Ungazi njani ukuba ifuna nje ukukwenza ube nesiyezi

Yazi ukuba ikwenza ube nesiyezi

Namhlanje thina sinxibelelana ngokulula kakhulu nge social networks kwaye kulula ukudibana nabantu abaninzi nangexesha elinye. Oku kuthetha ukuba ubudlelwane butshintshile kwaye kukho abantu abaninzi abachitha iintsuku zabo besenza ubudlelwane ngonxibelelwano nangona bengafuni ukuba nomntu. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka uyazi ukuba ufuna nje ukwenza ukuba ube nesiyezi okanye unomdla kuwe.

Omnye abantu abafuna nje ukukwenza dizzy baya kubonisa umdla kuwe kwaye uya kucinga ukuba kukho into ayifuna ngokwenene kodwa akayifuni. Oku kukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo ngenxa yokukhululeka kweintanethi zentlalo ukubonisa umdla kwabanye ngokuthanda okanye ukuphawula. Ngoko ke, kulunge ngakumbi ukuba ucace ngezi zinto ukuze uphephe ukuvakalelwa kukuba umntu ongayi kufuna nantoni na emdibanisa nawe.

Bonisa umdla ngamanye amaxesha

Dibana nomntu

Ukuba umntu unomdla kuwe, uya kuba nomdla ngalo lonke ixesha. Oko kukuthi, nangona sinokuziphazamisa okanye senze ezinye izinto, inyaniso yeyokuba uyazi ukuba umntu omthandayo uya kumhoya kwaye akusayi kubakho amaxesha apho unokusuka nje ungamhoyi. Abo banesiyezi badla ngokubonakalisa umdla wesiquphe, kuxhomekeke kwizinto abanomdla kuzo nangaliphi na ixesha. Ngenye iveki uya kuba yinto ebaluleke kakhulu, uya kuthetha nawe, akunike ukuthanda okanye abone amabali akho okokuqala, okanye zonke ngaxeshanye, aze aqalise ukuba nokungakhathali okuthile. Luhlobo lokuziphatha omaziyo umntu onomdla kwaye ofuna ukwenza umdla kuwe ngekhe ubenayo.

Iyahamba xa usondela

Oku akunakusilela. Abembi bafuna ukuba ube nomdla, bondla ingqalelo yakho kunye nento oyiyo ngokwenene Into abayifunayo kukugcwalisa i-ego yabo ngaloo ngqalelo oyixelayo kubo.. Yiyo loo nto xa usondele kakhulu, ufuna ukuba nento engaphezulu, into abaya kuyenza kukuhamba. Uyazi ukuba umntu oneemvakalelo ngawe uya kusebenzisa ithuba lokuba uye kuye kungekhona ngokuchaseneyo. Ngoko uya kwazi ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo ukuba ujongene nomntu odlalayo kwaye uyonwabele ingqalelo omnika yona kodwa ongenanjongo yakuze akwazi okanye abe nento yokwenza nawe. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba ucacile ngale nto, ngokukhawuleza uya kuyeka ukuba nomdla kolu hlobo lwabantu abadlala ngeemvakalelo zabanye.

Awusoze uhlale

Phakathi kolu hlobo lwabantu kukho abathile abaphelela ekubeni babe nesiyezi ngee social networks. Abanye bade bazame ukudibana naloo mntu benze izicwangciso. Ukuba uninzi lwexesha okanye uninzi lwazo utshintsha izicwangciso okanye uzirhoxise ngaphandle kwesizathu Ezinye zezokuba ujongene nomntu ongakuthathi njengeyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe. Akufanele ube ngoyena mntu wesibini okanye wesithathu ukhetho kwaye ukuba awuzixabisi ngokwakho nabo abayi kukwenza. Ngoko ukuba uphawula ukuba awungoyena ubalulekileyo ngokwenene kuloo mntu, kubhetele uhambe uye kuyeka ukuhlanganisana.

Bonisa umdla xa uhamba

Thumela imiyalezo

Abo bafumana isaziso esinesiyezi ngokugqibeleleyo xa omnye umntu eqala ukuphelelwa ngumdla okanye ezama ukubahoya. Ekubeni behlala befuna ukuzalisa i-ego yabo, into abaya kuyenza ukuba uhamba kwaye uyeka ukunikela ingqalelo kubo kukuba nomdla kuwe kwakhona. Ukuthandwa kuya kubuyela kwizithuba zakho, bona amabali akho, phawula kwaye uzame ukufumana wonke umdla kwihlabathi. Nangona kunjalo, yimbonakaliso yemfuno ekufuneka banyuse i-ego yabo kwakhona kwaye babonise ukuba siya kubalinda kwakhona ngomnxeba omnye. Eyona nto ingcono esinokuyenza kwezi meko kukuqhubeka singamhoyi loo mntu okanye simthintele ngokuthe ngqo ukubathintela ukuba baqhubeke becinga ukuba siza kuchitha ixesha silinde into engasoze ifike.


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