Ihlobo liza futhi nesikhathi lapho sivame ukuya eholidini. Kunabantu abaningi abazama ukwenza amaholide abo fanisa nophathina wakho ukuze nizokujabulela ndawonye. Kodwa-ke, kula maholidi kungenzeka ukuthi kuvele izinkinga ezintsha lapho sichitha isikhathi esiningi sindawonye, into okufanele siyigweme.
Siyazi ukuthi isikhathi seholide yilapho imibhangqwana eminingi ihlukana khona ngezizathu eziningana. Okuqondile kakhulu ukuthi imibhangqwana ichitha isikhathi esiningi ndawonye futhi lokhu kwenza ubudlelwano bubukeke ngenye indlela. Yingakho kufanele sicabange ukuthi singawajabulela kanjani kakhulu amaholide njengabantu abashadile ukuwagwema ukuba abe yinhlekelele.
Khetha indawo oya kuyo ndawonye
Uma sizoya eholidini njengezithandani kumele senze into esiyithandayo sobabili. Kwesinye isikhathi akulula ngoba singaba nemibono eyehlukene, izindawo esizithandayo nezinye esingazithandiyo, noma izindlela ezihlukile zokuhamba. Kepha uma nikhuluma, nizothatha isinqumo esihle nobabili, enithokozela kuso nobabili. Uma kuyiholide ende ungasesha amasayithi amaningi Yingakho into yokuqala okufanele niyenze ukukhuluma phakathi kwenu nobabili ngezindawo eningathanda ukuya kuzo nokuthi kungani futhi nifisa ukwenzani lapho. Ngakho-ke ungathola umbono wokuthi ufuna ukuya kuphi eholidini.
Nobabili kufanele nihlele
Kubalulekile ukuthi nobabili nibonise intshisekelo lapho nihlela iholide lenu. Kungenzeka ukuthi omunye ungcono kunomunye kodwa kufanele khuluma phakathi kwalaba ababili bese ubheka zonke izinhlobo zolwazi. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ubambe iqhaza ngoba uma kungumuntu oyedwa owenza wonke umsebenzi kuzogcina sekukhathaza. Kuthatha umsebenzi omningi ukuhlela konke ukuze wehlukanise imisebenzi ukuze ngamunye enze okuthile futhi ngaleyo ndlela azuze okufanayo ngokusebenza njengombhangqwana.
Hlela okuthile okumnandi
Ngesikhathi sohambo kufanele uzame izinto ezintsha, okuthile okukujabulisayo futhi eningakwenza ndawonye. Kulungile uphumule kepha nawe kufanele dala izinkumbulo zokuhamba ezithakazelisayo futhi ukwenza okuthile okujabulisayo noma okuthokozisayo kungaphelela. Okuhlangenwe nakho okuhlobene nezikhathi zokushaja okuphezulu kwemizwa yilokho okukhunjulwa kakhulu, ngakho-ke kungumqondo omuhle ukwenza okuthile esihlala sikukhumbula njengokuthile okuhle. Lezi zinhlobo zezinto zithuthukisa ubudlelwano futhi zengeza ukuthinta okuthokozisayo, okuthile okulahlekile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Shiya indawo yokuba nesizungu
Enye yezinkinga ezinkulu eziqhamuka eholidini njengezithandani ukuthi nisebenzisa sonke isikhathi senu sindawonye futhi kuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuba nezikhathi zenu. Noma siseholideyini kungenzeka ukuthi sibe nezikhathi zokuba wedwa. Isibonelo, uma umuntu efuna ukubona imnyuziyamu kanti omunye uncamela ukuhamba azungeze idolobha, kungenzeka ahlukane nalokho wonke umuntu enze akufunayo ngamahora ambalwa. Kuhlale kuyinto enhle ukujabulela izinto wedwa.
Gwema ukuhlanjalazwa
Uma kukhona okungahambi kahle ohambweni, gwema noma yiluphi uhlobo lwehlazo olubhekiswe kulowo owayekuhlelile. Sonke siyawenza amaphutha futhi lokho kujwayelekile, ngoba izinto azenzeki njalo njengoba sihlela. Kepha okubalulekile kulezi zimo ukuthi njengabantu abashadile siyazi ukuthi singasizana kanjani ukunqoba leyo nkinga evelayo. Ngale ndlela asigcini ngokuqinisa lezi zithandani, kodwa futhi sifunda nokusebenza ngokubambisana. Kuyadingeka ukugwema izingxoxo nokuthukwa okungayi ndawo. Kunoma ikuphi, kufanele nazi ukuthi niziveza kanjani izinto ngokuhloniphana, nizama ukuqonda okunye futhi ngaleyo ndlela nithole ukuxhumana okuhle njengezithandani.