Ngaba kuyingozi ukwanga phakathi kwabantwana nezinja?

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Izifundo ezahlukeneyo ziye zangqina ukuba ukuba nenja kusapho kuzisa iingenelo ezininzi ngokwembono yeemvakalelo. Ukuze oku kwenzeke, kufuneka kusekwe ulwalamano oluthile lokuthembana phakathi kwenja nabantwana. Ngaphandle koko, ukudibana komncinci kunye nenja kunokunika ingozi ethile ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo.

Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela indlela yokwenza ukwanga phakathi kwezinja nabantwana kukhuseleke kangangoko.

Ngaba kuyingozi ukwanga phakathi kwabantwana nezinja?

Ukunqongophala kolwazi malunga nolwimi lwenja ngokuqhelekileyo ngunobangela omkhulu wokulimala okuthile, enokuthi yenzeke phakathi kwenja yosapho kunye nabancinci. Baninzi abantwana abalunywayo kunye nezinye iintlobo zokulimala kwinja yendlu. Olu hlobo lokuziphatha okanye ukuziphatha kungenxa yobukho bezinto ezininzi:

  • ukuzithemba ngokugqithiseleyo nokunqongophala koloyiko kwicala labantwana.
  • Ubude bomntwana kunye ukungabikho kobunzima bomzimba obuthile.
  • ukungabikho kolongamelo ngumntu omdala.
  • ulwazi oluncinci yolwimi lwezinja.
  • uvelwano olunamandla kumfanekiso wenja.

Ingozi yokuwola inja

Ukuba umntwana uza enjeni, umele enjenjalo. ngendlela epholileyo nepholileyo. Ngokunxulumene nokuwola izinja, uthotho lweengcebiso kufuneka zilandelwe:

  • Ubudlelwane bokuthembana kwinja kufuneka ibaluleke.
  • Kufuneka kubekho ikhonkco phakathi kwenja nomntwana.
  • Inja isetyenziselwa ukufumana i-hugs kunye iziphumo zabo zibe positive.

hug inja kunye nomntwana

Indlela yokwenza ukwangiwa kwenja kukhuseleke

Ukuba ufuna ukuba i-hug yonyana wakho kwinja ingabi ngumngcipheko kumncinci, Kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo inani lemiba ebalulekileyo:

  • Yonke inja yahlukile, ngoko kuya kubakho abanye abathanda ukuchukunyiswa kunye nabanye abafuna indawo eninzi kakhulu.
  • Enye into ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo yimeko apho inja ikhona. Akufani nokungqongwa ngabantu abangaziwayo kunokuba kunye nemekobume yentsapho.
  • Musa ukulibala nangaliphi na ixesha amava angaphambili ukuba inja iye yaba nayo. Ukuba uye wehlelwa zizinto ezibuhlungu, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ungaziva ukhululekile xa umntwana ekwanga okanye ephululwa. Kwimeko enjalo kubalulekile ukuphepha iimeko ezinjalo kunye Mlumkele umntwana ngamaxesha onke.
  • Kufuneka ube nesakhono esithile ukufundisa ukuziphatha kakuhle kwenja emntwaneni.
  • Ngokunxulumene ne-hugs, intsebenziswano kufuneka izolile kwaye iphephe enye ephazamisayo. Ngendlela efanayo kulungile ukuba i-caress kunye nendlela eya kwinja makwenziwe ngomzuzu ozolileyo nokhululekileyo.
  • Ubudala benja yenye into ekufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo, xa i-hug ikhuselekile kwaye ingenayo ingozi. Injana ayifani nenja xa sele ikhulile. Ngoko ke, ukuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha zahluke ngokupheleleyo.
  • Kwakhona kubalulekile ukufezekisa ukuziphatha okulungileyo okomeleza, ukuze ukwanga kungabi nangozi kwingqibelelo yomntwana.

Ngamafutshane, xa umntwana enokusondela kwinja endlwini, Ingqondo nengqiqo kwicala labantu abadala kufuneka koyise. Awukwazi ukushiya umntwana yedwa kunye nenja, ngoko ukuqapha kunye nokubeka iliso kufuneka kube rhoqo. Kwakhona khumbula ukuba izinja zizilwanyana hayi izinto zokudlala, ngoko ke kufuneka kubekho intlonipho ethile kwisilwanyana. Okusingqongileyo kufuneka kube yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye izolile kwaye ikhululekile kwaye isilwanyana akufuneki sinyanzelwe ukuba sinyamezele ukwangiwa kunye nokuphululwa ngabantwana.


Umxholo wenqaku uyabambelela kwimigaqo yethu imigaqo yokuziphatha yokuhlela. Ukuxela impazamo cofa apha.

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