Ebomini, siya kufumana uvuyo oluninzi njengeentlungu ... Yiloo nto ukuhlala kuyo kubandakanya, ngaphakathi Unamaxesha osizi ukwazi ukuba ungasixabisa njani isipho sobomi. Ke ngoko, ayikaze ibe buhlungu ukufunda kwaye unamanqaku afana nalawa siwabonisa namhlanje kufutshane nathi: "Ungavusa njani ukucinga okuqinisekileyo: izikhokelo neengcebiso".
Nokuba uyapasa ukulahlekelwa ngumzila, ngokungathi khange u "vuke" kwaye wenze yonke into oyifunayo emini ngenxa yokunqongophala komnqweno okanye amandla, eli nqaku liza kuba luncedo kakhulu, ukuba nje usebenzise ingcebiso nganye nganye sikunika.
Ngaba uyafuna ukutshintsha imikhwa yakho yemihla ngemihla yokungakhathali nokungakhathali ukuze ube sempilweni, usebenze ngakumbi kwaye wonwabe? Ewe, qhubeka usifunda kwaye ufumanise ukuba zeziphi na izikhokelo ezicetyiswayo.
Fumana ibhalansi
Ngamanye amaxesha siyabhida ukucinga okuqinisekileyo okukhuthazayo, kwaye zizinto ezimbini ezahluke kwaphela. Ngamanye amaxesha siyakhuthazeka ukuba siqhubeke nomsebenzi kodwa ekucingeni kwethu sineentandabuzo zokuba ziya kuhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ukuze lo msebenzi uhambe njengoko kufanelekile kufuneka kubekho ibhalansi phakathi kwenkuthazo esiqala ukuyenza kunye nokucinga kwethu ngayo. Ngale ndlela siza kuyifumana impumelelo esiyifunayo, kokubini kwindawo yokusebenza nakwihlabathi lobuqu.
Ke ngoko, ukuba ufuna ukwenza iprojekhthi yakho oyibekele ixesha elide, ukuba ufuna ukuqala ukutya kunye nokuzilolonga ukuze ujongeke ngcono kwaye uzive usempilweni kwaye ugcwele amandla, emva kokufunda ezi ngcebiso, lelona xesha lilungileyo lokuqalisa. Nangona kunjalo, kwaye njengenyaniso ebaluleke kakhulu: kuxhomekeke kumthamo wakho wokuzama nokunyamezela.
Iingcebiso kunye nezikhokelo
- Zama ukuqonda ukucinga kwakho ngokubala ukusuka kwi-10. Ngexesha lokubala ukubala kuya kusuka kwishumi kuye kwi-zero, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ekugqibeleni kwayo, uya kuqala ngamandla kwaye unyanzele umsebenzi owenzayo. Ngale ndlela nawe uyakuthi usebenze ngenxa yokukholelwa hayi ngokuqhutywa yimpembelelo.
- Hayi elidlulileyo okanye elizayo, kuphela ngoku. Gxila apha kwaye ngoku, ungalili ngenxa yento enokuba yayikho kwaye yayingeyiyo, okanye eyokuba iya kuba yintoni ukusukela ngoku. Ubomi bakha umzuzu ngomzuzu, imihla ngemihla ... Phila nganye yezo ntsuku kwaye udibanise.
- Zijikeleze nabantu abanethemba abathembayo kunye namathuba akho. Aba bantu banakho ukuhambisa iingcinga zabo ezonwabileyo nezakhayo kuthi. Ngokuchasene noko, hlala kude nabanye abasusa amandla kunye namandla. Yithi ndlela ntle "kumasela okomoya."
- Phucula ilizwe lakho. Siye sakha saphupha ukuba iimfazwe ziya kuyeka ukubakho emhlabeni, ukuba kungabikho mntu uya kulamba, ukuba imililo etshabalalisa indalo yethu ibingayi kubakho, njl. Yinyani? Ndinqwenela ukuba singayenza yonke loo nto ngomlinganiselo omkhulu, kodwa singathatha uxanduva kwaye sibe ngabanini bezinga elincinci kodwa elilinganayo okanye elisebenzayo. Phucula indawo okujikelezileyo, eyona ndawo ikufutshane kuwe: yiba nobubele kubantu abakungqongileyo, wenze ngokuzithandela ubuncinci kube kanye ebomini bakho, nikela ngegazi, ngononophelo ukhathalele umntu osele ekhulile okanye umntwana osesibhedlele, njl. Sonke sinokutshintsha umhlaba, okanye ubuncinci inxenye yawo ...
- Yenza ulwimi lwakho lube lolulungileyo. Sukusebenzisa amagama amabi, yiba nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo ngolwimi lwakho, ungabi ngumntu owoyisileyo, njl.
- Funda into entsha yonke imihla. Imvakalelo yokulala ufundile into entsha ngalo mhla iyamangalisa. Sukuyeka ukufunda! Umhlaba mkhulu kwaye ulwazi lwawo alunakubalwa. Ukuba uyayithanda imbali, yiphande; Ukuba, kwelinye icala, uyayithanda isayensi, fumana malunga nenkqubela phambili yezonyango kunye namayeza; Ukuba into oyithandayo ikhompyuter, funda ukusebenzisa inkqubo entsha okanye usetyenziso… Zininzi iindlela onokukhetha kuzo kwaye zonke zilungile!
- Imfezeko ayikho. Ndinqwenela ukuba yonke into igqibelele! Okanye hayi! Ukufezeka akukho nokuba kufanelekile, kuba yintoni? Iya kuba yindinisa yonke, andithi? Ke ngoko, musa ukuzenza ugqibelele kwizinto ozenzayo ... Musa ukuzibek 'ityala ngokungazenzi kakuhle izinto. Ngokukhawuleza uthatha oku kungafezeki kwendalo kwezinto, ngokukhawuleza uya kugxila kwinto ebaluleke ngokwenene: kwinto onokuyilawula.
Ucinga ntoni ngezi zimvo kunye neengcebiso zokutshintsha indlela esicinga ngayo kwaye siyenze ibe ntle ngakumbi? Ngaba uza kuyisebenzisa?