Ukukhathazeka okujwayelekile oku-3 ebudlelwaneni

owesifazane ukhathazekile ngobuhlobo

Ubudlelwano yingxenye engakholeki yempilo, kepha futhi bungashintsha, bufiphale, buthuthuke, noma bube buhlungu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ngenxa yobudlelwano, ukuphola, umshado, uthando, noma abangani abanezinzuzo ezinokungaqiniseki okuningi, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuba nezinkathazo, ukungabaza nokwesaba. Njengabesifazane, sijwayele ukuhambisana kakhulu nemizwa yethu, futhi sithambekele ekuqapheleni nasekuqapheleni izinguquko eziningi ebudlelwaneni kunabesilisa abaningi.

Lokhu kusho ukuthi yithina esibonakala sikhathazeka kakhulu. Akunandaba neqiniso lelo, ukukhathazeka kuseseyinkinga futhi kubonakala sengathi kungakudla njengoba ulahleka ekhanda lakho ucabanga ngakho. Lokhu kuvamile futhi kunempilo, kodwa ungakuvumeli kukuphazamise.

Eqinisweni, iningi labesifazane lize lithole induduzo ngokwazi ukuthi ukukhathazeka kwabo kuyinto ejwayelekile nokuthi abanye banakho. Qhubeka ufunde ukuze uthole ukukhathazeka okujwayelekile abesifazane abanakho ebudlelwaneni!

Kungani ungiziba

Namuhla, sinama-akhawunti amaningi ezokuxhumana nabantu nezindlela zokuxhumana ezifana ne-Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, imiyalezo, i-imeyili nezingcingo. Ngalezi zindlela zokuxhumana esingazifinyelela kusuka kumafoni, amathebulethi nakumakhompyutha, kulula kakhulu ukubona umyalezo noma ukuphendula njalo.

Okusho ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi uthumelela umlingani wakho imiyalezo, futhi uyabona ukuthi bakwi-intanethi noma ukuthi bawubonile umyalezo wakho, kepha abakunaki. Yize lokhu kubuhlungu, kodwa futhi kuyinto eyenzeka kwabesifazane abaningi. Lokhu kuyadabukisa okunye kokukhathazeka okujwayelekile abesifazane abanakho ebudlelwaneni.

owesifazane ukhathazekile ngobuhlobo

Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukunganakwa kwanele ukukwenza uzizwe unganakiwe, ube nokungabaza, ukhathazeke ngokushintshile, kukwenze ucabange ukuthi umlingani wakho akazizwa ngendlela efanayo ngawe.

Kungani yomile nami

Umbuzo ovumayo abesifazane abaningi abavame ukuwubuza uthi kungani womile? Kungani ephendula ngokulambisa? Kungani ungafuni ukukhuluma nami njengoba wawukwenza phambilini? Impendulo yalokho ingaba yinoma yini ngempela. Noma kunjalo, akusho ukuthi kufanele ukhathazeke ngakho. Ungagula, ukhathele, noma ucindezeleke ngenxa yomsebenzi. Kungaba yinkohliso ukungakhathazeki ngokuthi kungani omile kangaka nawe, kepha kwenzeka.

Kubalulekile futhi ukuqaphela ukuthi ungoma ngenxa yento ekuhluphayo. Njengoba ufuna ukwazi nokucela, angahle angaphenduli aze alungele.

Ingabe ubuhlobo obujwayelekile?

Lokhu kukhathazeka kuyinto engathinta abesifazane abaningi, yize kuyinkinga ejwayelekile. Abesifazane abaningi bavame ukucabanga ngobudlelwano babo nokuthi kujwayelekile yini ukuya ocansini kaningi njengabo, noma ngabe kujwayelekile yini ukuphikisana kangako, noma ngabe kuyinto ejwayelekile yini kubo ukuthi bangaze bathandane.

Empeleni, okunye kokukhathazeka okujwayelekile okukhulu abesifazane abanakho ebudlelwaneni ukuthi ngabe kuyinto ejwayelekile yini ukwenza into bona nabalingani babo abangakaze bayenze, noma bayenze ngaso sonke isikhathi. Noma ubudlelwano ngabunye buhlukile futhi umbhangqwana ngamunye uhlukile, lokhu kukhathazeka kuyavela. Ngokwengxenye enkulu, lokhu kukhathazeka akunangqondo ngoba wonke umlingani, umuntu, nobudlelwano kuhluke ngokuphelele kunoma ngubani omunye umuntu.

Yize kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuzibuza ukuthi ngabe lokhu okwenzayo kuyinto "okufanele" ukuthi ibe yingxenye yobudlelwano. Umphumela wokugcina uyimpendulo ebangelwa kokuhlangenwe nakho komunye umuntu nobudlelwano, hhayi okwakho. Ukuphela kwento ebalulekile ukuthi kuyakusebenzela wena nozakwenu nokuthi nobabili niyajabula, niphilile futhi niyathandana.


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