Izwa ukungathembeki komlingani, Kuyinto ngokuvamile ethinta abantu abaningi ngendlela ephawulekayo. Ukusabela kokungathembeki okusolwayo kozakwethu kungahlukahluka futhi kuzo zonke izinhlobo: kusukela esifisweni esinamandla sokuziphindiselela kumlingani kuye kumuzwa omkhulu wentukuthelo.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizoxoxa ngokuningiliziwe mayelana nokusabela okuhlukahlukene umuntu angaba nakho ngenxa yokungathembeki komlingani.
Izinto ezinomthelela lapho usabele ekungathembeki
Umuntu ngamunye uwumhlaba, ngakho akubona bonke abasabela ngendlela efanayo esenzweni sokungathembeki sombhangqwana. Umuntu angazizwa kabi ngempela mayelana neqiniso lokuhlupheka kokungathembeki ngokomzwelo futhi, ngokuphambene nalokho, athethelele umlingani por uhlushwa ukungathembeki ngokobulili okungavamile.
Ubuntu buyisihluthulelo futhi bubalulekile lapho usebenzelana nokungathembeki. Labo bantu abazethembayo nabanokuzethemba okuqinile bazolulama ngokushesha kakhulu kunabanye abangazethembi.
Ukuziphindiselela ngesenzo sokungathembeki
Kukhona abantu abaningi abakhetha ukuziphindiselela, lapho bebhekene nokungathembeki okuhlushwa umbhangqwana. Iyona ndlela kuphela yokubuyisela ukuzethemba okulimazayo. Ukuziphindiselela kuyisenzo esingavuthiwe sokubhekana nokungathembeki okubangelwa umbhangqwana.
Ngesenzo sokuziphindiselela, inhloso ukulimaza umbhangqwana ngangokunokwenzeka futhi ukukwazi ukudambisa isimo sokucasuka esijwayelekile sesenzo sokungathembeki. Kuyindlela yokudambisa ubuhlungu umuntu abuzwile ngenxa nje yokwazi ukuthi abashadikazi baphule ukwethembana okwakukhona ebudlelwaneni.
Isidingo sokubheka isigebengu lapho sibhekene nokungathembeki
Isenzo sokungathembeki kungaba ngokomzwelo noma ngokocansi kuwukuhlasela okuqondile kokuphepha kanye nokuzethemba komuntu olimele. Lokhu kudala ukuthi kuthungathwe isigebengu ngokushesha njengendlela yokuzivikela emonakalweni owenzekile.
Icala lingasebenza ngesikhathi esifushane, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi intukuthelo nobuhlungu kuyozuza indawo kumuntu okhohlisiwe. Okubalulekile ukuthola izimbangela ezidale ukungathembeki okunjalo futhi uziqonde ngaphezu kokuziqonda ukuze upholise amanxeba ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.
Iyiphi indlela yokusabela engcono kakhulu ekungathembeki komlingani?
Okubalulekile kunoma yikuphi ukuthi isenzo okukhulunywa ngaso yenza umuntu okhohlisiwe azizwe ejabule. Uma ukhetha ukuthethelela umlingani wakho, kufanele ukwenze ngeqiniso nangobuqotho. Umuntu ongathembekile kumelwe aphenduke ngempela futhi alwele ukubuyisela ukwethenjwa okulahlekile. Lokhu kuyinto ethatha isikhathi eside kodwa ngesineke nentshisekelo ingabuyiselwa futhi.
Endabeni yokungathetheleli ukungathembeki okukhulunywe ngakho ngenhla, kuhle ukuveza imizwa ehlukene ngendlela enempilo. kuze kube yilapho benqoba ukuhlasela okunjalo kokuthenjwa kombhangqwana. Ukuziphindiselela akuwona umqondo omuhle ngoba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kudala umonakalo ongokomzwelo okunzima ukuwunqoba. Isikhathi nokubekezela kuyisihluthulelo uma kuziwa ekukwazini ukunqoba isenzo esinjalo futhi ukwazi ukugqashula izibopho ezithintekayo umbhangqwana owawunabo. Kwezinye izimo kuhle ukuthi uye kuchwepheshe owazi ukuxazulula inkinga enjalo.
Ngamafuphi, ukuthola ukungathembeki komlingani akulula kunoma ubani futhi Ukusabela kukho akufani kubo bonke abantu. Ubuntu kanye nokuzethemba kanye nokuvuthwa kuzophawula ukusabela okuhlukile kokungathembeki. Akusizi ukusola omunye noma ukwenza ngendlela yokuphindisela ukuze umlimaze. Kuhle ukuveza imizwa eyahlukene ngendlela enempilo futhi uvule ikhasi ngendlela engcono kakhulu.