Ngenxa yobuchwepheshe obusha, ukuhlangana nomlingani wakho nge-Intanethi kuba lula futhi kube lula… kufanele nje uxhumeke kwi-Intanethi futhi ubhaliswe kuhlelo lokuphola. Noma ngabe ufuna ukuhlangana nomlingani wakho online, ukuphepha kwakho kufanele kube yinto eza kuqala.
Imibiko yakamuva yowesilisa ovumile ukuthi wasolwa ngokubulala abesifazane abahlanu ahlangana nabo kuFacebook iveze ukukhathazeka ngokuphepha mayelana nokuthandana online. Lokhu kukhathazeka kufanelekile: Ngokombiko wenkampani yama-antivirus yamazwe omhlaba iKaspersky, kuze kufike koyedwa kubantu abathathu abafuna umlingani online, cishe abantu abangama-57% kwi-Intanethi bavumile ukungathembeki futhi cishe ama-55% ahlangabezane nohlobo oluthile losongo noma inkinga lapho ehlangana nabantu online.
Ukuqomisana okuku-inthanethi: indlela emnandi futhi elula yokuhlangana nabantu
Izingosi eziku-inthanethi ezithandanayo ziguqule umhlaba wokuphola. Kuyindlela emnandi futhi elula yokuhlangana nabantu ngaphandle kokushiya ikhaya. Lokho kusho, iqiniso ukuthi umuntu kufanele aqaphele lapho ebamba iqhaza futhi ehlangana nabantu angabazi.
Kufanele wazi ngezingozi ezihambisana nokuthandana online, qaphela izimpawu eziyisixwayiso futhi uqaphele kakhulu ukuze ukwazi ukuzivikela uma kunesidingo.
Amathiphu okuhlala uphephile
- Qiniseka ukuthi usebenzisa isiza esithandanayo sokuphola.
- Uma umuntu onentshisekelo kuwe ecela imali, vimba oxhumana naye.
- Qaphela imikhonyovu yokubamba iqhaza ocansini, lapho kusetshenziswa khona ama-racy izithombe nezithombe ukwenza amaphutha.
- Indawo yakho ayisebenzi futhi awabelani nganoma iyiphi idatha engabenza bakuthole.
- Sesha umuntu oku-inthanethi kuzingxenyekazi ezifana ne-Facebook, Instagram, noma i-LinkedIn ukuthola okwengeziwe ngaloyo muntu.
- Khuluma nalowo muntu ocingweni ngaphambi kokuhlangana mathupha.
- Ngaso sonke isikhathi phatha imoto yakho futhi uhlale endaweni yomphakathi, lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuba ube nabanye abantu uma udinga usizo. Ungalokothi umtshele lapho uhlala khona. Futhi, ungangeni emotweni yomunye umuntu.
- Tshela umngani noma ilungu lomndeni lapho uzohlangana khona ubatshele ukuthi kufanele ubuye ngasiphi isikhathi. Ngale ndlela, abanye abantu bangazi uma izinhlelo zingahambanga kahle.
- Nikeza umngane inombolo yocingo yokuqokwa kwakho bese umthumelela umyalezo ngesikhathi esithile ukwazi ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle.
- Ungaphuzi utshwala noma izinto ezingekho emthethweni. Udinga ukuba nekhanda elicacile. Bheka isiphuzo sakho ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi akekho umuntu ophonsa noma yini esolisayo kuwe.
- Ungadaluli imininingwane eminingi kakhulu lapho nihlangana okokuqala. Indawo osebenzela kuyo, ikheli lakho nezindawo ezijwayelekile imininingwane ezokwabelwana ngayo lapho senijwayelana kangcono.
- Letha i-pepper spray ufunde ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani. Lokhu kungakugcina uphephile esimweni esibi kakhulu.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, khumbula ukuthi ukuphepha kwakho kuqala kwakho. Uma noma nini uzwa ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle, xolisa, sukuma uhambe uyocela usizo; Akufanele neze ukhathazeke ngokuhlukumeza imizwa yomunye umuntu uma uzizwa sengathi usengozini.