Umnqweno kunye nolonwabo zizinto ezimbini ezibalulekileyo xa isibini esithile unokuyonwabela ngokupheleleyo isondo. Lo mnqweno awuqhelekanga ufana ngexesha lokuqalisa ubudlelwane obuthile kwaye xa uthe isibini sihlangene iminyaka embalwa. Isiqhelo sidla ngokubangela ukuba ulonwabo luphele ngokuthe ngcembe, nto leyo enempembelelo embi kwiintlobano zesini.
Ukuba oku kuyenzeka kubalulekile ukuseka unxibelelwano oluhle nomnye umntu, ukusombulula ingxaki enjalo kwaye ubuyele ukonwabela ebhedini kunye nesi sibini.
Kufuneka unakekele ulonwabo kunye nomnqweno weqabane
Umnqweno nolonwabo azisuki ngokwazo emntwini; kunoko, zivela ngenxa yothotho lwezinto. Ukuhamba kweminyaka kunye nesiqhelo kubangela ukuba umnqweno womthandayo wehle ngokuyingozi. Ukuvuselela kwakhona ilungu lomzimba elibalulekileyo njengoko ingqondo ingundoqo xa kuziwa ekubuyiseleni ulonwabo kunye nomnqweno weqabane.
Enye yezinto ezibalulekileyo xa kuziwa ekukhuthazeni uyolo kumntu omthandayo, kukuba nemfihlo encinci kuwe. Ukungabikho kobudlelwane obunjalo kwimihla ngemihla kuya kuba nefuthe elibi, kokubini kumnqweno nakulonwabo olunokubakho komnye umntu kubudlelwane. Ukulahleka kobudlelwane obusondeleyo kwenza ukuba i-eroticism ibaluleke kakhulu phakathi kwesibini, iyancipha kunye nobubi obuya kubanda xa usabelana ngesondo nomnye umntu.
Izinto ezichaphazela uyolo nomnqweno
Isiqhelo kunye nemihla ngemihla zinefuthe elibi xa kuziwa ekubeni uzive unqwenela umntu omthandayo. Oku kunokubonwa kuluhlu lwezinto okanye iinkcukacha:
- Kukho inkolelo enkulu ukuba akusekho mtsalane kwicala lesi sibini.
- Kwinqanaba lomzimba, umntu uyayeka ukuzikhathalela nokuzilungisa kuba kukho iminyaka emininzi kunye kwaye yinto enganikwa kubaluleka.
- Ukuseka uthotho lweeshedyuli xa usabelana ngesondo neqabane. Ngaphandle kwezi yure akugqalwa njengokunandipha iintlobano zesini nomnye umntu.
- Ixesha lokwabelana ngesondo liye lafumana i-monotonous kwaye Oko kwenziwa ngokuzibophelela nangaphandle komnqweno.
Qamba ngokutsha kwaye uzibuyisele ngokwesondo
Iingcali zicebisa ukusungula kunye nokwazisa iindidi kwiindibano ezahlukeneyo zesondo kunye khawuleza umke kwindlela yesiqhelo. Kubalulekile ukuvumela ukucinga kwakho kubhabha kwisondo ukuze ukwazi ukuva loo mnqweno kunye nolonwabo kwiqabane lakho kwakhona. Kukho abantu abaninzi abangathethi ngesondo nomntu omthandayo kwaye le yinto edla ngokuba nefuthe elibi kumnqweno wesondo.
Iqela ngalinye kufuneka lithethe ngokuphandle ngesini kwaye ngale ndlela likwazi ukugcina unxibelelwano oluhle nesibini. Ukwenza izinto ezintsha kubudlelwane bezesondo ngundoqo kwaye kubalulekile ukuze intlantsi nolonwabo zihlale ziphila.