Isikhathi sokuthomba yisikhathi sezinguquko eziningi emikhakheni eyahlukene yempilo yabantu abasha. Omunye wemikhakha ebaluleke kakhulu ucansi. Kulesi sigaba sokuphila, kuwumsebenzi wabazali ukucacisela izingane zabo konke ukungabaza okungenzeka babe nakho ngezwe elibanzi lobulili. Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokukhuluma ngokukhululekile nezingane ngendaba eyimpikiswano enjengobulili.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokutshela yiziphi izihloko zocansi yilezo abazali okufanele baxoxe ngazo nezingane zabo.
Ucansi alufani ne-porn
Ngeshwa, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zifinyeleleka kubantu abasha futhi baya ngokuya besaba kakhulu uma kuziwa ekubukeni izithombe zobulili ezingcolile. Inkinga enkulu ngalokhu ukuthi abantu abasha babuka izithombe ezingcolile zobulili eziningi ngaphambi kokuba babe nobuhlobo bobulili bokuqala. Isithombe abanaso ngocansi asilona neze iqiniso njengoba sifaniswa nezithombe ezingcolile futhi lokhu kuyinkinga enkulu. Kungumsebenzi wabazali ukulawula lokho izingane zabo ezikubona kuyi-Internet kanye khuluma ngendaba yocansi ubuso nobuso futhi ngokukhululekile.
Inhlonipho ocansini
Inhlonipho iyinani okumelwe ligxiliswe ezinganeni kusukela zisencane. Le nhlonipho kumele idluliselwe emkhakheni wezocansi. Uma kuziwa endabeni yokuya ocansini, kufanele uhlale uhlonipha omunye umuntu futhi umjabulele ngokugcwele.
Ukubaluleka kokuxhumana
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina ukuxhumana okuhle nomlingani wakho lapho uya ocansini. Ngenxa yalokhu zokuxhumana ungathola ukujabulela ucansi futhi beka eceleni izithiyo ezithile ezingenza umkhuba onjalo ube nzima.
Imfundo yocansi yamadodakazi
Ngeshwa futhi naphezu kokuphila ekhulwini lama-XXI, umphakathi usaqhubeka nokuba yizinsizwa kanti ucansi alufani nolwamantombazane. Imfundo iwukhiye ukuze amantombazane akwazi ukubalekela izimo ezithile zobudoda futhi akwazi ukujabulela imizimba yawo njengoba kwenzeka kubafana. Ucansi akufanele lube nanoma yimuphi umehluko futhi kufanele lufane kokubili amadoda nabesifazane. Inhlonipho nokulingana kumele kube khona ngaso sonke isikhathi ebudlelwaneni bocansi obuhlukene.
Gcina ucansi oluphephile
Enye into abazali okufanele bayigxilise ezinganeni zabo wukwenza ucansi oluphephile ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ukuntuleka kolwazi kanye nemfundo ephansi yezocansi kusho ukuthi ukukhulelwa okungafunwa kanye nezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi zihlala zenzeka. Abantu abasha kumele bacace ngaso sonke isikhathi mayelana nezindlela ezahlukene zokuvimbela inzalo ezikhona futhi benze ucansi oluphephile. Ucansi akufanele lubukwe njengento engafanele futhi kufanele ube nayo yonke inkululeko emhlabeni yokuxoxa ngale ndaba nomndeni wakho.
Ngamafuphi, Kubalulekile futhi kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bakhulume ngocansi nezingane zabo ngokukhululekile futhi ngaphandle kokucasha. Intsha kufanele ibe nolwazi oluningi ngocansi ngangokunokwenzeka futhi igweme izinkinga ezizayo njengokukhulelwa okungafunwa.