Umntu okwishumi elivisayo oxhamla kubudlelwane obusempilweni nabazali bakhe bobabini unokuba neemeko ezahlukeneyo ezibangela ukuba omnye wabazali bakhe angabikho kuye ngalo lonke ixesha. Isenokuba kukufa, uqhawulo-mtshato okanye enye imeko oko kungashiya umntwana okwishumi elivisayo ngaphandle komzali. Ukuba abantu abadala abakufuphi bayaqonda ukuba ufuna unyango kwiziphumo zeemvakalelo kulutsha, iziphumo ezibi zexesha elide zinokuncitshiswa.
Amaqela enkxaso, inkxaso evela kulo lonke usapho ... banokunciphisa iziphumo ezibi kulutsha lokungabikho komzali omnye okanye bobabini. Umntwana ofikisayo uya kuva iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo, unokuba neengxaki ekukhuleni kwengqondo, uxinzelelo ... kwaye yonke into kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo ukuze ikwazi ukuyinyanga.
Ulwalamano olunengxaki
Xa umntwana ofikisayo esiva ukungabikho komzali ngesiquphe, inokuchaphazela ubudlelwane nabanye. Ingxaki ehlala ikwishumi elivisayo ngaphandle komzali kukuba banokuziva belahliwe kwaye baziphethe kakubi. Oku kuya kumbangela ukuba acaphuke kwihlabathi kwaye aqale ukuxhomekeka kwiimvakalelo ngenxa yokoyika ukushiywa. Ulutsha olunengxaki yokungabikho emsebenzini lunokuba semngciphekweni wokwabelana ngesondo okungakhuselekangaUkuziphatha gwenxa, ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi okanye utywala.
Iingxaki zobundilele
Umntu ofikisayo onesifo sokungabikho kukatata unokuziva enenzondo enkulu kwaye oku kubonakala ngendlela yobundlongondlongo xa iimvakalelo zingajongwanga ngamalungu osapho, abantu abadala abasondeleyo okanye ingcali kwezengqondo. Ukuthintela olu hlobo lwengxaki, umntwana kuya kufuneka ukuba azive exhaswa kwaye enxibile ngokweemvakalelo ngalo lonke ixesha ukulawula uburharha baziva. kuye nakwabanye.
Iingxaki zophuhliso lokuqonda
Umntwana ofikisayo okhulele kwikhaya elinabazali ababini uyakuqhuba ngcono ezifundweni kunakwishumi elivisayo okhe waphulukana ngesiquphe nangalindelekanga ngomnye wabazali bakhe okanye omnye wabo engekho. Amakhaya anomzali omnye asemngciphekweni wokuba nolutsha olunengxaki yokusilela esikolweni. Enye into enegalelo ekunciphiseni ukuqonda kulutsha kulutsha olunomzali ongekhoyo kukuba abazali abazibeki esweni ngokufanelekileyo izifundo zabo. Enye indlela yokulwa nezi zinto kukufuna inkxaso ngokubandakanyeka kosapho okanye ngokufuna iingcebiso kwiingcali.
Iingxaki zokuxhalaba
Umntu ofikisayo ohlala kwikhaya elingena mama unokuba sesichengeni sokuhlaselwa lixhala. Oomama abakhoyo banokwenza ukuba abantwana babe ngabantu abadala abanovalo ngakumbi, ngoxinzelelo kunye neengxaki zokuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo ngenxa yokoyika ukushiywa. Xa umntwana engenalo unonophelo kunye nokusondela kubudlelwane obusempilweni bukamama nomntwana, oko kungakhokelela kwiingxaki ezinzulu zeemvakalelo ekufuneka zinyangwe ziingcali. Ukwahlukana koomama kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki ngokwenziwa kwezifundo, iingxaki zentlalo kunye neemvakalelo kulutsha.
Ezi zezinye zeengxaki ezibangelwa lulutsha kukungabikho kwabazali ixesha elide. Abantwana kunye nolutsha kufuneka babe nelinye okanye omabini amanani ecaleni kwabo kuphuhliso kwaye nini, ngenxa yeemeko zobomi, elinye lala manani lisuswe kubo, nokuba kukho usapho olunomzali omnye kwaye benza konke abanako nokwaziyo , umntwana uyakudinga uhoyo lwengqondo ukuze akwazi ukukhathalela amanxeba emvakalelo anawo kwaye ke ufunde ukuhlala kwakhona kunye nenyani entsha ekufuneka ajongane nayo.