Ukuxhatshazwa kwengqondo ngumlingani yinto engafanelekanga ukuba ivunyelwe phantsi kwayo nayiphi na imeko ekubeni iziphumo zokuphathwa gadalala okunjalo zinokubulala kwaye zibe mbi kakhulu kumntu oxhatshaziweyo. Olu hlobo loxhatshazo lungcwatywa kwaye alubonakali njengoko lwenzeka ngokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni. Ukuba ayinqunyulwa kwangexesha ize ipheliswe, impilo yeemvakalelo yomntu uxhatshaziweyo yonakaliswa ngokunzulu nabo bonke ububi obubandakanya oku.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha nawe yeziphumo zokuxhatshazwa ngokwasengqondweni kwesi sibini.
I-sequelae kunye neziphumo zomntu oxhatshazwe ngokwengqondo ngumlingani
Kukho iziphumo ezininzi zokuxhatshazwa ngokuqhubekayo ngokwasengqondweni liqabane:
- Esona siphumo siphambili sokuxhatshazwa ngokwasengqondweni liqabane, Kukulahlekelwa sisidima kunye nokuzithemba. Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ekuhambeni kwexesha umntu oxhatshaziweyo akaxatyiswa okanye ahlonitshwe. Ukuba ukuxhatshazwa kuyaqhubeka yaye akuyekwa, umntu oxhatshazwa ngolo hlobo usenokucinga njengento entle ukuba iqabane limjongele phantsi yaye limphathe kakubi.
- Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasengqondweni kuya kubangela ukuba umntu avale kwihlabathi lakhe kwaye aqale ukuhamba kude nesangqa sakhe esisondeleyo sosapho kunye nabahlobo. Ubulolo buhlasela ubomi bomntu oxhatshaziweyo kwaye abanxibelelani ngokuncinci nabanye abantu.
- Kuqhelekile ukuba umntu oxhatshazwe ngokweemvakalelo liqabane lakhe ekugqibeleni adandatheke. Ukuzithemba kunye nokuzithemba kubonakala ngokungabikho kwabo, nto leyo ebangela ukuba kungabikho luhlobo lwentshukumisa yokuphila.
- Ukuhla nokunyuka kweemvakalelo kuqhelekile ekuxhatshazweni kwengqondo, okugqiba ukuguqulelwa kwixhala kunye neengxaki zoxinzelelo. Ezi ngxaki zijongela phantsi kancinci kancinci impilo yeemvakalelo yomntu oxhatshaziweyo ngabo bonke ububi obubandakanya oku.
- I-blackmail yeemvakalelo ihlala isetyenziswa ngumxhaphazi kwaye Oku kuya kuvelisa iimvakalelo zokuziva unetyala kumntu oxhatshaziweyo.
wafunda ukungakwazi ukuzinceda
Le syndrome idla ngokuphathwa ngabo bantu basoloko bephathwa kakubi liqabane labo nabavumayo ukuhlala ngaloo ndlela bengenzi nto ngayo. Ngale ndlela bathatha isigqibo sokuthoba iingalo zabo kwaye baphile ngoxhatshazo njengenxalenye yobomi babo. Ukungabi nakuzinceda okunjalo kubenza bangafuni ukulwa nokuphelisa ubuhlobo nomxhaphazi. Ngumntu othatha isigqibo sokuqhubeka nesi sibini nangona ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasengqondweni kusemini. Kubalulekile ukuba ungafiki kweli nqanaba njengoko kunzima kakhulu kumntu oxhatshaziweyo ukwamkela ukuba uphatheke gadalala kwaye banokuluphelisa ubudlelwane.
Ngamafutshane, Ukuphathwa gadalala ngokwasengqondweni okanye ngokweemvakalelo kusekukhanyeni kwemini kwaye ngelishwa kukho abafazi abaninzi ababandezeleka kuyo rhoqo. Njengoko ubonile, kukho iziphumo ezininzi kwisifundo, yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuphelisa olu budlelwane bunetyhefu ngokukhawuleza.