Uthando phakathi kwabantu ababili lufana nesitshalo okumele sinakekelwe ukuze sigcine siphila. Kufanele ungeze amanzi afanele ukuze angafi. Uma wengeza amanzi amaningi, izimpande ziyabola zife, futhi uma ungafaki amanzi anele, isitshalo siyoma futhi sife. Ngakho-ke thanda, njengasesitshalweni, kusekelwe ekunakekeleni nasothandweni.
Enye indlela yokunakekela uthando lwezithandani ukwenza izinto zothando ezizisiza ukuba zixhumane futhi zibone ukuthi uthando lwazo luyiqiniso ... Noma okuphambene nalokho, mhlawumbe umbhangqwana uzokwenza lezi zinto zothando futhi ubone ukuthi uthando lwabo aluyona into ababecabanga ukuthi luyiyo ngempela futhi kungcono ukulandela izindlela ezahlukahlukene.
Ungaphuthelwa ngezansi, izinto ezi-3 zothando ukuze uthando lwabashadikazi luhlale luphelele nokuthi ngale ndlela, abashadayo bayabona ukuthi uthando lwabo luyiqiniso, hhayi okuphambene.
Thatha uhambo noma nichithe ubusuku behhotela ndawonye
Uhambo noma yikuphi lapho ungathandana khona uma unothando lwempilo yakho lubungaza uthando lwenu ndawonye. Awudingi ukuya eParis, idolobha lothando, ukuze ube nohambo lokuthandana ngothando lwakho (Noma, uma ungakwenza lokho futhi ufuna ukukwenza, iParis ingaba wuhambo olukhulu lothando!).
Uma lokho akuyona into ongayenza, khetha ihhotela elihle edolobheni lakho bese uhlala khona ubusuku. Ukuhlala ehhotela, noma ngabe ukuphi, kukwenza uzizwe sengathi useholidini, futhi ukuchitha ubusuku ungekho ekhaya kuyindlela enhle yokuvuselela futhi ube nesikhathi esihle njengombhangqwana. Jabulela idina yothando ebha yehhotela noma isevisi yegumbi loku-oda futhi cabanga ukuthi nguwe wedwa abantu ababili emhlabeni.
Thatha uhambo lokuhambahamba ekushoneni kwelanga
Yini ethandana kakhulu kunokuhamba ngokukhululeka, ubambisene nenye ingxenye yakho, njengoba ilanga lishona ngosuku olunikezelwe ukugubha uthando lwenu komunye nomunye? Kukhona okuthile ngokubuka ukushona kwelanga okukugcwalisa ngothando nokumangala, futhi ukushona kwelanga ngokwemvelo kuyathandana. Lokhu kungcono kakhulu uma uhlala eduze komfula noma ulwandle, futhilapho amanzi andisa umphumela wothando.
Bhalanani izincwadi zothando
Lokhu kungenye yezinto zothando kakhulu ongazenza nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Kuyinto yomuntu siqu futhi isondelene ... Nobabili ningabhala izincwadi zothando, uhlu lwayo yonke into eniyithandayo ngomlingani wakho, noma uhlu lwayo yonke into. lokho omunye akufundise khona ngawe noma okushiwo uthando phakathi kobudlelwano bakho.
Ngobusuku bakho obukhethayo, yenza ikona elincane elithokomele endlini yakho: khanyisa amakhandlela, uthole izingubo zokulala, uthele iwayini, bese uwafundela omunye nomunye ngokuzwakalayo. Uma amakhono akho okubhala enza umsebenzi, uqinisekisiwe ukuthi uzokhipha umlingani wakho akhale izinyembezi ezijabulisayo ...
Lezi iziphakamiso ezimbalwa nje zezinto zothando ukugcina uthando lwenu luqinile.. Uthando lukhethekile futhi luqondene ngqo nombhangqwana ngamunye, ngakho-ke kunezindlela eziningi zokugubha.