Imibhangqwana ayinabo ubuhlobo obuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi. Yonke imibhangqwana ihamba ngezigaba ezahlukahlukene nemijikelezo, ngoba empilweni kunezimo eziningi futhi kumbhangqwana kunabantu ababili abashintshayo futhi baguquke ndawonye. Yingakho lapho ubhekene nenkinga yobudlelwano, kufanele ube namathuluzi atholakalayo okwazi ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nawo nokuthi le nkinga ayisho ukuphumula.
I-Las Inkinga embhangqwaneni zivamile impela, ngoba yonke imibhangqwana ibhekana nezikhathi ezingafani. Kungakho kungafanele sibe nesikhathi esibi noma sigweme inkinga. Sikunikeza amanye amathiphu wokubhekana nenkinga yobudlelwano futhi uphume kuyo ngobudlelwano obuqinile.
Izimbangela zenkinga
Isizathu lapho kuvela khona inkinga kungavela kokuhlukahluka okuningi. Umbhangqwana ngamunye uhlukile futhi empeleni isimo ngasinye sehlukile. Kodwa-ke, ngokuvamile kungashiwo lokho Izinkinga zivame ukuvela lapho isigaba sokuthatheka siphela, lapho ubuchopho buthola khona i-dopamine futhi buvame ukusunduza kude imicabango ebucayi nengalungile. Ngalo mqondo, lapho singasathandani futhi inqubo ejwayelekile iqala kwabashadayo, yisikhathi lapho sizozibona khona, sinamaphutha nokushiyeka kwethu. Uma lezi zithandani zinamathuluzi amaningi kunokuthandana ukuze zihlale ndawonye, zizoqhubeka, ngaphandle kwalokho kuzoba yisikhathi senhlekelele. Le nkinga ayiveli osukwini olulodwa iye kolandelayo, kepha isungulwa kulo mbhangqwana kancane kancane.
Ungayibona kanjani inkinga
Sonke sidlule kukho izikhathi zenhlekelele kwizithandani futhi sizokwazi ukuthi singazibona kanjani ezinye izimpawu. Ukuya ocansini kuyehla noma kuphele. Ukusondelana akusavamile kangako futhi sithambekele ekuziqhelelanise nathi. Yilowo nalowo uya entweni yakhe nezinto ezincane zenziwa ndawonye. Kukhona ukulwa, ukubhekana noma ukungabikho kokuxhumana phakathi kwalaba bobabili. Ilungu elilodwa noma womabili alo mbhangqwana bavame ukudonsa amaphutha noma ukudala izingxabano.
Thuthukisa ukuxhumana kwabashadikazi
La ukuxhumana kubaluleke kakhulu ngaphakathi kwezithandani. Lapho bobabili noma ilunga lombhangqwana liqala ukuzizwa lihlukile futhi libona ukuthi izinto sezishintshile, kufanele zikhulume ngalo nomunye umuntu. Uma sixhumana futhi siveza lokho esizizwayo nokwesaba esinakho, elinye iqembu lingase lisiqonde futhi singaxazulula inkinga ngokubambisana. Ngaphandle kwalokho, sizokhula sihlukane kakhulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuze kube yilapho sakha igebe phakathi kwalokhu okubili.
Lalela kahle
Lapho besitshela izinto esingazithandi noma esingafuni ukuzizwa, sithambekele ekugxekeni bese sihlasela elinye iqembu. Ngakho-ke, izingxoxo azakhi kodwa kunalokho ziyingozi kuzo zombili. Lapho kunokuthile okusikhathazayo, kufanele sikhulume ngaphandle kokwesaba kepha futhi kumele sifunde ukulalela ngaphandle kokwahlulela noma ukuhlasela, ngomqondo ovulekile. Lesi sinyathelo sibalulekile ukuze amalungu amabili alo mbhangqwana athembane.
Ukubaluleka kokuthinta komzimba
Mhlawumbe ngokwenqubo bobabili abayinakanga inhlangano yabashadikazi. Iqiniso ngukuthi imibhangqwana nayo iyinto okumele inakekelwe. Ubudlelwano buyathuthuka uma uzinakekela kwasekuqaleni. I- ukushukuma okuncane kubaluleke kakhulu, futhi kufanele zinikezwe usuku nosuku. Ukunikeza izipho ezincane, ukunakekela omunye nokuba nezenzo zothando nsuku zonke kwandisa ukusondelana nenhlalakahle phakathi kwalaba bobabili, ikakhulu okugwema lokhu kuqhelelana nezinkinga.
Phula inqubo
Ezingxenyeni eziningi zezithandani kunefayela le- inqubo ezophulwa ngoba yikho okuholela ekudinweni. Ukwenza into efanayo nsuku zonke kukhipha imizwa kukho konke ngakho-ke kufanele senze okuncane kwengxenye yethu ukuze impilo nabashadikazi iqhubeke nokuba mnandi. Ukwenza izinto ezintsha, ukuthatha uhambo noma ukubhalisela amakilasi wokudansa kungaba yisiqalo esihle.