Uninzi lwabantu luhlala ludibanisa ukungathembeki kwinqanaba lezesondo, Nangona kunjalo, into eyaziwa ngokuba kukungathembeki ngokweemvakalelo inokwenzeka. Kule meko, ukungcatshwa kweqabane kwenzeka ngendlela efanelekileyo. Oku kungathembeki kuchazwe ngasentla kunzima kakhulu ukukufumanisa kunokungathembeki ngokwesondo kwaye kuqheleke kakhulu kunokuba ucinga.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha ngolu hlobo lokungathembeki, oonobangela balo kunye ingoyiswa njani.
Ukungathembeki ngokweemvakalelo okanye ngokwasemphefumlweni
Njengokungathembeki kwezesondo, ukunganyaniseki ngokweemvakalelo kukungcatsha okukhulu kwesi sibini kwaye kuhlala kungoyena ndoqo wokuqhekeka kwanamhlanje. Ukungathembeki ngokweemvakalelo kukho inkohliso ngokubhekisele kwiqabane, kuba indlela yeemvakalelo nenomdla kumntu wesithathu yenzeka. Kwimeko ezininzi, ukungathembeki kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba elinye lamaqabane lodwa ngokweemvakalelo.
Ukunganyaniseki ngokweemvakalelo kunokubangela intlungu enkulu kumntu ophethwe yiyo. Ingathathelwa ingqalelo ibaluleke kakhulu kunokungathembeki ngokwesondo kwaye kukuba kukho ukushiywa ngokupheleleyo phakathi kwesi sibini sento yovakalelo kunye nefuthe. Ingxaki enkulu ngolu hlobo lokungathembeki kungenxa yokuba kunzima kakhulu ukufumanisa ngaphandle kokungathembeki ngokwesondo.
Zithini izizathu zokungathembeki ngokweemvakalelo
Zininzi izizathu okanye izizathu ezinokukhokelela ekubeni umntu akhohlise ngokweemvakalelo kwiqabane lakhe. Ukusilela konxibelelwano kunye nokukwazi ukuveza iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo, Unokubangela umntu ukuba athathe isigqibo sokufumana uthando ngaphandle kolwalamano. Ukunqongophala kweempawu zothando okanye ukuthandana kwesi sibini kuhlala kungunobangela wolu hlobo lokungathembeki. Khumbula ukuba uthando kufuneka lukhathalelwe yonke imihla kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukunqongophala kwexesha kwenza abantu abaninzi baphele bengahoyi ubudlelwane babo nabanye abantu.
Ukuhlala kunye nokuzonwabisa kwisibini esinye sezona zinto zibangela ukungathembeki ngokweemvakalelo. Inxalenye enesiphene, uthatha isigqibo sokujonga ngaphandle into angenayo kubudlelwane. Into eqhelekileyo kukuba ukuba isibini sisempilweni kwaye kukho unxibelelwano oluhle phakathi kwabo, oku kungathembeki kuchazwe apha ngasentla ngekhe kwenzeke.
Ungakudlula njani ukungathembeki ngokweemvakalelo
Njengokwesondo, Kunzima kakhulu ukukoyisa ukungathembeki okuchaphazelekayo. Ngamanye amaxesha, le nkohliso ihlala ithetha ukuphela kwesibini kwaye kwezinye iimeko, kwenziwa iinzame zokufumana isisombululo sokugcina ubudlelwane. Kubalulekile ukuba uqalise kwakhona unxibelelwano oluhle kwakhona kwaye uthethe izinto ngokucacileyo nesibini.
Ekuqaleni kunokuba nzima kodwa kubalulekile ukubeka ecaleni umsindo, inzondo okanye ingqumbo kwaye uzame ukujika iphepha ngokukhawuleza. Ukucela ukuxolelwa kunye nokwamkela uxolelo kubalulekile kwaye kubalulekile, ukwenzela ukuba isibini sikwazi ukuphinda siqengqeleke kwakhona ngaphandle kwengxaki.