3 izici zezenhlalo ezonakalisa ubudlelwano bezithandani

ukungajabuli kwabashadile

Ukuqala kwawo wonke umbhangqwana kuvame ukungathandeki futhi kuphelele, ukunqoba okuhle kunokubi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, imibhangqwana eminingi ishiya i-idyll eshiwo ngenhla yokuqala futhi ingene esigabeni lapho ukuxhumana nokuhloniphana phakathi kwamaqembu kubonakala khona ngokungabikho kwayo. Ngakho-ke ukuntuleka kwezinto ezithile kungabangela ubudlelwano bufike esiphethweni noma bube nobuthi obuphelele.

Izici zezenhlalo zingase zibe nesibopho ukuthi umbhangqwana awusebenzi futhi kuba buthaka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokhuluma ngokuwohloka kobuhlobo obungase buphazamiseke nezici ezintathu zezenhlalo ezihilelekile ekuwohlokeni okunjalo.

Ukusebenza ngokweqile kanye nokuntuleka kwesikhathi

Sizithola sisemphakathini okhetha ukusebenza ngendlela elimaza ubudlelwano bomphakathi. Ukusebenza ngokweqile kuzodala ukuthi kukhona ukunganaki mayelana nobudlelwano bomphakathi. Lokhu kuholela ekuncikeni okuthile kumlingani ukuze kuzuzwe ukuqinisa okuthile komphakathi. Lokhu kuncika komphakathi ngokuvamile kubangela izimfuno ezithile zothando nothando okungajwayelekile ukuhlangatshezwana nazo. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, isikhathi sokuphumula noma isikhathi sokuphumula sibi kakhulu, into ezolimaza ngokuyingozi isibopho esidalwe phakathi kwezinhlangothi.

Izindima zabesilisa nabesifazane emphakathini

Akungabazeki ukuthi umphakathi uyathuthuka futhi ngenhlanhla isibalo sabesifazane siya ngokuya silingana nesamadoda. Inkinga ivela lapho kumbhangqwana othile lezi zindima ezintsha ezisungulwe umphakathi wamanje, abamukelwa yingxenye yesilisa yombhangqwana. Kodwa-ke, luselude ukhalo okusamele luhanjwe futhi wukuthi namuhla, basebaningi abesifazane abanezinkinga zokufinyelela imakethe yezemisebenzi futhi basaqhubeka nokuba nendima yokuba umama wekhaya phakathi kwabashadile. Lokhu kusho ukuthi bayaqhubeka nokuba yilungu elibuthaka kakhulu ebudlelwaneni futhi bazizwa bencike kakhulu kumlingani wabo.

izinkinga zocansi ezishadile

Uma kwenzeka owesifazane esebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya, umthwalo uba mkhulu kakhulu njengoba ephinde abe nomthwalo wemfanelo wemisebenzi yasekhaya. Konke lokhu kuvuna iqiniso lokuthi izingxabano eziningi zenzeka ezizodala ukuwohloka okukhulu ebudlelwaneni bombhangqwana. Uma lesi simo singayekwa, singabuqeda unomphela ubudlelwano.

umphakathi wabathengi

Siphila futhi ngokugcwele emphakathini wabathengi futhi yonke into ibe yinto eqinile yokufisa. Kuboniswa uchungechunge lwezithandani ezingezona zangempela nezenziwe kahle Abahlanganise lutho nomhlaba wangempela. Lokhu kucabanga kwenza imibhangqwana eminingi ibhekane neqiniso elingafani nalokhu okuthengiswa umphakathi. Lokhu, njengokujwayelekile, kunomthelela ongemuhle ekusaseni lombhangqwana, kudala ubudlelwano obungagculisi nhlobo obungazuzisi noma yiliphi iqembu. Ngakho-ke, kufanele sibalekele lokho okukhuthazwa yilo mphakathi wabathengi futhi siqaphele ukuthi umhlaba wangempela unikeza ini ngempela.

Ngamafuphi, kunezici eziningi zezenhlalo ezizoba nomthelela ngqo ebudlelwaneni. Leli thonya lingaba elihle kodwa futhi libe libi futhi eze ukuwohloka umbhangqwana. Uma lokhu kokugcina kwenzeka, kubalulekile ukubheka amanani ahlukene kanye nemikhuba yansuku zonke ekhona kumbhangqwana futhi kusukela lapho uqinisekise ukuthi ubudlelwano abubukelwa phansi. Uthando kanye nokukhulumisana okuhle nenhlonipho kuyisihluthulelo sokujabulela ngokugcwele ubudlelwano obunempilo obungenazo izinto ezinobuthi ezingaba khona.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.