Sidinga ngaphezu kothando lokuba ubudlelwane buhlale ixesha elide

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Sidinga ngaphezu kothando lokuba ubudlelwane buhlale ixesha elide. Kungenzeka ukuba eli binzana litsale ingqalelo ngaphezu kwabafundi bethu. Kuqhelekile ukuba Kubo bonke ubomi bethu bazama ukusiqinisekisa ukuba «ngothando yonke into yoyisiwe, uthando luyoyisa yonke into».

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Ubudlelwane obuchaphazelekayo bunzima kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bathwala indleko eziphezulu zeemvakalelo. Siqala iprojekthi ebalulekileyo nomntu ogcwele inkohliso, wethemba. Kukho ukuzibophelela okuqinileyo, uthando olunyanisekileyo kunye namaphupha amaninzi okufezekisa. Nangona kunjalo, imihla ngemihla kunye nokuhlala kunye siyaqonda ukuba zininzi izinto ezingalinganiyo.

Makhe sihlalutye ngokweenkcukacha ukuba yeyiphi imilinganiselo enokusenza siyibone loo nto Ngamanye amaxesha uthando alwanele

Ukungaqondi nentlonipho

Kukho abo banikela ngothando kodwa bengahloniphi. Hoh odibanisa uthando nolawulo nokulawula. Kuqhelekile ukuba ubudlelwane bababini benziwe ngokusekwe kolo thando luqinisekileyo apho enyanisweni, kungekho ukuzibophelela kokwenyani komnye umntu:

  • Ukuzibophelela okusekwe kwintlonipho kunye nokuqondwa kweqabane lethu.
  • Ukukhula komntu akuvumelekanga, indawo, imbeko okanye ingqwalaselo ayinikezelwanga.
  • Luthando olulawulayo, olusebenzisa ubuqhetseba Ngobuqili ukugcina omnye umntu ecaleni kwakho. Banoloyiko lokuba bayakubalahla, yiyo loo nto bengathembi kwaye belawula. Kukho uthando, kodwa luthando olunetyhefu.

Unxibelelwano olungonelanga okanye ukungakwazi "ukunxibelelana nothando"

Xa kukho iingxaki zonxibelelwano, ngokubanzi lelinye ilungu lesibini elinengxaki yokunqongophala kwaye elinye alazi ukuba lisebenzise njani izicwangciso ezifanelekileyo.

Umntu uzikhusela ngalento ka "kodwa ukuba ndithetha kakhulu", omnye umntu uyivakalisa loo nto "kodwa ngekhe utsho into endiyifunayo ...". Kukho ukutshintshiselana ngolwazi olungasebenziyo Apho isibini, kude nokukhula, siqaphela umgama.

  • Unxibelelwano kwezi meko lunqabile okanye ukungabikho komxholo weemvakalelo. Iingcinga, iminqweno, ulwazi olusisiseko alwaziswanga kwesi sibini ukuba sidibanise kwaye sikhule.
  • Ngaphandle konxibelelwano olufanelekileyo asinokwazi ukwazana ngokunzulu, asinakho ukusombulula iingxaki ...

izandla ezidibeneyo

Ukusilela kobunzima kunye namaxabiso afanayo

Ukwakha isibini, akukho mfuneko yokuba wabelane ngokuzonwabisa okufanayo. Akukho mfuneko yokuba sobabini siyithande imidlalo, iswekile kwikofu okanye ukuhamba emvuleni. Intlonipho, uthando kunye nokunconywa kusenza sabelane ngezithuba ezifanayo, kwaye ukuba asiyithandi, ngekhe siyenze ngenkululeko epheleleyo kwaye ngaphandle kohlwaywa.

Ngoku, Apho kufuneka khona ukuba ungqinelane ukwamaxabiso. Ayizukusinceda nganto ukuba sobabini asiyixabisi ngokulinganayo inkululeko, imbeko, ukulingana, ubulungisa ... Ziindawo eziqhelekileyo eziza kusinceda yonke imihla, ezakusivumela Yenza usapho kwaye uvumele ubudlelwane bube nokuhlala.

Kuyafana nobunzima:

  • Ubunzima kukudala amaxesha apho amagama engafuneki.
  • Kukuqonda enye kwaye uyonwabele ubukho babo ngezona zinto zilula
  • Kukuba lihambisane namaxesha ahlala kwimemori, kukudibanisa, kukonwaba yonke imihla ngaphandle koxinzelelo lwangaphandle nangaphandle kokungaqondani.

Ezo zinto zincedisana nothando kwesi sibini

uthando kwesi sibini

Sele uyazi ukuba uthando lubalulekile kwaye kwangaxeshanye, ayisiyiyo yonke into. Injengendlu eyenza indlu yesi sibini, ukuba asinalo uphahla kunye neendonga akunakufane kube lula, kwaye kungabi lula ukuhlala ixesha elide.

Ke zeziphi izinto esizifunayo ngaphezulu mihla le ukuze olo thando luphelele, lomelele kwaye luhlale ixesha elide? Qaphela le milinganiselo:

Ukuqwalaselwa

Qaphela omnye umntu njengenxalenye kungekuphela kobomi bakho, kodwa nesiqu sakho. Ukuba ubona iqabane lakho liyinxalenye yakho, uyakuqonda ukuba ufanelwe yintlonipho, ukuba ufuna uthando, uthando kunye neendawo ezizezakhe apho anokuqhubeka nokukhula njengomntu.

Ukuqonda enye kukunika ixabiso, ukubaluleka. Kuyamncoma kwaye kuyamdinga kumhla wethu ukuziva ulungile, ukuziva uphelele.

Ukubuyisela

Ukubuyisela ngaphezulu kwayo yonke into kukutshintshiselana ngokulinganayo. Kukwazi indlela yokunikela kunye nokuba nelungelo lokufumana. Kukho abantu abenza impazamo yokuphambanisa uthando kunye nesidingo sokunika yonke into komnye umntu. Ukwanelisa zonke iimfuno zakho.

  • Akufuneki siphazame. Akufuneki sibekho kwisathelayithi ejikeleza umhlaba. Ukuba senza njalo, siza kugqibela siphulukene nokuzithemba kwethu kunye nokunyaniseka kwethu.
  • Nika iqabane lakho le nto ufuna ukumnika yona, uziva njani kwaye ufuna ntoni. Ngoku, kubalulekile ukuba nawe ufumane. Uthando lusekwe kwinto efanayo apho ukuzingca okanye ubuntu akufuneki babekhona.

Uthando kukuncoma, Kukwenza iqela, kukwabelana ngamaxesha kunye nentlonipho. Ukuba isibini siyazingisa, kungenxa yokuba banxibelelana kakuhle, kuba bayahloniphana kwaye ngenxa yokuba bayinxalenye yothando olungakwaziyo ukukhohliswa okanye intsingiselo ephindiweyo.


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