Kulesi simo se-alamu lapho wonke umuntu kufanele avalelwe emakhaya abo, kunemibhangqwana eminingi okufanele yehlukaniswe inqobo nje uma isimo se-alamu sivimbela ukushiya amakhaya aso. Uvunyelwe kuphela ukuphuma ukwenza okubalulekile njengokuya ekhemisi noma ukuthenga ukudla.
Ukubhekana nebanga lomzimba akulula neze, ikakhulukazi lapho bengazi ukuthi bazokwazi nini ukunikana ukwangana abakudinga kakhulu manje. Yize sibonga ubuchwepheshe obusha bangasondela futhi bayaxoxa futhi babonane ngezingcingo zevidiyo, lokhu akukuthathi indawo ukuxhumana okusemqoka kangako kwemibhangqwana.
Ihlukanisiwe kodwa ixhunyiwe
Yebo, imibhangqwana okuthi, ngenxa yanoma yiziphi izimo, kudingeke ukuthi iphile ngaphandle kwalesi simo se-alamu, iyaphuthelana. Bafuna ukuthintana babonane kodwa bavele bangakwazi. Ngezikhathi zokuvalelwa ukuxhumana nomphakathi kanye Lolu hlobo lweplatifomu seluphenduke umlingani omkhulu ukuze, yize behlukene, bahlale bexhumekile.
Uma usekhaya ungazi lutho ngomlingani wakho, kungadala ukukhathazeka noma ukwehla okukhulu kwemizwelo. Ngakho-ke, Ukugwema ukuphazamiseka kwengcindezi ngenxa yokushoda kozakwethu, kubalulekile ukugcina ukuxhumana ngaphandle kwebanga lomzimba.
Kodwa-ke, ochwepheshe bathi ukunamathela kuselula akusona isixazululo ngoba bangakhathazeka ngokweqile bawele ekuthembekeni ngokomzwelo. Yize siboshiwe kukhona umhlaba omningi kakhulu kunabashadikazi. Abangane nomndeni nabo babalulekile, ikakhulukazi kulezi zikhathi zenhlupheko enkulu emphakathini.
Ukulahleka kungokwemvelo
Ukukhumbula umlingani wakho kuyinto engokwemvelo kakhulu emhlabeni futhi ikakhulukazi ngezikhathi zokuboshwa. Kungaba yisikhathi esihle sokubona ukuthi umlingani wakho ubaluleke kangakanani kuwe futhi umazise njengoba emfanele okwamanje lapho nibuyelana, nigona futhi nenze izinhlelo zokungcebeleka.
Kepha uma ukhumbula umlingani wakho njalo ngomzuzwana wosuku, lapho-ke kungaba yinkinga futhi kungaholela enkingeni engalawuleki. Uma uhlala umkhumbula umlingani wakho futhi unesikhathi esibi kakhulu sokungamboni, Ungaba nokukhathazeka nokuthi awukwazi ukuphatha ukungaqiniseki kahle ngoba awazi ukuthi uzophinde umbone nini.
Ukugwema ukuncika ngokomzwelo kufanele uqaphele futhi ube nemikhuba yansuku zonke ngokwakho. Hlola okwenzekayo bese ubheka okuhle kwakho okwamanje.
Ungasisingatha kanjani kangcono isimo
Kunamaqhinga azokusiza ugcine ubudlelwane bakho bunempilo nokuthi konke kuhamba kangcono phakathi kwenu nobabili, manje manje nalapho kudlula khona ukwahlukaniswa. Ukwenza lokhu, qaphela amathiphu alandelayo:
Bayaziqonda izinkinga zakho zangaphakathi nezobudlelwano.
- Ukukhululwa okulinganiselwe. Akukuhle ukukhuluma ngaso sonke isikhathi ngenkinga yezempilo yomphakathi esiphila kuyo namuhla. Kungcono futhi ukukhuluma ngezinye izindaba ezinempilo noma ezikwenza umomotheke.
- Thola izingxoxo ngezinto ezinhle. Ungakhuluma imizuzu eyi-15 ngalokho okukhathazayo kodwa ingxoxo esele ikwenza ngezinto ezikulethela inhlalakahle.
- Yiba neshejuli yezingcingo, ukuze ukwazi ukuhlela usuku wenze eminye imisebenzi.
- Yiba nokuqokwa kwansuku zonke noma kwamasonto onke ukuze nikwazi ukwenza izinto ndawonye, njengokubuka i-movie efanayo noma ngabe wonke umuntu uyibuka ekhaya, ukudlala imidlalo ngekholi yevidiyo, njll.
- Ubulili obude ukugcina inhlansi yabashadikazi.
- Khuluma usuku olulodwa ngesonto mayelana nokuziphatha okukuphazamisile bese ugcine okubaluleke kakhulu lapho isimo esishubile sesiphelile.