Impatho gadalala: amanxeba angabonakaliyo

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Ngokwedatha evela kwi WHO (Umbutho wezeMpilo weHlabathi) ukuxhatshazwa kuchaphazela phantse ama-35% abasetyhini kwihlabathi liphela. Ngumfanekiso ekufuneka uthathelwe ingqalelo kodwa, inokufikelela phantse kuma-70% ukuba sithathela ingqalelo ukuba lolunye uhlobo lobukrelekrele nobufihlakeleyo obufana nokuphathwa ngokweemvakalelo, ukuthotywa o indelelo apho abafazi bahlala bejongana kungekuphela kubudlelwane babo obunomdla. Ngamanye amaxesha ezi ndlela zokuziphatha ziyabonakala nakwindlela yokusebenza.

Ngoku, namhlanje, kwi «Bezzia»Sifuna ukuphanda kunye nawe kolu xhatshazo lwengqondo ukuba ngamanye amaxesha, inokwenzeka ngokuchanekileyo kwinqanaba lesibini. Kukho abantu ababhinqileyo abangaziboniyo izikhombisi ezahlukeneyo kunyango lwamaqabane abo ezinokuthi ziqwalaselwe ngokucacileyo njengohlobo lokuphula umthetho. Kuba siyakholelwa okanye akunjalo, kukho amanxeba afihlakeleyo angabonakaliyo kulusu kodwa afihliweyo entliziyweni, ezingqondweni zethu. Siyakumema ke ngoko ukuba uyithathele ingqalelo.

Iimpawu zokuphathwa gadalala ngobuqhetseba okanye ngokufihlakeleyo

Kwizizukulwana ezininzi kwimbali yethu, uthotho lweendlela zokuziphatha zenziwe apho indima kunye nenani labasetyhini lisetyenziswe ngokucacileyo kwaye laphulwa. Indima yesini imiselwe ukuba yenziwe ekhaya kuphela ixesha elide. Ukuhanjiswa kwinqanaba elisondeleyo apho, ngamanye amaxesha, into eyenzekileyo apho ibiphantse ibe yinto engekhoyo. Ukuba kukho ukuxhatshazwa, wayethula okanye into embi kakhulu, yayiyinto eyamkelekileyo okanye eqhelekileyo.

Ngethamsanqa inkqubela phambili, imithetho kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, umzabalazo wabasetyhini kwidabi labo lokulingana iimeko, amalungelo kunye namathuba, kukhokelele kwinkululeko enkulu kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, ulwakhiwo lomthetho olusikhusela ekuxhatshazweni. Ngoku, kufuneka sibonise apha ukuba nangona ukuphathwa gadalala kwabasetyhini kuyeyona nto ixhaphakileyo kwaye leyo, ngelishwa, ithatha obona bomi ehlabathiniKukho, ewe, ukuphathwa gadalala kwabasetyhini emadodeni. Inyaniso engaziwa kakuhle, kodwa isekhona.

thelekisa wena nabanye

Nangona kunjalo, oko sizimisele ukukuqaqambisa ngeli xesha ukubaluleka kokwazi ukuba ungaluqonda njani olunye uhlobo lobundlongondlongo olungashiyi manqaku, amanxeba, okanye imivumbo kulusu. Sithetha kunjalo, ngokuxhatshazwa okufihlakeleyo. Ezi ziya kuba zezona mpawu ziphambili.

Ukusetyenziswa kwezintsimbi

Unxibelelwano ngokungathandabuzekiyo sesinye sezixhobo ezibukhali nezona zitshabalalisayo abantu abanokuzisebenzisa. Ngamanye amaxesha, ayisiyiyo kuphela amagama abuhlungu, yithoni, kukujonga, kukudelela okuqulethwe kwindlela yokunxibelelana nokuthetha nomntu ophambi kwabo.

Ukusetyenziswa okuqhubekayo kweentsimbi xa ujongana nesibini kubuhlungu kwaye kuyonakalisa. Uyenza kuba kusetyenziswa uburharha, kodwa ayisiyiyo loo nto ehlekisayo apho wonke umntu ethanda khona, apho kukho ukungqinelana. Akunjalo konke konke, isigqebelo sisetyenziselwa ukuhlazisa, ukuhlekisa. Eyona nto imbi ngayo yonke into kukuba ngamanye amaxesha yenziwa esidlangalaleni, phambi kwabanye.

Ukungabikho kunye nokudelela

Ngoku ekubeni sisazi ukuba amagama abuhlungu kwaye nokuba ithoni esetyenzisiweyo inokusenzakalisa kakhulu, masithethe ngoku ngokungabinanto nokudelela.

  • Ukwenza iqabane lakho likholelwe ekubeni "ngu-0 ngasekhohlo", ukuba uyaxakaniseka, akanantsingiselo kwaye omnye umntu kufuneka akhathalele yonke into ngenxa yobuchule bakhe obuphantsi, yindlela yokuziphatha eyingozi. Kukuhlukumeza, kukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwengqondo kunye nobundlongondlongo.
  • Eyona nto inzima kuyo yonke le nto yile Nabani na owenza oku kuxhaphaza kulawula zonke iinkalo zobomi besi sibini. Uyambeka phantsi kwakhe, akamniki inkululeko, umona kunye nokungathembani kuyaveliswa, kodwa nangona kunjalo, abakwazi ukukhathalela nokuzimasa oko kuthiwa bayakuthanda.
  • Ukongeza ekunikezeleni i-void void, bayadelela kwaye balawula. Yinto entsonkothileyo ekufuneka siyithathele ingqalelo. Kungenxa yokuba nabani na othanda engonzakalisi, nabani na othanda ngokwenene ukhathalele omnye kwaye uyakuthintela, ngaphezu kwako konke, ukwenza okubi.

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Iindawo zabucala azihlonitshwa, akukho bucala

Ukuthintela isibini ekubeni nezinto esizithandayo, amaphupha abo kunye neminqweno yabo ngokungathandabuzekiyo yeyona ndlela icacileyo yokuxhatshazwa.

  • Ngubani owaphula amaxabiso, ukuthanda izinto, uyolo oluncinci olunabo bonke abantu, Nabani na ohleli kwiindawo zabucala, evotela ngokupheleleyo ukukhula kwethu, akasithandi. 
  • Yinto ekufuneka siyithathele ingqalelo le: Ukuphathwa gadalala asikokutyhala nje, okanye impama. Ukuxhatshazwa kukuba bathetha nathi ngokuvakalayo, basigculele esidlangalaleni, basenze sikholelwe ukuba sizizidalwa ezibuthathaka ezingakwaziyo ukuzimela ... Konke oku kushiya uphawu lokuzithemba kunye namanxeba emphefumlweni wethu.

Sukuvumela ukuba yenzeke, sukuvumela uthando lujike lube yintlungu, kuhlaselo, ekwenziweni ukuba ukholelwe ukuba umncinci xa enyanisweni, ungumntu omkhulu ekufuneka ehambisane nengxelo yobomi, inkululeko kunye nolonwabo.


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