Ubuthi abuyongxaki eyenzeka kubantu abadala kuphela, kuba kusenokubakho nabantwana abanetyhefu. Umntwana oneengxaki zokuziphatha angadala umonakalo omkhulu kwi-nucleus yosapho.
Ukuba abazali baqaphela ukuba umntwana wabo uneendlela ezithile zokuziphatha, kubalulekile ukuba ubone ingcali ngokukhawuleza, ukulungisa ingxaki enjalo yokuziphatha. Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela iimpawu ezahlukileyo zabantwana abanetyhefu okanye oozwilakhe kunye nento omele uyenze ngayo.
Ungawuchonga njani uMntwana oNetyhefu okanye uMtyholi
Akunzima ukufumanisa umntwana onetyhefu kuba uhlala enobukrwada kunesiqhelo kwaye abalihloniphi igunya. Kuqhelekile ukuba xa ujongene nale meko, ubudlelwane babazali-bomtshato buba buthathaka kule minyaka idlulileyo. Emva koko sikubonisa ngendlela eneenkcukacha, ezona zinto zibalulekileyo zabantwana abanetyhefu:
- Olona phawu lubalulekileyo okanye uphawu kukungathobeli igunya kunye nokutsiba imigaqo ebekiweyo kusapho. Benza into abayifunayo nokuba bathini abanye.
- Abaqheleki ukuthatha impendulo kuba bekholelwa ukuba bafanelwe yiyo yonke into. Xa kukho into engahambi kakuhle, basabela ngogonyamelo nangomsindo omkhulu.
- Aba ngabantwana abanovelwano oluncinci kwaye abavakalelwa nto xa besenza iintlungu kwabanye abantu. Kwimeko yosapho, bathambekele ekuphatheni abazali babo ngendlela ethoba isidima nangendlela ebajongela phantsi.
- Ukuziphatha kwabantwana abanetyhefu kuhlala kunokuba ndlongondlongo kwaye kuhlawuliswe ngomsindo. Bahlala behlasela abanye abantwana kunye nabazali babo.
- Olunye uphawu oluqhelekileyo kubantwana abanetyhefu luqhele ukukhohlisa. Xa kufikwa ekufumaneni into enokubanceda, banakho ukukhohlisa nabani na.
Kutheni kukho abantwana abanetyhefu
Abazali abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba ingaba ityhefu Yinto ezelwe emntwaneni okanye sisiphumo semfundo embi. Kungenzeka ukuba le ndlela yokuziphatha engalunganga ibangelwe yingxaki yemfuza engqondweni yomntwana. Kwelinye icala, ityhefu inokuvela kuhlobo lokuzala olungonelanga. Imfundo enikwa ngabazali iyabuchaphazela ubuntu bomntwana.
Ukuba umntwana ukhulele kwindawo enetyhefu, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ngokuhamba kwexesha, omncinci afumane iimpawu zobuzwilakhe. Imfundo kufuneka isekwe kuthotho lweempawu ezinceda umntwana ukuba akhule ngokuhlonipha uthotho lwemithetho kunye nemisebenzi ekhaya.
Ngamafutshane, Umsebenzi wabazali ungundoqo xa kuziwa ekuthinteleni umntwana wabo ekuphuhliseni isimilo esinetyhefu. Ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo kufuneka buthathelwe ingqalelo xa kufundiswa kwaye kubethelelwa kubo uthotho lweenqobo ezinjengentlonipho okanye uvelwano kwabanye. Imfundo ibalulekile ngexesha lobuntwana ukusukela kweli nqanaba, abantwana bayila kwaye babumba ubuntu babo. Kwimeko yokujonga iindlela ezithile zokuziphatha ezinetyhefu emntwaneni, kubalulekile ukuba abazali bafune uncedo lwengcali elungileyo.