Noma ngabe benindawonye amasonto ama-3, izinyanga ezi-3, noma iminyaka engama-30, ukugubha uthando kuhlala kuyinto enhle. Ukuthola izinto zothando ongazenza ngosuku lwakho lokukhumbula kungaba mnandi, futhi kukunikeza ithuba lokujabulela okuthile enikufunayo nobabili kepha imvamisa abanalo ithuba lokwenza. Isikhumbuzo yisikhathi esikhethekile, ngakho-ke nobabili nifanelwe ukuchitha usuku lonke nibungaza uthando lwenu futhi nithobelana.
Uma uswela imibono yokugubha usuku lwakho lokuzalwa ngendlela yothando, ungaphuthelwa yile mibono ukuyenza ikhetheke kakhulu kunalokho obukucabanga ekuqaleni.
Buyela lapho wahlangana khona
Iyiphi indlela engcono yokugubha ingqophamlando ohambweni lwenu ndawonye kunokuphindela lapho kwaqala khona konke? Noma ngabe wahlangana okokuqala endaweni yokudlela kanokusho, umtapo wezincwadi, noma indawo yokudlela yasendaweni, into enhle ongayenza ukubuyela emuva ukuyenze kabusha. Ngakho-ke niyabona ukuthi nihambe ibanga elingakanani njengombhangqwana futhi niyikhumbule yonke leyo mizwa kuzokwenza uphinde uthandane.
Ipikiniki yezothando
Enye yezinto ezithandana kakhulu ongazenza osukwini lwakho lokuzalwa yisikhathi sokuba nepikinikini ekhethekile. Yibani nepikiniki ndawonye; thenga ukudla okuthandayo, ulungise ukudla ekhaya futhi ulungise ubhasikidi ndawonye. Bese uye endaweni ethule epaki nichithe usuku ndawonye.
Uma isikhumbuzo sakho siwela ebusika noma ungawuthandi umqondo wokuba ngaphandle, kungani ungahlali ezindlini? Dala inqaba ekhaya lakho ngewayini elincane kanye namakhandlela athile, ungakha ipikinikini esondelene futhi emangalisayo ekhaya.
Izipho ezenziwe ekhaya
Ngubani ongathandi ukwamukela isipho? Kepha kuhle futhi ukukwenza futhi ubone ubuso bomunye umuntu obumangele! Yenza isipho sakho okuthile okusho okuthile kumlingani wakho. Kwenze kube into ekukhumbuza noma emele ubudlelwano.
Ungenza i-scrapbook noma i-albhamu yezithombe ebhala isikhathi sakho ndawonye kuze kube manje. Uma unamakhono, ungapenda isithombe sakho osithandayo, ungazenzela ne-albhamu yomculo ekhethekile ... izinketho azipheli, kufanele unake ukwenza isipho sikhetheke.
Ukudla okukhethekile
Ungalungisa ukudla okukhethekile ekhaya, futhi kuzoba okukhetheke kakhulu uma kungavamisile ukuthi kube nguwe ophekayo ekhaya. Yize enye inketho ukuya endaweni yokudlela enhle oyithandayo noma obukade ufuna ukuya kuyo isikhathi eside. Noma kunjalo, inketho yokudlela isebenza kuphela uma kukhona amathuba ezomnotho okwenza kanjalo.
Yenza okuthile ongakaze ukwenze ngaphambilini
Chitha isikhathi sekhwalithi njengezithandani futhi nenze okuthile eningakaze nibe nethuba lokwenza phambilini. Lokhu kungaba yinoma yini ukusuka ekuthatheni isigaba sobumba kuya esibhakabhakeni sokuhamba esibhakabhakeni - amathuba awapheli njengokucabanga kwakho! Mhlawumbe uqala ukufuna izinto ezimnandi nezingafani nezinto ongazenza edolobheni lakho bese unquma ukuthi yiziphi izinto nobabili ongathanda ukuzenza.
Ingabe usuvele uyazi ukuthi uhlelo lwezothando luzoba yini kuwe ngosuku lwakho olukhethekile?