Ukuba ukhe weva nge Umgaqo we-90/10 ngokwe isayikholojisti Kodwa awukaze unake ukuba yayiyintoni okanye kwakungacacanga kuwe ngelo xesha, apha kweli nqaku, siyakuxelela ukuba yintoni ... Kwaye sikwenza ngendlela ebonakalayo, sisebenzisa imizekelo.
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Khawufane ucinge ukuba usekhaya, nokuba kusekuseni kwaye unika umntwana wakho isidlo sakusasa ngaphambi kokuba aye esikolweni. Ngalo mzuzu, ngokuzola "othandekayo", unyana wakho uchitha ikofu yakho kwibhulukhwe yakho. Okwalo mzuzu, ukhwaza unyana wakho kunye nomyeni wakho okanye umfazi wakho ngokubeka ikomityi yekofu kude kube semacaleni kwetafile. Uyeka kwangoko ukutya isidlo sakusasa, khawuleza utshintshe iimpahla zakho kwaye xa ubuyela ekhitshini, unyana wakho uyaqhubeka nokukhala ngenxa yomlo wangaphambili kwaye naye akakayigqibi nokutya isidlo sakusasa ukuze amse esikolweni. Umfazi wakho okanye umyeni wakho naye ufike emva kwexesha, oko ebecoca kwaye ethatha ubumdaka obushiyeke ngelixa uyokutshintsha iimpahla zakho.
Njengokuba ufike emva kwexesha, usiya nonyana wakho esikolweni esophula imithetho yendlela. Ufike emva kwexesha emsebenzini kwaye uyaqonda ukuba ushiye amanye amaxwebhu ebewufuna ngala mhla ekhaya. Yonke into ihamba kakubi ngokoluvo lwakho kwaye ibali alipheli apho, kodwa xa ubuyela ekhaya, basenovalo ngayo yonke into eyenzekileyo.
Lixesha lokuba uzibuze lo mbuzo: Kutheni usuku lwakho belubi kangaka?
- Unyana wakho wayichitha ikofu.
- Khange akwazi ukufika ngexesha ekhuselekileyo esikolweni.
- Ufike kade emsebenzini.
- Usabele kakubi kule meko.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, okokuqala, uya kutshintshisa ukhetho 1, 2 kunye no-3 njengokwenza izizathu, ngaphambi kokuba ekugqibeleni uqaphele ukuba ekuphela kwengxaki yokuba usuku lwakho lubi kukuba usabele into yokuqala ekuseni kwimeko eyenzekileyo, kwaye Ukwanda kokungahambi kakuhle kwiiyure. Ngale ndlela, wonakalisile kokubini umhla wakho kunye nowabanye abakungqongileyo.
Awunakwenza nto malunga nekhofi echithekileyo, nangona kunjalo, ewe unokusabela ngokwahlukileyoEndaweni yokuba ungxolise umntwana wakho, unokumxelela ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo kwaye ulumke kwixesha elizayo. Ukulawula imeko yokuqala emva kwengozi, yonke into ibiya kwahluka: ubuya kuhlala ngoxolo lwengqondo, ngekhe ushiye amaxwebhu akho alibalekile ekhaya kwaye ngekhe ufike emva kwexesha emsebenzini.
Oku kubonisa indlela iimeko ezimbini ezifanayo eziqala ngendlela efanayo, ziphela ngokwahlukileyo.
Ke ngoku oku kunxulumene nantoni Umgaqo we-90/10? I-10% yezinto ezenzeka kuthi zixhomekeke kwinto esinokuyilawula. I-90% eseleyo ixhomekeke kuphela kwindlela esisabela ngayo kwi-10% yangaphambili. Funda ukusabela ngendlela eya kuthi ungonakalisi usuku lwakho okanye olwabanye. Kulula oko!
Kwaye ukuba ayisuki iphume… Bala ukusuka ku-1 ukuya ku-10 kwaye ingqondo yakho mayiphumle.