Ukuba siyayicinga, ayisiyiyo enye yezo zinto zisandula ukufika, kodwa ikukuhlala. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba kwintwasahlobo okanye ekwindla uthatha isigqibo sokuvela, kuba sonke siyakulinda loo mzuzu mkhulu. Ibhulukhwe 'yokwahlula' iseyintandokazi enkulu kwezi nyanga.
Ngaba uyabazi? Ngaba sele unazo kwikhabhathi yakho okanye unazo kwinkangeleko yakho entle? Ewe kunjalo, nokuba kunjalo okanye akunjalo, siza kukuxelela ukuba kutheni bephumelele kangaka kwaye singabadibanisa njani ngokokugqitywa kwabo. Uphengululo lweyona nto ikhethekileyo kwingubo ekwakhethekileyo.
Yintoni 'iblukhwe' yokwenene?
Kwelinye icala, zezona zibhulukhwe zisisiseko. Oku sikuthetha njengesiseko kuba kuyinyani ukuba singazifumana kwiziphelo ezahlukeneyo ngohlobo lwamalaphu. Ukusukela oko kuphela apho sinokuthi sinxibe imeko yonke imihla yeveki. Ngenxa yoko, ukuqala kuyo, Ezona mpawu ziphambili zefashoni enje kukuba zinokuvula kwindawo esezantsi yomlenze. Ukuvulwa okunokuthi ngamanye amaxesha kube licala okanye uhlobo lwangaphambili. Kuba njengoko sisazi, ukusukela oko into iphumelele, kuyakubakho ukhetho kuzo zonke izinto ozithandayo kunye nezitayile. Ngaphandle kokuba bekwazi ukwenziwa ngamalaphu ahlukeneyo njengoko besitshilo, bahlala begqibile kwaye isinqe sabo siya kuba siphakamileyo.
Kutheni le ndlela yokunxiba iphumelele kangaka?
Ezibhityileyo, ezomileyo… zininzi iindlela zeebhulukhwe esizaziyo nesizinxiba mihla le. Ke, Zithini iibhulukhwe 'zokwahlulahlula' ukuphawula lo mkhwa mhle kangaka? Ewe kubonakala ngathi sinayo icace gca kwaye kukuba kwelinye icala uya kuziva ukuba isilhouette yakho yenziwe isitayile, kuba iyayinceda ukuba ibe nde ngakumbi, umbulelo ococekileyo kubude obukhethekileyo bengubo.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba imilenze yakho imfutshane, iya kukulungela. Kungenxa yokuba njengoko besesitshilo, ukuba nokubanakho ukungaboni, iyakwenza imilenze yakho ivele ixesha elide, eseluncedo olukhulu. Ukugqiba, baphakame kakhulu kwaye oku kusenza ukuba 'sithathe' ngakumbi kwindawo esinqeni nasesiswini, kuba yenye yezona ndawo zisikhathaza kakhulu xa kufikwa kumba wokunxiba.
Uyidibanisa njani ibhulukhwe 'yokwahlulahlula'
Ngoku ekubeni sizazi zonke izibonelelo zabo, kufanelekile ukuba sazi nokuba singazidibanisa njani. Ewe, ilula ngokwenene. Kungenxa yokuba uninzi lwenziwe ngelaphu kunye nokugqitywa okuhle. Ke ukhetho olufanelekileyo kukubheja ibhatyi yeblazer kwaye uhamba kunye nokujonga kunye nejezi entle okanye iblawuzi, kuxhomekeke kwimozulu.
Ukubheja izihlangu ngesithende esincinci. Kuba baya kuba zezinye ii-protagonists ezinkulu ukongeza kwiibhulukhwe ngokwazo. Ngombulelo kuvulo baya kubonakala ngaphezulu kunakuqala, ngaphandle kwento yokuba isambatho ekuthethwa ngaso sinobude obuchaziweyo esithe sathetha ngabo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba udibanise izihlangu neebhulukhwe ngokwazo, ungayenza ngebhatyi oyinxibileyo ngelo xesha okanye ngombala wengubo yakho ephezulu. Ukuba ubona ukuba ibhulukhwe yakho ineenkcukacha ezithe kratya apho kuvulwa khona, kuya kufuneka ukhethe izihlangu ezilula ukuze ungagqithisi inkangeleko yokugqibela.
Ukuba zibhityile okanye zenziwe ngelaphu, emva koko sibheja kwi-blazer, iblawuzi okanye ijezi. Kodwa ukuba isitayile seenkomo, ke iintloko zinokuhamba ngokudibeneyo kunye nokugqitywa okusisiseko. kodwa uhlala ekhululekile. Into elungileyo malunga nale meko kukuba akukho mthetho mnye, kuba kuxhomekeke kwisitayile sebhlukhwe esinokuthi sithathe isigqibo. Ngaphandle koko yonke into iya kuba ngaphezulu kokukhulu!