Akuzona zonke izingane ezikwaziyo ukujwayela isikole ngemva kweholide. Ukuntuleka kokuzivumelanisa nezimo kuthinta izinga lemizwelo ezinganeni eziningi, ezihlangabezana nemizwa enjengokudabuka noma ukunganaki. Kuliqiniso ukuthi akulula ukuthi noma ngubani abuyele esimeni kodwa ngokuhamba kwezinsuku izinto kumele zijwayele. Endabeni yezingane, uma ukungajwayeli kahle esikoleni kuqhubeka phakathi nezinsuku, abazali kufanele bathole imbangela yaleyo nkinga futhi bathole isisombululo sayo.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo siyakubonisa izimbangela ezivame kakhulu zokungajabuli kahle kwezingane eziningi ukuze zibuyele esikoleni nokuthi zenzeni ngakho.
Izizathu zokuthi kungani ingane ingavumelani nesikole
- Ezimweni eziningi kakhulu, i-maladaptation ibangelwa yilokho okwaziwa ngokuthi i-post-holiday syndrome. Ukubuyela esikoleni kuphakamisa ushintsho olungazelelwe esimisweni sezingane ezincane, into enomthelela omubi kuzo zombili izici ezingokomzimba nezingokwengqondo. Kulezi zimo ukusekelwa umndeni nokuhamba kwezinsuku kuyosiza ingane ukuthi igcine ijwayele ukuya esikoleni.
- Kwezinye izimo, ukungalungi kubangelwa ukukhathazeka izingane eziba nakho lapho zihlukaniswa nabazali bazo. Lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka endabeni yabancane, ikakhulukazi uma kufanele baye esikoleni futhi hlukana amahora ambalwa nezibalo zokunamathiselwe.
- Kwezinye izikhathi okuhlangenwe nakho okubalulekile njengoba kwenzeka ngokuhlukana kwabazali noma ukuzalwa kwengane yakini kungase kubangele ukungajabuli kahle esikoleni.
- Ngezinye izikhathi izizathu ze-maladaptation kufanele zenze nakho konke okuzungezile isikole: kusukela ebuhlotsheni obubi nofunda nabo esikoleni kuya ekubeni uqale isifundo esisha.
Ungazisiza kanjani izingane ukuthi zijwayelane nesikole ngokuya ngeminyaka
Kusuka eminyakeni emibili kuya kwemithathu
Kuyinto evamile ngezingane ezikule minyaka ukuba zibe nobunzima obukhulu bokujwayela isikole. Ukuhlukaniswa nenani lokunamathiselwe kuyisizathu salokhu. Njengoba izinsuku zihamba, ingane ithola ukuzethemba futhi izizwa ikhululeke kakhudlwana esikoleni.
Kusuka eminyakeni emibili kuya kwemithathu
Ukushintsha ukusuka enkulisa ukuya esikoleni kubaluleke kakhulu eningini lezingane, yingakho benobunzima obuthile obuhlobene nokuzivumelanisa nezimo. Kulokhu, abazali kufanele benze konke okusemandleni ukuze izingane zijwayelane nazo zonke izinto ezizungezile isikole.
Ngaphezu kweminyaka engu-6
Endabeni yezingane ezingaphezu kweminyaka engu-6 ubudala, kuyadingeka ukuthola isizathu sokungajwayela kahle esikoleni. Into evamile ukuthi yinto yesikhashana exazululeka ngokuhamba kwezinsuku. Kwezinye izimo inkinga ingaba nkulu kakhulu futhi ibaluleke kakhulu. Kulesi simo kubalulekile ukuhlala phansi nengane futhi nixoxe ngendaba ngendlela ezolile nekhululekile. Kuhle ukumlalela nokuzwelana naye ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ukwesekwa kwabazali kuyisihluthulelo ekutholeni isisombululo esingcono kakhulu senkinga yokuzivumelanisa nezimo. Uma kunesidingo, abazali bangafuna usizo kothisha esikoleni. Noma yiluphi usizo luncane ukuze uthole isizathu senkinga futhi uthole isixazululo esingcono kakhulu.