Iningi labantu lihlobanisa ukuhlukunyezwa nabesifazane, ngaphandle kokubheka ukuthi yinto ehlupha amadoda amaningi kuleli. Amacala amadoda ahlukunyeziwe awabonakali futhi izinyathelo noma izinhlawulo zinzima kakhulu uma kuqhathaniswa nokuhlukunyezwa kwabesifazane.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokhuluma ngakho ngendlela enemininingwane eyengeziwe. lokuphathwa kabi kwabantu.
ukuhlukunyezwa emadodeni
Nakuba ukuhlukunyezwa kubhekwa njengengabesifazane kuphela, Kumele kushiwo ukuthi maningi amacala amadoda athola ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo kubalingani babo. Kunezici ezimbalwa ezenza ukungabikho kokubonakala ekuhlukunyezweni kwabesilisa kubonakale:
- Kukhona ukuntula ukwethembeka ohlangothini lweziphathimandla mayelana nokuhlukunyezwa kwamadoda.
- Esinye isici iqiniso lokuthi amadoda amaningi anamahloni uma kuziwa ekuboneni ukuthi umlingani wabo ubaphatha kabi.
- Umphakathi awukwazi ukuhlobana ukuhlukunyezwa ngeqiniso lokuthi kungahlushwa indoda.
- Ezingeni elingokomthetho, ukuphathwa kabi kwendoda akulinganisela nhlobo mayelana nokuphathwa kabi kwabesifazane.
- Kunokuntuleka kwezinsiza ezisobala nezicacile mayelana nokuphathwa kabi kwabantu.
Iyini imiphumela yokuphatha kabi amadoda?
Nakuba ezikhathini eziningi, ukuphathwa kabi kwamadoda akuvamisile ukuphumela ekufeni kwabantu, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi umonakalo owenzeka ngokwengqondo ubaluleke kakhulu. Kunamadoda amaningi abhekana nomonakalo omkhulu mayelana nokuzethemba nokuzethemba. Baphelelwa ithemba nakakhulu ekuphileni, into ethinta ngokuqondile ukuphila kwabo kwansuku zonke. Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, indoda ehlukunyeziwe izobhekana nokuwohloka okuthile ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene zokuphila kwayo, kusukela kowomuntu siqu kuye emsebenzini. Ukuhlukunyezwa kungaba kubi kakhulu futhi kuqhubeke kangangokuthi akuvamile ukuthi bagcine sebekhethe ukuzibulala uma kukhulunywa ngokuqeda yonke into.
Idatha icacile futhi iyakhanyisa futhi izinga lokuzibulala liphakeme kakhulu emadodeni ashaywayo kunakwabesifazane abashaywayo. Uma kubhekwa lokhu, kusasele kuphela ukubhekana nenkinga kanye nokuyinika ukubaluleka enakho ngempela. Into eyodwa ayisusi kwenye futhi nakuba ukuphathwa kabi kwabesifazane kujeziswa, lokhu akukona ukuphela kokuphathwa kabi kwamadoda amaningi ezandleni zabalingani babo.
Kafushane, nakuba ingxenye ethile yomphakathi ingakwazi nhlobo ngakho, kufanele kuphawulwe ukuthi ngeshwa, Amadoda amaningi ahlukunyezwa abantu abathandana nabo. Kufanele sigxeke noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuhlukunyezwa, kungaba ngamadoda noma abesifazane. Kunesidingo sokubonakala kakhudlwana nokuthi iziphathimandla ziqaphele ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi amanye amadoda ahlukunyezwa ngokomzimba noma ngokomzwelo ngabalingani bawo.