule minyaka?
Isifiso sobulili sivela okokuqala kule minyaka futhi njengabazali kuzodingeka ukuthi ninake lezi zinguquko ukuze nakhe isiteshi esivulekile sezingxoxo. Kuzofanele waziswe futhi ukwazi ukuxazulula ukungabaza kwakho okungenzeka ube khona ngaphambi kokukhuluma nezingane zakho. Ukuzola nokuphepha okudlulisela endodaneni yakho ngaphambi kwesifiso sayo sobulili kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze ufunde ukuthi ungaba kanjani nempilo yocansi enempilo empilweni yakho yokuba mdala.
Kuzofanele uchaze ukuthi kuyini ukwenza ucansi oluphephile, imiphumela yezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi (STDs) nokuthi ungakugwema kanjani ukukhulelwa okungafunwa. Uma unolwazi oluthe xaxa, izinkinga ezincane bazoba nazo futhi uzoba nokuthula.
Ngabe unokungabaza okuningi ngokuthomba ezinganeni zakho?