Nakuba kungase kungakholeki ingxenye enkulu yomphakathi, Kukhona izithandani lapho ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi okugcwele kungenzeka. Ukuhlukunyezwa okunjalo kwenzeka lapho ubulili bungasafunwa ngomunye wabathintekayo futhi buba yisibopho sangempela noma isibopho.
Esimeni esinjalo omunye wabathintekayo ugcina eseyisisulu sokunukubezwa ngokocansi nguphathina wakhe. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, kubalulekile ukuqeda ubuhlobo futhi ubike umbhangqwana ngokuhlukumeza ngokocansi nokuhlukumeza. Esihlokweni esilandelayo sikhuluma nawe ngendlela enemininingwane eyengeziwe Ukuhlukumeza nokunukubezwa ngokocansi ebudlelwaneni bezithandani nokuthi wenzeni ngakho.
Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi phakathi kwabashadile
Ukuya ocansini nomlingani wakho ngaphandle kwesibopho kungabhekwa njengecala langempela lokuhlukumeza noma ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi. Esimeni esinjalo, umbhangqwana uba umhlukumezi wangempela futhi iqembu elimele libe isisulu sangempela. Into evamile ukuthi iqembu elihlukumezayo liziphatha ngendlela efanelekile ngaphandle kobudlelwano futhi ungumuntu onobuthi futhi odelelekile ngaphakathi kobudlelwano uqobo.
Akulula ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umlingani obangela ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi okunjalo. Imizwa enjengokwesaba noma umuzwa wecala ikhona, ekwazi ukubangela ukudideka okuthile kulowo ohlukunyezwayo. Ukuphuma kulesi simo njengokujwayelekile kuyinkimbinkimbi, ngoba umuntu ohlukumeza ngokobulili umbhangqwana. Ukwesaba kulezi zimo kukhulu kangangokuthi isisulu asikwazi ukubeka lobo buhlobo.
akekho ophethwe muntu
Ukusungula ukuzibophezela okuthile noma isibopho nomunye umuntu, Akuyona into ebaluleke kakhulu ukubekezelela ukuziphatha okuthile noma ukuziphatha okungafanele. Ukungajabuli phakathi kwabashadikazi kufanele kube into okufanele icatshangelwe futhi ibe ukhiye lapho kunqanyulwa ubudlelwano obuthile. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi akekho umuntu ophethwe ngumuntu.
Nakuba kungase kubonakale kungakholeki futhi kungelona iqiniso kakhulu, iqiniso liwukuthi baningi abesifazane abahlushwa uhlobo oluthile lokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili okuvela kubalingani babo. Isibopho esinempilo yileso lapho imizwa enjengothando nothando lwamaphathi ekhona. Uthando alukwazi ukuphatha kabi noma ukululaza omunye wabashadikazi futhi ucansi kufanele kwabelwane ngakho futhi kuvunyelwane. Ukuphoqa umlingani ukuthi aye ocansini kusho ukuhlukumeza noma ukuhlukumeza nabo bonke izincwadi, Akufanele kuvunyelwe ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo.
Izimpawu ezicacile zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi kwabashadile
Kukhona uchungechunge lwezimpawu ezicacile ezingabonisa lokho ebuhlotsheni obuthile okunye ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi kwenzeka:
- Ukuthinta okuthile ngokomzimba kwenzeka okungavunywanga yisisulu.
- Ukungena kwenzeka naphezu kokuthi cha wephathi ohlukunyezwa ngokocansi.
- iqembu elihlukumezayo uyenqaba ukusebenzisa ikhondomu uma wenza ucansi.
- Kulokhu kusolwa isisulu ngokungafuni ukuba nobudlelwane bocansi.
- Ukukhohliswa kwemizwelo kwenzeka ukuya ocansini.
- Isisulu sinemizwa enjalo njengokwesaba, icala noma amahloni ngemva kokulala nomlingani.
Ngamafuphi, Ngaphansi kwezimo awukwazi ukuvumela ukunukubezwa ngokocansi ngumlingani wakho. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, kubalulekile ukukhuluma ngokwenzekayo nabantu obathembayo futhi uqede ubudlelwano. Kwezinye izimo kubalulekile ukuya kuchwepheshe ukuze ubhekane nenkinga futhi ubike umbhangqwana ngokwawo. Ngeshwa, kunabesifazane abaningi abakhetha ukuthula futhi baqhubeke nobudlelwano obunobuthi lapho beyizisulu zokuhlukunyezwa okuqhubekayo ngabalingani babo.