Ukungcungcuthekiswa ngokweemvakalelo, ngelishwa, kukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwizibini ezininzi zanamhlanje. Umlawuli uya kwenza ngokuzingca kwaye ajonge iimfuno zabo ngamaxesha onke.
Uyakwazi ukutyhola iqabane lakho rhoqo ukuze limenze azive engalunganga kwaye enetyala. Obu budlelwane bunetyhefu yokwenene obungenakho kwaye obungavumelekanga phantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko.
Iinjongo okanye oonobangela bokungcungcuthekiswa ngokweemvakalelo
- Zininzi izizathu zokuba kutheni umntu enokuthi abe li-blackmailer ngokweemvakalelo kulwalamano oluthile. Esinye sezizathu eziqhelekileyo kukuba nokuzithemba okuphantsi kakhulu.
- Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantu bafumanisa ukuba banesi sifo ngengxaki yomda wobuntu kunye nokuzithemba okuphezulu, Banokusebenzisa ubuqhetseba kunye neqabane ukuba bazive bonwabile kwaye bomeleze ubuntu babo.
- Ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo sesinye isizathu sokubambisa ukusuka komnye umntu uye komnye. Uloyiko olukhoyo lokuba ixhoba linokumshiya, yenza i-manipulator ikwenze uzive ungalunganga ngendlela engaguquguqukiyo.
Izixhobo ezisetyenziswa ngumphathi wecala
Umnyama okanye umphathi weemvakalelo uhlala enezixhobo ezahlukeneyo zokumnceda ukuba afezekise injongo yakhe kulwalamano:
- Izisongelo zihlala ziqhelekile ukufaka uloyiko kwixhoba. Kuqhelekile ukugrogrisa ngokuzibulala ukuba omnye umntu uyakushiya okanye uphelisa ubudlelwane. Ngale ndlela, uloyiko lwenza ukuba ixhoba lizive libotshelelwe kubudlelwane babo.
- Esinye sezixhobo ezisetyenziswa kakhulu li-blackmailer ngokweemvakalelo kukubonisa umsindo wakhe ngokuthula. Oku kwenza ukuba ixhoba licinge ukuba nguye onetyala kuyo yonke into. Ukuziphatha ngokungacacanga yenye yezona zinto zicace gca kukungcungcuthekiswa ngokweemvakalelo.
- Ubundlobongela yenye yeendlela ezisetyenziswa ngumlawuli xa kufikwa ekufumaneni into ayifunayo kwisibini esitshatileyo. Kuyo yonke imilo okanye iingxoxo isikhohlisi sidlala indima yexhoba.
- Izinto ezithembisayo ezingaze zifezekiswe sesinye sezixhobo ezicacileyo ezisetyenziswa sisiqwengana semvakalelo. Kuqhelekile ukuthembisa ngokuthe rhoqo iqabane lakho ukuba uza kutshintsha, xa kungenzeki.
- Ukwenza ixhoba liziva linetyala ngayo yonke into sesinye sezicwangciso ezisetyenziswa kakhulu ngabaphethe kakubi ngokweemvakalelo. Ayisiyonto ngaphandle kokuxhatshazwa ngokupheleleyo kwengqondo, oko kuphelisa ukumjongela phantsi umntu ophethwe yile nto.
Ngelishwa, Baninzi abantu abangaziqondiyo ukuba bayasetyenziswa ngokwasemphefumlweni ngamaqabane abo. Uncedo losapho kunye nabahlobo lubalulekile ekuncedeni ixhoba ukuba liphelise ubudlelwane obunetyhefu. Kwiimeko ezininzi, i-blackmail ngokweemvakalelo yomelele kwaye iyaqhubeka kangangokuba badinga uncedo kwiingcali ukuze bakhe ubomi babo kwakhona. Iqhelekile into yokuba ixhoba libe nomsinga obonakalayo weemvakalelo ekufuneka unyangwe ngokukhawuleza, ukuthintela ububi obukhulu.