Ukuyeka yinto esisinyanzelayo ukuba siyenze kwizihlandlo ezahlukeneyo ubomi bethu bonke. Sisenzo sokukhula kwangaphakathi nangona kuyinyani ukuba kubangela iintlungu, kubandakanya ukufunda. Kusinyanzela ukuba sivale amanqanaba obomi bethu ukuze siqhubele phambili ngokhuseleko olukhulu.
Sonke siyacaca ukuba into enje akukho lula, ukuba kufuna isibindi kunye namandla emvakalelo angenakufunyanwa ngokukhawuleza. Kwakhona kudla ngokuthiwa abo bangekabi nayo ilahleko, nokuba yeyobuntu, yobuqu, yeemvakalelo okanye badaniswa nje, abakaqalisi ukuphila. Makhe sithethe ngayo namhlanje ku Bezzia.
Ukuyeka, isenzo sobukroti esifundwe ekuhambeni kwexesha
Masiqale senze isenzo esincinci sokubonisa ... Zingaphi izinto ekufuneka uziyekile ebomini bakho? Sikunika imizekelo emincinci oya kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo uzive uchongiwe:
- Ukuphulukana nobuhlobo ngenxa yokungavisisani, ukungcatshwa okanye isidingo esilula sokushiya umntu ongasasiniki nto.
- Ukuyeka ithuba, nokuba bekungeloxesha okanye kuba besingakulungelanga oko.
- Ukuphulukana nomntu, yeka ukumbona ngenxa yokuba iimeko bezizifuna okanye ngenxa yokuba siphulukene nokulahleka komzimba. Ukudlula.
- Shiya enye okanye ubudlelwane obuninzi, ngazo zonke iintlungu ezibangelwa koku.
Njengoko ubona, olu luhlu lwemilinganiselo luqhelekile kwaye luqhelekile kubomi bomntu. Ukujongana nabo yinto engekho lula, kwaye yona, sinokuyifumana nakubuphi na ubudala. Nangona kunjalo, kukho abo bangalujonganga kakuhle olu hlobo lweemeko.
Ukuyeka kuthetha ukwaphula ubudlelwane obunzulu kunye nento okanye umntu obaluleke kakhulu kuthi. Ke, kwaye ngandlela thile inyanzela ukuba sizakhele ngaphakathi ngoku fumana inkxaso entsha, ukumiselwa okutsha. Ukucinga ukuba ubomi abuguquki, into esinayo ngoku izakuhlala iyimpazamo eqhelekileyo kwaye yinyani ekungekho mntu usilungiselele yona.
Masibone ngoku ukuba yeyiphi indlela efanelekileyo yokujongana nale meko,
Yamkela ubunzima kunye nelahleko njengenxalenye yobomi
Njengoko sibonisile, akukho mntu uza kweli hlabathi elungiselelwe ukuhlala ephoxekile, ukwamkela ukukhathazeka, ukusilela okanye ukulahleka kwabantu ababalulekileyo kuthi.
- Kuyimfuneko ukuba sonwabele yonke imihla kunye nemizuzu yonke ngokupheleleyo, kucace gca ukuba yonke into inokuba yeyethutyana. Akukho nto ihlala ngonaphakade nokuba siyifuna kangakanani.
- Ukwamkela ubunzima okanye inyani yokuba yonke into ingatshintsha ngephanyazo, emva koko kubandakanya ukuphuhlisa uthotho lweendlela zokucinga. Omnye wabo ngu-evitar kukuthambeka nokumisela ukunamathela kwizinto, ebantwini nakubudlelwane.
- Ungaze wakhe umhlaba wakho jikelele ngeenxa umntu othile. Koko kukuthi, kuthintele ukuxhomekeka ngokupheleleyo kwiqabane lakho ukuya kuthi ulibale ukukhula kwakho. Ngale ndlela, ukuba ukwahlukana okanye umgama ubonakala ngaxa lithile, umhlaba wakho awuyi kujongeka uqhekeka.
- Uthando, hlakulela ubuhlobo bakho, ubudlelwane bakho nobunzulu obukhulu, kodwa ungalibali ukondla amaphupha akho, iiprojekthi zakho, amandla akho obuqu kunye neemvakalelo. Ngandlela-thile iya kuba thanda ngokupheleleyo kodwa ngaphandle kokuxhomekeka, ufuna kodwa ngaphandle kokwenza uncamathiselo apho kungekho zithuba zomntu.
Ukubaluleka kokwazi ukuvala iqonga
Ukuvala inqanaba kuthetha ukuqala ukwamkela into eyenzekileyo, kwaye yinto engenakucingwa ngumntu wonke. Ukuba silahliwe, ukuba singcatshiwe okanye ukuba sivume nje ngokwahlukana kuba yeyona nto ilungileyo kuthi sobabini, yinyani ekufuneka idityanisiwe kwaye yamkelwe.
- Ukukhuthaza ukwamkelwa oko, kwindawo yokuqala kufuneka sikuqonde okwenzekileyo. Sonke sidinga ukuqonda okusenza sikwazi ukulawula imeko ngale ndlela.
- Kubalulekile ukuba masikuphephe ukugcina ingqumbo, inzondo okanye umsindo. Yonke imvakalelo emibi idala ukuxhomekeka, kwaye ngenxa yoko iya kusithintela ekubeni sikwazi ukuvumela ukuhamba, ukuya phambili.
- Yamkela kwakhona ukuba amanqanaba awavali ngobusuku obunye. Kuthatha ixesha kunye noxolo oluninzi lwangaphakathi, ukuzikhathalela ukuphilisa loo manxeba angaphakathi.
- Emva koko Amanqanaba avaliweyo acinge ukuba siyakholelwa na okanye hayi amathuba amanye amathuba ezayo. Kuyimfuneko ke ngoko ukuba uyazi ukuba ungathini kuthi ndlela-ntle, ukwazi ukuba "ungazikhupha njani" kwixesha elidlulileyo, ukuzivumela ukuba sonwabe.
- Sonke siyatshintsha kancinci xa sishiya into ethile, kodwa into ekufuneka siyiphephe kukuba le lahleko isizalisa ngeemvakalelo ezingalunganga kude kube kwinqanaba lokuzivalela ebomini, siphinde sonwabe kwaye senze iiprojekthi.
Ukuqukumbela, uyeke, Nangona ibangela ukuba sibandezeleke, sisenzo sokukhula komntu ukuba, xa sigxile kwaye silawulwa ngokufanelekileyo, sinokusinika ukukhula okwaneleyo ngaphakathi. Isifundisa ukuba silumke ngakumbi, siqonde abantu ngakumbi kwaye sizazi.
Ubomi, ubukhulu becala, kukuhamba okungapheliyo apho kungekho nto ihleliyo, sonke siyinxalenye yotshintsho oluqhubekayo apho sizilungelelanisa khona ukuze siphile ngokupheleleyo sisomelela ixesha ngalinye.