Mude, muhle, uyahlekisa, uhlakaniphile, ufezile, yabelana ngezinto ozithandayo - uma kukhulunywa ngokuthandana, sonke sinohlu lwethu "lwezifiso". Kepha Lezo zici azihlangene nokuhambisana nenjabulo yesikhathi eside.
Futhi, ukuhambisana akuyona yonke noma akulutho. Itholakala ngokuqhubeka… Ngendlela efanayo, umlingani wakho ofanele angashintsha impilo yakhe yonke njengoba ehlangabezana nezinto ezintsha futhi eshintsha njengomuntu. Lesi esinye sezizathu zokuthi kungani kungafanele ubeke isisindo esiningi kuzici, ngokwesibonelo ezomzimba. Ngakho-ke uma ukuhambisana kuyinjongo ehambayo, ungabona kanjani ukuthi othile uzokulingana kakhulu manje nasesikhathini esizayo? Nayi eminye imikhondo.
Uthanda iphunga lomzimba wabo
Uma ungakhathazwa yiphunga lesikhwama sakho sokuzivocavoca esijulukayo, lokho kungaba yinto enhle. Iphunga lomlingani wethu lingaba esinye sezidakamizwa ezidakayo noma ezinengekayo. Uma uthanda indlela iphunga lomlingani wakho, kunethuba elihle lokuthi ubudlelwano bakho bungahlala. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi iphunga lethu lemvelo lixhunyaniswe nokwakheka kofuzo kwamasosha ethu omzimba futhi, uma sikhuluma ngokuziphendukela kwemvelo, sifuna ukufinyelela kubantu abagcwalisa i-biology yethu futhi basisize ube nenzalo enempilo.
Isitayela sokuxhumana esifanayo
Akukona nje lokho okushiwo usuku lwakho, kodwa nokuthi ulusho kanjani. Abantu abanezindlela ezifanayo zokuxhumana, kokubili ukukhuluma nokubhala, maningi amathuba okuthi bahambisane.
Lapho izitayela zolimi zihlanganiswa nezinye, sigxila kakhulu engxoxweni. Okwamanje, lapho othile ekhuluma nathi ngendlela yokuxhumana efana neyethu, kuba lula ngathi ukukuqonda abakushoyo nezinhloso zabo. Kokubili kwakha ubudlelwano obuqinile.
Ukhula ngaphakathi
Impela, uhlala uthembekile kuwe, kepha ubudlelwano obuhlukile buletha izici ezahlukahlukene kithina sonke, ezinye zinhle ezinye azizinhle kangako. Manje uphathelwa muphi umuntu wakho? Futhi umphathelani?
Uma nobabili nobabili nithanda ukuthi ngamunye wenu uba kanjani kulobu budlelwano, kuyisibonakaliso esihle impela. Kodwa-ke, ukukhipha okuhle komunye nomunye akusho ukushintshana. Kuyinto ehluke kakhulu emuzwa wokuthi kufanele uzilungiselele ukuthandwa nokwamukelwa ... Ubudlelwano bungakugqugquzela ukuthi ube ngumuntu ongcono, futhi uyakwenza.
Ucabanga okufanayo uma kuziwa ekuphatheni imali
Uthando nemali kuyinkimbinkimbi. Kepha okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ngamunye wenu enza imali engakanani yilokho omunye nomunye wenu acabanga ukuthi kuyindlela efanele yokuphatha leyo mali. Ukuba nobudlelwano obufanayo nemali kukhulisa ukuhambisana kwesikhathi eside.
Ngakho-ke uma usebenzisa imali ongenayo kuleso sikhwama somklami esibizayo, futhi ungakhathazeki ngokuthi uzoba nesitoreji esanele uma kunezinkinga, amathuba akho okuphumelela othandweni nasempilweni amnyama.
Awudeli
Imibhangqwana ezimisele ngokuqhubeka nokusebenza, iqhubeke nokuzama, futhi ingapheli amandla imibhangqwana enendlela ephezulu kakhulu yokuhambisana futhi inethuba eliphakeme kakhulu lempumelelo yesikhathi eside. Imibhangqwana ezimisele ukuzidela ebudlelwaneni bayo ibinekhono elingcono ukuxazulula izinkinga zabo futhi babenamathuba amaningi okuba nemishado ehlala isikhathi eside futhi yaneliseke.