Iningi labantu elinomlingani noma abasebudlelwaneni, iyazi ukuthi iphilile nini nokuthi ingaba yingozi nini. Uma ngeshwa lokhu kwenzeka, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungabubona kanjani ubudlelwano obunobuthi, ukwazi ukuthi kufanele wenze kanjani nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze ukuze umonakalo ongokomzwelo ungabi mkhulu kakhulu.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokhuluma ngezinhlobo ezintathu zobudlelwano obunobuthi obungaluleki, ukuze uziqede ngokushesha okukhulu.
Ukukhohliswa ngokomzwelo
Ukuhlukumeza ngokomzwelo kungenye yobudlelwano obunobuthi laphaya. Ngalesi sivumelwano, omunye wabalingani udlala ngemizwa nemizwa yelinye iqembu futhi ngale ndlela unakho ukulawula ngaso sonke isikhathi. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuthi uthando alukho nokuthi luhlobo lokuhlukumeza okungafanele luvunyelwe ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo. Ngalesi senzo esinzima, umuntu ohlukunyezwayo uhluleka ukukhipha imizwa okufanele imiswe ngokushesha okukhulu.
Amanga ebudlelwaneni
Olunye uhlobo lobudlelwano obunobuthi obenzeka kakhulu namuhla yilolo olususelwa emangeni. Kusetshenziswa zonke izinhlobo zamanga nenkohliso, omunye wabalingani uyakwazi ukuphatha yonke into ngokuphelele. Awukwazi ukuhlala ebudlelwaneni lapho amanga asemini. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi inkohliso eyinqaba ingaxolelwa kepha uma inesifo, lo mbhangqwana uzolahlwa ekugcineni. Khumbula ukuthi ebudlelwaneni obunempilo, ukwethembana neqiniso kufanele kube khona ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuze kukhule ngamandla ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwabashadikazi
Ukuhlukunyezwa njalo kungenye indlela yokwenza ubuhlobo obuthile bube yingozi. Ngokuhlukumezeka okungenhla, umuntu uyakwazi ukuxhaphaza umlingani wakhe ngaso sonke isikhathi, athole konke akufunayo. Ebudlelwaneni obuthathwa njengobunempilo, ngeke kube khona ukuhlukunyezwa ngelinye lamaqembu.
Okufanele ukwenze ngalezi zinhlobo zobudlelwano obunobuthi
Akuyona into entsha ukusho ukuthi ubudlelwano obunobuthi busemini futhi Kunabantu abaningi abangazi ukuthi bagcwele ngokuphelele kulolu hlobo lobudlelwano. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, kubalulekile ukukhomba uhlobo lobudlelwano obunobuthi futhi ukusuka lapho, wenze ngokushesha okukhulu. Into yokuqala okufanele yenziwe ngumuntu ohlukunyezwayo ukuhlala phansi nomlingani wakhe bese benza imingcele eminingi ebudlelwaneni obunjalo. Awukwazi ukuvumela ukuthi kumbhangqwana akukho lutho lwenhlonipho noma lokuthembana.
Kubalulekile ukuthi umuntu onobuthi abone ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi akwenzayo akulungile nakancane nokuthi kufanele ashintshe ngendlela ebabazekayo. Uma ngaphandle kwezixwayiso nemikhawulo, ubuthi busekhona, Isikhathi sokudiliza ubudlelwano hhayi ukuqhubeka nomunye umuntu. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuzibheka wena futhi uzinakekele ezingeni lomqondo nelingokomzwelo.