Kuxhomekeke kumhla, imeko esihlala kuyo ngelo xesha kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi, ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kuthi ukuqhubeka nenkqubo yemihla ngemihla. Nokuba okwangoku ukwiprojekthi yomsebenzi, okanye ukuba uyafunda, nokuba injani na injongo yakho yemihla ngemihla, namhlanje sikunika uthotho lwe amacebo ngendlela esinokuzikhuthaza ngayo ukuba uyayidinga.
Ewe, ezi zicwangciso zibhalwe apha kuphela ... Ngoku udinga umsebenzi onzima kwinxalenye yakho, oya kuthi uyenze kwaye ufumane yonke into obeka ingqondo yakho kuyo yonke imihla.
Iingcebiso ezili-10 zokufumana inkuthazo eyongezelelweyo
- Fumanisa ukuthanda kwakho okwenyani: Ngamanye amaxesha umnqweno wethu awusileli, ngamanye amaxesha eyona nto isilelayo kukuba asinakho ukugxila ekubekweni kakuhle kwinto esiyithandayo ... Fumanisa ukuba yeyiphi eyona nto uyithandayo kwaye uyiphucule, uyiphile!
- Cinga kakuhle: Ndingomnye wabo bacinga ukuba kuphela izinto ezintle azihambi kakuhle, kodwa phakathi kokungabi nalo kunye / okanye ukuba nethemba kungcono ukhethe ukhetho lwesibini, akunjalo? Ukuba negative asifumani kwanto kwaye u "hayi" yinto yokuqala esinayo xa sizama into ... Masiye ku "ewe".
- Ukuba uphoswa ngenye imini, ungakhathazeki! Okulandelayo ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba ulungile kwaye uya kufunda kwisifundo sokusilela kokuqala. Ukusilela ayizizo iimpazamo, eyona mpazamo ayikokufunda nantoni na kolo lungiso.
- Lungiselela nengqondo yakho naloo maxesha okuhla ukuze ube nako. Kuya kufuneka womelele, ungacingi ukuba yonke into izakuhlala ihamba kakuhle kuthi ... Akunakwenzeka oko! Izinto ziyasilela ngamanye amaxesha, ke kulungile kwaye kuyacetyiswa ukuba uzilungiselele kwakhona loo mpazamo eza kwenzeka kungekudala okanye kamva.
- Ungqongwe ngabantu abakuxhasayo kodwa loo nto ikwenza ukuba ubone icala elinye nelinye kwimeko. Akulungele ukuba phakathi kwabo bahamba phezu kwezinto ezimbi okanye abo babona yonke into kakuhle kwaye bacinga ukuba izinto zixazululwa nje ngokucinga ukuba baya kwenza. Masibe nethemba kodwa ngethamo lokwenyani.
- Yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wakho ukufezekisa yonke into obeka kuyo ingqondo yakho yonke imihla. Akukho nto injengokuzijonga ngokwakho emva kokuphumelela ukuze uzikhuthaze ngakumbi ekukulandeleni nasekukufezekiseni.
- Yenza idayari yakho apho ubhala khona inkqubela phambili yemihla ngemihla. Ngale ndlela uya kuba nento ebonakalayo ngakumbi kwaye ukhuthaze ukuqhubeka nokubonisa imiceli mngeni emitsha kunye nenkqubela phambili entsha.
- Akufanele usekwe kwimpumelelo yakho kukhuphiswano nabanye, kodwa ukhuphiswano olusempilweni yindlela elungileyo yokuzikhuthaza ukuba uqhubeke uzama.
- Yenza uluhlu apho ubhala khona ifayile izizathu zokuba uphumelele Ulindeleni kwaye ngenxa yoko uhlala ukhuthazekile
- Funa ukukhuthazwa kwizinto ezincinci zemihla ngemihla bayakuvuyisa, bayakuzalisa kwaye bakunika amandla.