Akuvamile ukuthi umuntu ongazange enze ubuhlanya noma ubuwula bothando esikhathini esithile ekuphileni kwakhe. Iqiniso liwukuthi uthando lusivala ngokuphelele isizathu futhi asinandaba nakancane ukwenza izinto ezinjena ngaphandle kokubheka imiphumela engaba khona. Nokho, kuhle ukwazi ukufunda emaphutheni enziwe ukuze ubudlelwano besikhathi esizayo bugculise kakhulu ngazo zonke izindlela.
Ngakho-ke, kuhle ukwenza amaphutha futhi wenze iphutha emkhakheni wothando ngoba lokhu kusiza ubudlelwano bube nezithelo kakhulu ngazo zonke izindlela esikhathini esizayo. esihlokweni esilandelayo Sikhuluma ngoxhaxha lwamaphutha ajwayele ukuwenza abantu abaningi abathandanayo.
Akucaci ukuthi ufunani
Abantu abaningi abacaci ukuthi bafunani uma beqala ubudlelwano obuthile. Azidedele ahambe engabhekanga lutho. Kuyancomeka ukusungula uchungechunge lwezinjongo nemigomo futhi ucace ngalokho okufunayo lapho uqala ubudlelwano.
yenza umlingani wakho abe yingqondongqondo
Kuyinto evamile ukuthi ekuqaleni kokuthandana kukhona ukuthambekela kokucabangela othandekayo. Zonke ziyizici ezinhle futhi alukho uhlobo lwesici kumuntu othandekayo. Lapho uqala ubuhlobo obuthile nomuntu, kufanele ubeke eceleni umbono oshiwo ngenhla futhi uthandane nomuntu njengoba enjalo ngempela.
Ukuba nomaqondana ukuze ugweme isizungu
Ukuqala ubuhlobo obuthile ukuze ubalekele isizungu akukhuthazwa, ngoba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi imiphumela yakho ingaba yingozi futhi ibe yingozi ngempela. Umbhangqwana awunakuba ikhambi lezinkinga ezingokomzwelo nezingokwengqondo abanazo.
Kuvela ngendlela ehlukile ukuze ujabulise
Elinye lamaphutha amakhulu abantu abaningi abawenzayo uma beqala ubudlelwano wukuzibonakalisa ngendlela ehlukile ukuze bajabulise umaqondana. Kudalwe isithombe esihlanekezelwe nesihlukile esingahlangene neqiniso. Lokhu akusizi ngalutho ngoba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi iqiniso ligcina livela obala, lidale ukungajabuli okukhulu phakathi kwabashadikazi.
Yenza izinhlelo futhi ubeke imigomo nomlingani wakho kusenesikhathi
Akufanelekile neze ukubeka uchungechunge lwemigomo nezinhloso nomuntu othandekayo ekuqaleni noma ekuqaleni kobudlelwane. Ngokombono ongokomzwelo, okubaluleke kakhulu okwamanje kanye nesimanje. Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane kubalulekile ukwazi omunye umuntu ngokujulile ukuze uqinise isibopho somzwelo futhi ukwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo obuhle.. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kujwayelekile kubo bobabili abathintekayo Setha uchungechunge lwemigomo nokuhlosiwe futhi ubheke esikhathini esizayo.
Ukuthwala imithwalo yemizwa evela ebudlelwaneni bangaphambilini
Akulungile ukuqeda ubuhlobo obuthile bese uqala obusha nomunye umuntu ngokushesha. Kuyancomeka ukuba nesikhathi esithile sokukwazi ukucubungula lokho okwake kwenzeka phambilini futhi udlule ekulileni ubudlelwano obudlule ngaphandle kwenkinga. Kufanele ushiye umthwalo ongokomzwelo weminye imibhangqwana kusukela esikhathini esedlule eceleni, ngaphambi kokuqala ubuhlobo obusha nomuntu ohlukile.
Ngamafuphi, lawa amanye amaphutha abantu abaningi abavame ukuwenza lapho besungula ubuhlobo. Ukugwema noma yiliphi kulawa maphutha kungasiza ubudlelwano busebenze kangcono kakhulu. futhi ingahlala ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.