Imicabango emi-5 okufanele uyihlanganyele nomlingani wakho

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Bathi ukuphikisana kuyaheha, kepha ukuze babe nobudlelwano obunempilo nobenjabulo, Kunezinto ezithile okufanele uhlangane ngazo nomlingani wakho. Lokho wukuthi, indawo evumelana ngokufanele kunazo zonke zanoma ibuphi ubudlelwano ukuba nezintshisekelo ezifanayo ngezinto ezithile, kepha futhi nokwehluka okwanele.

Phela, ukuba nokwehluka kusho ukuthi nobabili ningazibonela ndawonye ndawonye, bonisani izinto ezihlukile, fundani izinto ezintsha futhi nenze nezinto enizithandayo nobabili. Kepha yiziphi izinto okufanele nifane ngazo nomlingani wakho ukuze ubudlelwano bube nobuhle futhi buqine isikhathi eside?

Izingane

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukufana nomlingani wakho umbono ngezingane. Uma omunye wenu ezimisele ngokuba nezingane kanti omunye akatholakali, lokho kuyinkinga enkulu. Uma uqhubeka nalo muntu ofuna okuthile ongakufuni, umosha isikhathi sakho.

Ekugcineni, uzozicasukela wena futhi uzothola ukuthi uzizwa unganelisekile. Futhi, bobabili bazoba nezingxoxo eziningi nokulwa ngalesi sihloko.

Amakhono omphakathi

Uma umlingani wakho eyi-extrovert futhi uyi-introvert, noma okuphambene nalokho, lapho-ke kunenkinga. Lokhu kungalungiswa kalula. Kodwa-ke, into enhle esingafanelana ngayo ngamakhono afanayo okuxhumana nabantu nemibono yezindawo zokuxhumana. Isibonelo, uma ufuna ukuya kudisco futhi bafuna ukuhlala, kuzoba nezinkinga eziningi, ngoba uzothola ukuthi le yinkinga ephindaphindayo.

Okusho ukuthi, kuzoba nokungezwani ebudlelwaneni benu ngoba omunye wenu uzogcina enza into eningayifuni. Yini enye, lokhu kuzokwenza nobabili ningenzi lutho ndawonye ngenxa yokuthanda okuhlukile.

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Matrimonio

Lapho ubheka ukuthi yini okufanele nifane ngayo nomlingani wakho, umqondo womshado ubaluleke kakhulu. Nobabili kufanele nibe ekhasini elilodwa enikulo kulesi sihloko. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma omunye wenu ephikisana nomqondo wokushada futhi efuna ukuba ndawonye kuze kube phakade ngaphandle kwephepha athi niyathandana. Ngenkathi enye ingxenye yombhangqwana. ubulokhu uphupha ngomshado omkhulu, lapho-ke kunenkinga.

Umuntu oyedwa

Akunandaba ukuthi ukuphi isigaba sobudlelwano, lokhu kubalulekile. Indlela enhle yokukhuluma ngalokhu ukwenza nje isiqiniseko sokuthi ukhetha wedwa futhi kuphela komunye nomunye.  Uma umlingani wakho enentshisekelo yokuhlola abantu abasha ngenkathi futhi enawe, sekuyisikhathi sokucabanga kabusha ngokuba nabo. Lokhu kuzoba yinto engadala uqhekeko olukhulu phakathi kwenu nobabili, kanye nokukhuthaza umona, ukungabaza, ingcindezi noma ukukhathazeka.

Ukugqugquzela

Uma umlingani wakho evila kakhulu, noma ezimisele kakhulu futhi uphikisana, ngakho-ke ngokuqinisekile akuyona umdlalo ophelele ezulwini. Akunandaba ukuthi kubani ebudlelwaneni onomdlandla, ugqozi, nesifiso sempumelelo uma kuqhathaniswa nokuba livila… kuzokulethela inkinga.

Eqinisweni, kuzoba nentukuthelo nezinye izinkinga ezizokonakalisa ubuhlobo bakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Lokho wukuthi, nobabili kudingeka nibe nokushayela okuningi nokukhuthaza, noma nobabili nidinga ukuba ngamavila nokukhululeka.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
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  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.