Ukunceda umntu onoxinzelelo akulula. Kodwa xa sisondele kakhulu, akunakuphepheka ukucinga ukuba ndinokuthini kwaye yintoni endingafanelanga ndiyenze ebusweni besifo. Kuthiwa phantse iipesenti ezili-10 zabemi bonke banesiphene solu hlobo, nangona ingengabo bonke abafunyaniswa kusenokwenzeka ukuba eli nani lisephezulu.
Ke, ukuba kuya kufuneka uhlale nabantu abakungqongileyo abasokolayo kuyo, into esiza kukuxelela yona namhlanje iya kukunceda kakhulu. Kuba asinakubala kwaye yiyo loo nto Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuphazamiseka, ezinye ziyazingisa kunabanye kodwa zonke ziya kubutshintsha ubomi bomntu othile. Fumanisa ukuba ungamnceda njani umntu onoxinzelelo!
Ezona mpawu zixhaphakileyo zokudakumba
Sele sichazile ukuba sinokuba njalo phambi kweentlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuphazamiseka okusikhokelela ekubeni sithethe ngeempawu ezahlukeneyo. Ukongeza, azinikwanga ngokulinganayo kubo bonke abantu. Ngenxa yoko, awunakuze wenze ngokubanzi xa ujongene nokudakumba, kodwa siza kuthetha ngazo zonke eziphindaphindwayo kwaye ngenxa yoko iimpawu eziqhelekileyo.
- Umnqweno oqhubekayo wokulila, kunye nosizi olukhulu yonke imihla.
- Ukucaphuka okukhulu, umsindo ngazo zonke iiyure, nokuba ayingonobangela ocacileyo okanye obalulekileyo.
- Akasenamdla kuyo yonke loo misebenzi okanye izinto azithandayo awayezenza ngaphambili kwaye zamgcwalisa.
- Ukunqongophala komnqweno namandla yenye yeempawu ezinxulunyaniswa nale siyikhankanyayo.
- Uvalo luza kubakho ebomini bakho.
- Ukungabikho koxinzelelo kunye nokukhumbula kukongeza kuzo zonke ezi mpawu zingasentla.
Ungamnceda njani umntu onoxinzelelo
Sisifundo esibuthathaka kwaye siyasazi kodwa ukuba ufuna ukunceda umntu onexinzelelo, kuya kufuneka uthethe naye. Kungenxa yokuba elinye lamanyathelo abaqhele ukuwathatha kukuba neentloni ngento eyenzekayo kubo. Ke ngoko, umsebenzi wethu kukwenza ukuba babone ukuba sisifo kwaye ngenxa yoko, sifuna unyango ekuya kufuneka ukuba luvavanywe ziingcali kuphela. Kodwa kunokuba yindlela yethu yokubakhokelela kuloo njongo.
Kuya kufuneka uyazi loo nto Ayilulo naluphi na uhlobo lobuthathaka kodwa njengesifo kufuneka ubone ugqirha. Ngokwenza nje ukuba ukuqonde oku, siza kube sithatha elinye lamanyathelo asisiseko ekunyangeni. Bonisa inkxaso yakho ngamaxesha onke kodwa ngaphandle kokubuza onke amanyathelo abawathathayo. Uya kuba secaleni kwakhe, uzakumkhapha kwaye uya kuba nakho ukumnika ingcebiso kodwa ngaphandle kokunyanzelwa. Bakhumbuze yonke imihla ukuba uza kubanceda ngalo lonke ixesha, kuba kufuneka bazive bexhaswa nokuba kukho amaxesha apho bangalixabisanga okanye kubonakala njalo. Ukuba unamathandabuzo ngokuya kugqirha kuba ungazi ukuba uza kuthini, ungamnceda nokuba enze ulwandlalo ngayo yonke loo mibuzo ekufuneka eyazi kodwa mhlawumbi angalibala xa ephambi kwengcali .
Into esingafanele siyenze
Sibonile ukuba umntu oxinezelekileyo uyasidinga ngaphandle kwemiqathango ecaleni kwakhe. Kodwa ngaphandle kokugweba okanye ukucaphuka xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle. Kufuneka sinovelwano naye kwaye singaze siphelelwe ngumonde. Into esingafanele kuyenza ayibonisi ukubaluleka kokubandezeleka komnye umntu. Kuyinyani ukuba asinako ukuzibeka kwimeko yabo kodwa sinokuzama ukuba nomonde.
Nangona uya kuba ecaleni kwabo, kuyinyani ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba ubakhusele ngakumbi. Bafuna indawo yakho ukuze babeke ubomi babo ngokulandelelana. Ukuba ubona ukuba lo mntu wenza inkqubela phambili encinci, nokuba incinci kakhulu, kufuneka simxabise soloko kwaye ubabuyekeze ukuba kunjalo. Ungaze ucinge ukuba iyanyangeka ngaphandle kokuya kwingcali kwaye akufuneki uphoswe ziimvo ezinxulumene nokufa.