Siphila kuluntu olunzima kakhulu kubantu abangayilandeliyo imigqaliselo emiselweyo okanye imigangatho yobuhle. Kubonakala ngathi ukuba awulingani "nabanye" kwaye wahlukile, awulungelanga. Kodwa inyani kukuba iyantlukwano yabantu yeyona nto isenza sahluke kwaye sikhetheke. Nangona ekuhlaleni kubonakala ngathi ayisiyonto yokwenyani, kodwa kunjalo.
Kuluntu apho iimodeli zibonwa kumabonwakude kunye neefoto ezifotwe ngabasetyhini kwiimagazini, unokuthelekelela ukuba inokuchaphazela njani intombazana okanye inkwenkwe ekwishumi elivisayo eyakha isazisi sayo kwaye efuna ukukholisa kwaye ingene kweli hlabathi. Iziphumo zibi.
Ukuphazamiseka kwindlela yokutya
Izinto ezinefuthe kukuphazamiseka kwindlela otya ngayo zinokuba ninzi kwaye zahlukahlukene, umabonwakude okanye iimagazini ngokucacileyo ayizizo zonke izinto, kuba izinto ezidibeneyo kwezentlalo kunye nokusingqongileyo zezona zinokubangela ukuba ukuphazamiseka kwenzeke kwabasetyhini nakumadoda. Umntu onengxaki yokutya uya kukhanyela ukuba banayo kodwa indlela abaziphethe ngayo iya kubanika, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba imeko-bume engqongileyo ijonge imiqondiso ukuze ithathe amanyathelo ngokukhawuleza.
Kodwa kwinqaku lanamhlanje andifuni ukuthetha nawe malunga namanyathelo othintelo okanye malunga neempawu ezilumkisa ngengxaki yokutya, into endifuna ukuthetha ngayo yinto ebalulekileyo kwaye amaxesha amaninzi ashiywe ecaleni. Ndinyanisa, kwi-sequelae eveliswa kukuphazamiseka kwindlela otya ngayo.
Ukulandelelana kwezi zifo zoyikekayo kuyahluka ukusuka kwi-organic sequelae ukuya kwi-sequelae yengqondo, ekufuneka uyazi ukuze ube nakho ukufumana izisombululo ngokukhawuleza ukuze zingabuchaphazeli kakhulu ubomi babantu.
Ukulandelelana kweengxaki zokutya
Ixesha elininzi umntu echitha ukubandezeleka kwi-sequelae, baya besiba nzima kwaye kunzima ukusebenza nabo. Yintoni egqithisile, Kuyangqinwa ukuba ubomi bomntu owayekhe wanengxaki yokutya usemngciphekweni emva kweminyaka emi-5 yesi sifo. Kungenxa yoko le nto aba bantu kufuneka babe novavanyo lwezonyango nolwezengqondo ixesha elide, kuba kungenjalo baya kuba sengozini yokuphinda bangene kwesi sifo okanye baphathwe zizinye iintlobo zokuphazamiseka.
Iziphumo zomzimba zeanorexia okanye i-bulimia
Ezi zezinye zezinto ezibonakalayo kubantu abahluphekayo okanye abahluphekileyo ngenxa yeanorexia okanye i-bulimia nervosa enokuthi ihlupheke:
Ukulandelelana kwentliziyo
- Arrhythmias
- Intliziyo encinci
- I-Mitral valve prolapse (le yeyona nto ixhaphakileyo yokufa ngesiquphe kwabantu abane-anorexia)
- Intliziyo ephantsi kunye noxinzelelo lwegazi
- Iziphelo ezibandayo (nokuba zizama ukufudumala, azishushu)
Ukuphela kwendalo
- Ii-ovari zePolycystic (ngenxa yoku zinokukhulisa nezinye izifo ezinjengokuzala, amaqhakuva abukhali, ialopecia, njl.
- iOsteoporosis
- Iingxaki ngokusebenza kwehomoni yedlala lengqula
- Iingxaki ngemveliso ye-insulin.
I-sequelae yokugaya ukutya
- Gastroenteritis rhoqo
- Urhudo okanye ukuqhina
- Intlungu eyomeleleyo kunye neyenzeka rhoqo esiswini
- Reflux yesisu
- Ukufunxwa okungalunganga kwezakhamzimba
- Isifo sephepha
- Ukusilela kwezimbiwa kunye neevithamini ngenxa yamathumbu agudileyo
I-Hematologic sequelae
- IAnemia
- Igazi alihlanganisi kakuhle kubangela ukungabikho kweeplatelets
- Ukunqongophala kweeseli ezimhlophe zegazi, into eza kubeka umzimba emngciphekweni wokosuleleka ngakumbi kwaye kunzima ngakumbi ukuzinyanga.
- Ukuphazamiseka okunzulu komzimba.
I-sequelae eyoyikisayo
- Ukuchaphazeleka kwe-Electroencephalographic.
- Eminye imimandla yobuchopho inokufumana i-atrophy ngenxa ye-ventricular dilatation efunyanwa ngabantu abanengxaki yokutya. Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba oku kunokulawulwa ngokuhamba kwexesha ukuba umntu ochaphazelekayo unokulandela ukutya okufanelekileyo.
Ukulandelelana kwengqondo kunye nengqondo
Nangona ingenakwenziwa ngokubanzi kuba oku kuya kuxhomekeka emntwini ngamnye, kubuntu bakhe nakwindlela achache ngayo ... kukho ezinye izinto ezilandelwayo ekufuneka zichazwe kuba zixhaphakile ebantwini abanesifo. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba baya kufuna ukulandelelwa yingcali yezempilo yengqondo ixesha elide bade bavavanye ukuba basempilweni ngokupheleleyo.
- Paranoia
- Ingqondo
- Ukuxhalaba
- IPhobias
- Ubume obungalunganga obuphambanisayo
- Ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo
- Iindidi ezahlukeneyo zengqondo
- Ukuphuthelwa kunye nokuphazamiseka kokulala
Akukho mntu unokuphila ngaphandle kokutya njengoko kubalulekile njengokuphefumla okanye ukulala. Zonke izinto eziphilayo zifuna ukutya ukuze ziphile, njengabantu. Yonke into ephilayo ifuna ukondliwa kwaye isempilweni.
Ukuba unelungu losapho okanye wazi umntu ocinga ukuba unesi sifo, Kuyimfuneko ukuba ungoyiki kwaye uthethe nogqirha othembekileyo ukufumanisa ukuba ungajongana njani nale meko nalo mntu kwaye ufumane indlela yokumnceda. Kwaye ukuba nguwe onengxaki ye-anorexia okanye i-bulimia kwaye uyazi, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ukuyamkela linyathelo lokuqala lokoyisa ... kwaye ukuba uxelela umntu osondeleyo kuwe, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nakho uncedo oludingayo ukuze ukwazi ukuphuma kuloo nto kwaye ujongeke ulungile kwakhona.
I-anorexia kunye ne-bulimia documentary
Okulandelayo ndifuna ukukubonisa uxwebhu olwasasazwa kumabonakude ngo-2015 kwaye yona yona imalunga ne-anorexia kunye ne-bulimia. Kuyimfuneko ukuba sisazi esi sifo ukuze abo banaso baphume kuso. Ividiyo ihlala nje iyure kwaye ibonisa ubunyani kunye nenkohlakalo yesi sifo.
Kodwa ikwabonisa into ebaluleke kakhulu: ukuziphucula. Ibonisa ukuba kunokwenzeka njani ukoyisa isifo ngomzamo kunye nokuzingisa. Ngaba umnqweno wokuba sempilweni unokoyisa njani yonke enye into, indlela ukuthanda ukubuyela ebomini kunye nendlela yonke into ejikeleze iqala ngayo ukuphucula. Kuba xa ubona ukukhanya ekupheleni kwetonela kufuneka uye ngakuyo, kuya kufuneka uzame ukwenza izinto zibuyele kwindlela ebeziyiyo ngaphambili, ukuphucula ... kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke ukungcwaba isifo ngonaphakade. Musa ukuvumela esi sifo ukuba sikulawule, kuba ukuba unesifo kwezi ngxaki: awuwedwa. Uya kuhlala unaye umntu okuthandayo kwaye oya kukulungela ukukunceda.
Kuko konke oku, ungaphoswa yile miqulu ilandelayo, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufunda izinto ezintsha ngezi zifo zibulalayo.
Ndandinomntu onesifo sephepha, kangangeminyaka esi-7.
Kumatyeli aliqela ndaya kucela uncedo kodwa bonke baya kubantu abangalunganga, lonto yandenza mandundu nangakumbi.
Ufihla imfihlo elihlazo kakhulu kuwe, yiyo loo nto kuya kufuneka uye kwiingcali eziyinyani.
Ndiyaziphilisa, andicebisi mntu, ukuhamba kwesi sifo kukodwa kunzima kakhulu, kwaye kukude kakhulu. Ngamanye amaxesha ndandingafuni ukuqhubeka ndiphila, kwaye ndaye ndacinga ngendlela yokuzibulala, ukuba kukho into engahambanga kakuhle bendiqinisekisiwe ngengcinga yokuba ndingabuthatha ubomi bam kwaye ke andisayi kuqhubeka ndisokola.
Ngoku ndibuyisiwe, ndinobomi obutsha apho abo bandingqongileyo bengalazi elidlulileyo, (ndikhetha njalo).
I-sequelae enzima kakhulu indishiyile, ndilahlekelwe ngamazinyo amaninzi ngexeshana elifutshane, ndinee-arrhythmias, iindawo ezibandayo, isifo sorhudo kunye nokuqhinwa, kwaye eyona nto imbi kukuba ndine-asia, ukuphazamiseka kovalo, ukoyika abantu, uxinzelelo, kukho amaxesha endicinga ngawo Ndiyaphambana, ngumzabalazo wangaphakathi endiza kuba nawo ubomi bam bonke. Yonke imihla ndiyalwa nemiphumo esele kum, ingunaphakade, kwaye ndiyathemba kwaye ndinqwenela ukuba abantwana bam bangomso bangadlulisi Oku kubo, ukuze bonwabe.
Ungaze uwelele oku njengoko kunokuthintelwa ngokwenene, kufuneka uzithande.
Isixeko
Molo Kity, bendifuna ukukubulela ngokuvula intliziyo yakho kwaye usixelele ngamava akho obomi. Kulungile kakhulu kwabanye abantu ukuba bazi ukuba ungaphuma kwaye eyona nto intle kukuba ngoku uyaxhaswa kwaye uqulethwe yeyakho.
Qhubeka usifunda kwaye unike nezakho izimvo.
Inyaniso kukuba, ndinengxaki ye-bulimia okwethutyana, ndinayo le ngxaki, andazi ukuba ndenze ntoni amaxesha ngamaxesha ndizamile ukucela uncedo kodwa inyani ayinakwenzeka, ndicinga ukuba eyona ngxaki yam inkulu ayifuni ukuyitshintsha, ndingathanda ukwazi ngakumbi ngomonakalo onokuthi undithwale kwixesha elide, kuyandikhathaza kakhulu ukubona usapho lwam kakubi ngenxa yam, nangona iluncedo kakhulu, yitya nantoni na oyifunayo kwaye ugabhe ngokulula Phambi kokuba ndive ubunzima bokutyeba kakhulu, ndinobunzima obuyi-78k kodwa ngoku kodwa ngama-48, ndilahlekelwe lixesha elincinci kwaye abantu bayayiqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba ndihlala ndinesizathu esihle sokuphepha naluphi na uhlobo lweengcinga ezimbi, ndingathanda kakhulu Ukuthetha nomntu ozama ukundiqonda, kunzima kakhulu ukujongana nale nto iyodwa, kuba nangona abantu bebaninzi, akukho mntu ubonakala endiqonda, ndingathanda ukushiya imeyile yam esidlangalaleni, ukuze umntu afune Thetha ngayo okanye uziva into efanayo, ndazise kwaye ndibone indlela yokudibanisa ukusombulula le nto, ukuba enyanisweni ayizisanga ngaphezu Enkosi.
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Ndizitshintsha kakuhle .. bendiphakathi kweanorexia kunye ne-bulimia phantse iminyaka eli-10. I-1 yayiyi-anorexia emva koko i-bulimia .. Ndiphumle kuphela iminyaka emi-2 phakathi kwe-anorexia xa i-bulimia yeza kwaye ndineminyaka emi-2 ndizama ukuhamba I-bulimia iphinda ibuyele umva .. Kunzima kakhulu kuba nangona ndisiya ndedwa, ndinee-sequelae ezininzi, uloyiko lwasentlalweni, ukutyeba, uxinzelelo lwegazi, ukuphefumla kancinci, izandla kunye neenyawo eziphantse zabanda, i-anemia engalawulekiyo, unxunguphalo, uxinzelelo, ukungabikho kwenkumbulo kunye noxinzelelo, ukungazinzi kothando, uvakalelo kwiimeko zemihla ngemihla ezilula kwabanye .. kunzima kakhulu..kuba umlo uyaqhubeka kwaye kubonakala ngathi akunasiphelo uziva ngathi sele iyinxalenye yayo yonke ubomi ongasoze uqheleke kulonto..uzikhuphele ngaphandle kokufuna yonke into ngaphandle kokufezekisa impumelelo yakho ngokupheleleyo kuba oko kuyakufunxa, kuguqula ubuntu bakho nokuba uyabufuna okanye awuyifuni ... kodwa kuphela izizathu kunye nokothula kuThixo kunyango oluncinci kunye nenyanga ngakumbi njengoko ndikhuphela kumhlobo endibe lunyango Ndiphola kancinci kancinci into efanayo endenze ukuba ndityumke kwaye ndidinwe kobo bomi ... kancinci kancinci.
Molweni, andazi ukuba ndiqale njani ... kodwa ke andisakwazi ukuyenza ndineminyaka eli-17 ubudala ngo-Matshi kuphela ndingu-18 kwaye ndiyoyika kakhulu, ndigula i-6 kwaye iminyaka enesiqingatha, kusenzima ukuba ndiyivume, usuku lwam lwanamhlanje ngumzabalazo oqhubekayo.Ukuhlawula yonke into ebendiyenza ngeli xesha ... umzimba wam ubuthathaka kwaye awusenakuthatha ukuba sendifile kwaye ndiyaphila kwaye kube kanye xa ndicela uncedo ndinengxaki ezininzi ngenxa yako konke oku ... ayisiyomzimba kuphela kodwa nengqondo yokuba uxinzelelo k akuvumeli ukuba uphile olo loyiko okanye u k akuvumeli ukuba wenze okanye ube ubomi obuqhelekileyo, obuqhelekileyo, ukungakwazi ukuvumela nokuba isisu sakho sichukunyiswe ... izinto ezincinci ezibangela ukuba ndizinze ebomini, andinakuphinda ndikuthathe ndidiniwe ... nangaphezulu koku Ndinomlo andiwoyisi.Ndine-anorexia kunye ne-bulimia kwaye ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ngubani onokuthi andiqonde, anxibelelane nam kwaye andincede.
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Ndineminyaka engama-26 ubudala kwaye ndineminyaka eli-9 ndinokuphucuka nokuwa, namhlanje ndizifumana ndedwa ngaphandle koncedo, usapho kubo bonke kwaye kubonakala kuyinto eqhelekileyo kum, okanye ukuthanda ukutya nokugabha ngokungafuni ukutyeba kwaye funga ukuba akunjalo, andisenawo umdla wokutya kwaye ukuba ndiyatya, andinako ukuwugcina phantsi, ndinengxaki yokuphathwa yile nto kunzima ukuba ndizincede, ndiziva ndililolo kwaye ndifuna qhubela phambili kuba ndinonyana omangalisayo oneminyaka esi-8 ubudala odinga ukuba ndim kakuhle kwaye ndisempilweni, ukuba umntu ofunda oku ufuna ukundishiyela iselfowuni ndithethe okanye angandinceda.Ndiya kubulela. wena yanina kakhulu ukusukela ngoku !!
Ndifuna nje ukuphawula ngalo mbandela, ndicinga ukuba oku kubangele ukusilela kwengqondo okuninzi de ndade ndazibulala engqondweni yam kodwa ndiyabuthanda ubomi andazi ukuba kwenzekani kodwa inyani kukuba lonke ixesha ndisiva ukuba lento iyahamba ukundenza ndityebe ngakumbi nangakumbi kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ntoni ukulandela kukuba abantu bandixelela ukuba ndibonakala ndibhityile kwaye nokuba ndifuna ukuyeka ukukwenza, andisakwazi, yinto ehlala isenzeka kum kodwa nokuba bendifuna Ukuluvakalisa kusapho lwam andifuni kugwetywa kodwa ndiyaqonda ukuba ndifuna uncedo ngokwenene
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Ukuqala kwam ndandineminyaka eli-12 ubudala, ndiyakhumbula ndisitya kakhulu, kwaye andinakukunyamezela ukuziva ndihluthi, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndigabhe, emva koko ndacinga ukuba yayiyindlela entle yokutya yonke into endiyifunayo kwaye ndiyiphinde ndiyiphinde ndingayifumani. ubunzima (besele ndinengxaki ezinzima kakhulu zokuzithemba nokuzithemba kakhulu), kodwa andizange ndicinge ukuba ingasisifo sexesha elide kwaye oko kungakhokelela kwiingxaki ezininzi zempilo nezengqondo. Kwakunzima ukukhula ngoluhlobo, xa ndandineminyaka eyi-17 ndandibukele ingxelo yeveki yefashoni eParis kunye nabazali bam, xa babethetha ngeengxaki ze-bulimia kunye ne-anorexia kwiimodeli. Bendingazi ukuba into endayiqala xa ndandineminyaka elishumi elinambini kwaye ukusicima kwam de ndaneminyaka eli-17 yayisisifo kwaye oko kungakhokelela kwiingxaki ezininzi, ndaxelela abazali bam «ndiyayenza lonto», emva koko baqala ndibuze kwaye baqonda ngezinto ezingekho nokuba ndizilungisile, ialopecia, ulusu olomileyo, amazinyo amdaka, amanxeba ezandleni zam ekubekeni iminwe yam emlonyeni ukugabha. Ukusukela ngoko ndajongwa xa ndisiya kwigumbi lokuhlambela, kwaye ndayeka isifo okwethutyana, kodwa kum kwakusele kunganyamezeleki ukuziva ukutya esiswini sam ngaphezulu kweyure, imvakalelo yokuhlutha yandibangela ukuba ndibile, uvalo , ukucaphukisa, imeko embi. Ndayilungiselela loo nto ngokuzilolonga kakhulu, emva koko ndaya kwii-amphetamines, andizange nditye, ndilahle iikhilogremu ezili-13 ngenyanga, kwaye neenwele zam zahlala zisiwa. Konke ukufezekisa injongo entle, ndiye ndadilika kwaye okwethutyana ndibuyele ekutyeni okusempilweni nasekuzilolongeni. Ndibuyele kwi-bulimia xa ndiqaphela ukuba ndiyatyeba, kwaye ukwenza ukubala ukuza kuthi ga ngoku phantse i-31 yam ibingaphezulu kweminyaka elishumi ye-bulimia.
Sele ndiphulukene nezinyo, ezinye zonakele, isikhumba esomileyo, arrhythmias, ukulala okuninzi, kwaye kwiiveki nje ezimbini ezidlulileyo ndiyekile indlela eya entshabalalweni yokugqibela, ndinentombi eneminyaka emibini enesiqingatha, ayifanelanga ukuba nomama ogulayo, ukuze ube nelifa lokungaqondi malunga nokuzamkela nokuzonwabisa. Kunzima kakhulu, kunzima kakhulu, abantu bakukhombe, okanye bakubone benosizi, bacinga ukuba kulula ukuyeka ukuyenza, kodwa akunjalo, akunjalo, kwabo bayekayo ukutya abo batya ngokunyanzelayo ukugabha kamva, yimeko ebuthathaka kakhulu, imeko entsonkothileyo, zininzi izinto ezichaphazelekayo, i-psyche kunye nomzimba wonakele, sinesifo somzimba nangokweemvakalelo, siyazibona ngendlela eyoyikisayo, xa enyanisweni, sibahle kwaye sibahle njengalo naliphi na ibhinqa lendlela yeenqwelo-moya. Uluvo lwethu ngobuhle luphosakele, ke ngoku uninzi luye lwasixelela njenge-canon yalo, yintoni "echanekileyo ngokuchanekileyo" kwaye nathi ngokwethu sidale imibono ye-aesthetic engenangqondo, endaweni yokuxhaphaza obu buhle bodwa buye . Kusemthethweni ukulungisa izinto ezithile esingazithandiyo, ukwehlisa umzimba ngendlela esempilweni, ukuzilolonga, ukwenza ukutya okunesondlo, kodwa ayibobulumko okanye ayilunganga kwaphela ukufa ngokuthe ngcembe yonke imihla ubona ukuba ubomi buhamba njani kwimitya yakho yeenwele. ezihlala phakathi kweminwe yezandla zakho, uve amazinyo omlomo wakho eshukuma okanye i-chip, ulusu lwakho lubuna kwaye uthini malunga nenxalenye yangaphakathi, i-gastritis, i-arrhythmias.
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Molweni nonke!!! Ndizifundile zonke iikhomenti zakho kwaye ndiziva ndikhethwe .... Ndiye ndaba neanorexia kunye nesiqingatha se-bulimia kangangeminyaka emi-4 kwaye ndithi sisiqingatha se-bulimia kuba ndiyagabha ukutya into endiyityayo kwaye ndisela laxatives nangona nditye imifuno kuphela . Ndiziva ndingento yanto ngam… Ndiziva ndingento yanto kuba ndiziva ndihluthi kwaye ndiziva ndibi kuba ndenza njalo. Ndiziva ngathi ndinerhorho ngaphakathi kum, icwengekile ukubakho kwam kunye nomzimba wam kwaye uthathe umphefumlo wam nayo yonke into eyinxalenye yam. Ngamnye usisihogo, kwaye bendiphinda ndibuyele umva kodwa le yokugqibela ibiyindiza yokugqibela. Ngamanye amaxesha ndiziva ngathi ndifuna ukufa, ngaphandle koko, ukufa akuyothusi, kodwa kwelinye icala xa ndibona abantu besitya okanye enye into, oko kukhathazeka kuhlala kuvela… angakutya njani oko kwaye ebhityile? Andikwazi ukuyiqonda kwaye ndiyazohlwaya ngayo yonke imihla. Andazi ukuba umntu uza kuba yinto eqhelekileyo na ngenxa yokuba ngu-k okanye ukuba ndiyazi ukuba yinto yesiqhelo, andikhumbuli ukuba ndenze njani phambi kokutya, andikhumbuli ukuba ndingubani, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndibuza apho Ndikhona, uphi umntu owonwabileyo nothandekayo Bakhumbula ntoni abantu? Ndilahlekile ngokupheleleyo kwaye nditshonile, kwaye akukho nto indenza ndonwabe ngoku, ndifuna ukuba ndedwa ndingaboni mntu, ndifuna ukuthetha nam , bonisa, ubone okwenyani kwaye, ngaphakathi kwam kwaye ndiqale ukubona ukuba ndingubani kanye kanye. kuhle enkosi ngokufunda oku. ukwanga kunye nenkuthazo k ngokuqinisekileyo ngolunye usuku ukuba siya kuba sesiqhelo nokuba kungabiza malini na, kufuneka silwe kwaye sicinge yonke imihla xa sijonga esipilini k siyamangalisa nangona sinobunzima, k ubuntu bethu Indlela yokuba ingalinganiswa kwisikali, abanobunzima, kuya kufuneka bayinike ithuba.
Eli phepha lihle kakhulu, kufuneka sikhankasele ukukhusela abantu abatsha.
Ingxaki enkulu kakhulu, masiqwalasele obu bubi.
Enkosi ngokukwazi ukusebenzisana.
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Molweni, ndandine-bulimia ne-anorexia, ndaqala ndineminyaka eyi-12, kwaye konke oku kwenzeka kum kuba babendikhathaza esikolweni ukuba usapho lwam lutyebile, kwaye benza njalo, njengomama, andisakwazi ukunyamezela ukugculelwa okuninzi kwaye ndaye ndabona kungcono ndiyeke ukutya, ndaqala ukushiya isiqingatha sokutya kwam emva koko ndatya iziqhamo ezihlambulukileyo emva koko ndadada amanzi de ekugqibeleni ndayeka ukuwathatha kuba ndaziva ndihluthi kwaye ndityebile ndazibona esipilini ndaye ndajonga ndityebile kakhulu ndiyisebenzise ndisebenzisa iiyure ezi-4 zilandelelana andisakwazi ukwenza ngaphezulu kodwa ingqondo yam ibinamandla kunam, bendiqhubeka nokwenza into enye yonke imihla nangona bendisazi ukuba lento ndiyenzayo ayilunganga, ngoku ndingu 14 iminyaka ubudala kwaye kude kube ngoku andinakulibala ukwaliwa kwabantu kunye neeveki apho ndibuyela kwinto enye kunye nezinye izinto endicinga ngazo kwaye ndigqibe ekubeni ndishiye yonke into ngasemva kodwa andikwazi, ndingathanda ukuthetha nomntu othi uyandiqonda, ndiyakholelwa ukuba akukho mntu uzokuyixela kuba andisafuni ukuyiginya ndindedwa.
Amaphiko amantombazana abafana abakule meko abancami bacele uncedo ndiyazi ukuba uyakwazi !!!!
Ndiyazi, ungabuyeli kwakhona.
kwaye abo baqhubeka ngoluhlobo banokufumana uncedo kwaye enkosi ngokubeka eli phepha kunceda kakhulu ukuphuma
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Bendi anorexic x 6 iminyaka emithathu yokuqala ndiyikhanyele, emva koko ndacela uncedo kwaye lwaliwa kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha ndadibana nabantu abanobubele kwaye bandincedile ngoku ndinama-30 eekilo ngaphezulu kodwa andicingi ukuba ndikwi-100 ndikhululeke kwaye Andikwazi kwamkela ukuba ndenyuka ndinesisindo kwaye andifuni kutya ndiyoyika kakhulu ndineentombi ezi-2 kwaye enye yazo yayineminyaka engama-8 ubudala i-anorexic kwaye enye yayine-bulimic, sikwi-a. inkqubo enzima.
Molweni mantombazana, i-berda andikusoli ngento onayo
kodwa jonga ukuba bathini, yonke into abayibambayo ayilunganga
U-ana no-mia ngamagama nje abuhlungu
yokugula ukuba bayagula kwaye bayaphambana
yiyo loo nto befuna ukubeka ezo zinto kwiintloko zabo ezincinci
Cinga ukuba ufuna ukuba lithambo elibi kangaka
Baya kuncanca kuphela ukuba bafuna ukutya okuqhelekileyo kunye okusempilweni njengokutya iziqhamo kunye nokutya
kunye namanzi amaninzi bazowasela ngokungathi bayancipha ndingathanda ukubanceda pliz kien kiere ukunciphisa umzimba kodwa ngokutya ngaphandle kwamafutha bayongeza
Utshintsho lwe-ke kieran kwaye ungafani ne-anorexis yongeza
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Molweni, nonke, okokuqala ndifuna ukukuthumelela inkuthazo eninzi kwaye nangaphezu kokwabelana ngamava am, ndifuna ukwamkela ukuba amaxesha amaninzi bendicinga ukuba okwenzekileyo kum, okanye okwenzekayo kuthi, bekuyinto engaqhelekanga kuluntu, into ukuba ndim kuphela kwaye bambalwa kakhulu abantu ababenayo, kodwa ndiyaqonda ukuba simbalwa. Yinto ekunzima ukuyishiya, ayisosigqibo, lutshintsho olukhulu ebomini, andazi ukuba ndenze njani, andazi ukuba ndibhekise kubani, andazi nokuba kulungile . Ndineminyaka engama-20 kwaye ukusukela xa ndandineminyaka elishumi elinambini andityi iintsuku okanye nditye kakhulu kwaye ndigabhe nangakumbi, ekugqibeleni ndiyazibuza ukuba ingaba yonke into endiyenzayo ayilunganga na, kuba ndiyakhangela kwaye zininzi iindlela zokutya ezimbi yenye, ukutyeba kakhulu, abatya inyama, okanye abo batya nabenza imidlalo emininzi. Yeyiphi ipatheni ekufuneka siyilandele nyani ... bulimia ...
Mhlawumbi, ingxaki ibanzi kwaye ayisiyokwazi kuphela indlela yokutya, kodwa ujongana njani neqela lezentlalo elinakho ukuzenzakalisa, lithethe njengento eyenzekayo kwaye hayi njengesi sifo, kufuneka ibe yimihla ngemihla. ..
Andazi ukuba kutheni ndibhalela le nto, ndiyaqikelela kuba emva kweminyaka emibini ndiyaqala ukuziva ndibuthathaka kwaye andabelani nayo kuba andifuni abantu endibathandayo ukuba baphinde bakhathazeke kwaye bacinge ukuba ukubuyela umva.
Ndiqale ukuzenza ndigabhe xa ndandineminyaka elishumi elinesine ubudala, kwakungeyiyo kuba ndandifuna ukuba mncinci, ndandingaziva mnandi, iimvakalelo zam zazindongamele kwaye kwakungathi kukho into endikhathazayo ngaphakathi. Olo xinzelelo bendiva ukuba lukhululekile ngokutya, okanye mandithi kukutya kakhulu, kodwa emva koko ndaziva ndonakele, kwaye ndaqala ukugabha, kwaye xa ndiyenzile, ndaziva ngathi zonke iintlungu ezazindilawula imini yonke zihambile Ukutya.
Emva kwexesha, bekukho ukusikeka okuncinci emilenzeni nasezingalweni ezandikhulula, zajika iintlungu zam zaba yinto yomzimba kwaye kum yayilawuleka ngakumbi. Khange ndikwazi ukuyichonga indlela endivakalelwa ngayo, ndinokuthi kuphela yinto ebindongamele, ukubandezeleka okungapheliyo. Ngokuyiguqula ibe yeyokwenyama, bendikwazi ukuyilawula, bekufana nokuthatha uxinzelelo embizeni.
Ngokwenene yayingengombono wam wobomi, ndandifuna ngokwenene umntu ukuba abone indlela endiphatheke kakubi ngayo, kodwa akukho mntu waqaphela, ndaye ndaqhubeka ndisitya ndigabha, ndisitya ndigabha, kwaye qho emva kwexesha ndikwazile ukuyeka kwaye ndibenento ethile " "ixesha" eliqhelekileyo. Kude kubuye uxinzelelo ukuzondongamela kwaye andinakukwazi ukuzibamba.
Ekuphela kwento endinokuyithetha kukuba wayehlala esihogweni, kwaye wayeqhubeka esihambela kude kuyo yonke into. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu kukuba ngaphandle wayegqibelele, ethobela kwaye ehlala elungelelanisiwe ukuze afune abanye. Akukho namnye owakha wayibona, ndaye ndacaphuka ngakumbi, andisafuni ukuphuma, ngalo lonke ixesha ndiziva ndindodwa kwaye ndinqanyulwe kuyo yonke into, kwaye andisenaxhala lokuba nabani na angayiqaphela, ndiyabacaphukela bonke abantu abandingqongileyo, kuba Indawo yokujonga izinto bendingenamsebenzi nakubani na, ke abanakuyiqonda into eyenzekayo kum.
Ndandinje malunga neminyaka eli-11, ndaye ndakholelwa ukuba andixabisekanga, kwaye akukho mntu undithandayo, nokuba ndingoyena mntu ulusizi emhlabeni kwaye andifanelanga ukuqhubeka ndiphila. Ndifuna ukuba mncinci, ndinciphise de ndimke, kwaye inyani kukuba ndiphantse ndaphumelela.
Ngenye imini, ndafunda into entsha, ukuba akusafuneki ukuba nditye kwaye ndigabhe ukuze ndizive ndicocekile kwiintlungu, ndafunda ukulawula indlala.
Ndiye ndenza utshintsho lwam kwianorexia, iintlungu emzimbeni zam zigqithile kuleyo yomphefumlo wam yiyo loo nto bekungafuneki ukuba nditye ndigabhe ukuyilawula. Ndiqale njalo, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha ukunciphisa umzimba kwakungonelanga, ndandifuna ukunyamalala.
Ithiyori yam yile: Ndizakuqhubeka ngoluhlobo de ndikwazi ukufa, kodwa bendifuna ukufa kancinci, ndiyeke kancinci kancinci.
Le yindlela endaphelela ngayo esibhedlele. Ndibe nomzimba ozinzileyo kwaye ndizinzile iminyaka emibini, kwaye inyani kukuba andifuni ukubuyela esihogweni endandihlala kuso. Ndiye ndafunda ukuthetha into endiziva ngayo nokucela uncedo xa ndiludinga. Ndifundile ukuba ndifuna ukuphila, ndiza kuba nexesha elipheleleyo lokufa, sisiphelo esimiselwe kwangaphambili sayo yonke into kwaye ke sizokuyiqhubela phambili.
Ndicinga ukuba isibhedlele sindisindisile, sikwanceda ukuba ndiphantse ndafa kwaye ndaqonda ukuba ndifuna ukuhlala kwaye ndifuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni ebangela usuku ngalunye, olungileyo nolubi.
Namhlanje ndibuhlungu kancinci, mvanje izinto bezinzima kum, kodwa andizukubuyela kwesi sifo kuba ayingobomi endibulindeleyo. Bobabini kunye nabanye abantu bafanelwe ngcono, kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke ukuba bafunde ukuba iintlungu kunye nokubandezeleka kungalawulwa kwaye kukho ubomi obungcono, obungaphelelanga kodwa obungcono.
Ndizama, ndilwa yonke imihla kwaye ndiceba ukuqhubeka ndiyenza, ngamanye amaxesha ndibhetele kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ndimbi, kodwa ndizama ngamandla kwaye ngokunyanisekileyo andikaze ndizisole ngokuthatha isigqibo sokulwa esi sifo.
Kwakhona, njengoko umhlobo olungileyo esitsho "asiyiyo le nto siyilinganisileyo".
Ngethamsanqa kuni nonke kwaye niyakhuthazeka, kukho ukubandezeleka okungakumbi, nangona ngamanye amaxesha, njenganamhlanje kum, kubonakala ngathi akunjalo.
Into ye-bulimia ayilunganga kodwa ulwazi lupholile
molo, ashhh ndiyaqala ukubhala, mm
Ndiqale le njengomdlalo, kuba ndifuna ukwehla emzimbeni ukuthanda isoka lam, ndasuka kwi-86 ukuya kwi-62
Ndaziva ndizingca, ngaphambi kokuba ndikhathazeke kuphela ngomsebenzi wesikolo, isithandwa sam, ukunxiba kakuhle, kunye nokuncipha yonke imihla, kwaye ndineBloggi yam, yamakhosazana apho yonke imihla ndandiqhagamshela ekuthetheni nabahlobo bam
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Ngaphambi kokuba ndonwabe kodwa ndinempilo,
kwaye namhlanje ndicela nje uThixo ukuba abe nempilo
Ndifuna ukuba nabantwana, ubomi obuqhelekileyo
kodwa ndicinga ukuba andizukuyifumana.
Ukuba umntu uhamba kwinto enye, kuya kuba kuhle ukuba bandongeze
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Khange ndibenangxaki kodwa ekusebenzeni nolwelo lokushicilela kwescreen ndiye ndifumane i-gastritis kwaye ekugqibeleni ibe sisilonda soxinzelelo emsebenzini wam. kwimizobo. Ndicinga ukuba elowo kuthi kufuneka afune ukulingana ebomini bakhe. Ukuba ndiyazi ukuba intle kwaye ibhityile ... ngokucacileyo bayakuxabisa ngakumbi ... kodwa kufanelekile ukubeka ubomi bakho emngciphekweni ngobuhle nje ... andicingi njalo. ziphathe kakuhle ..
Molweni nonke ... Ndiyazi ukuba esi sifo se-anorexia kunye ne-bulimia senzelwe abafazi kuphela kodwa ndiza kunixelela ibali lam: bendihlala ndityebile, ndinobunzima obungaphezulu kwe-130 kg kwiminyaka emi-5 eyadlulayo ... Ndizamile konke ukutya kwaye Ngendlela eyenziwe nguJhon Gabriel (EYE andikhe nditsho ukuba indlela enjalo ayisebenzi, kodwa ndiza kubhekisa kukuthabatheka) Ke yintoni eyam kum ukuzibona esipilini kusasa ndihlala ndibonakala ndityebile, Ndatya ukutya okuncinci, ndamisa umgubo, inyama ... ndandingumntu otya inyama kodwa kancinci kwaye ndatya iikomkomere ezininzi kunye neziqhamo ... xa ndadibana nenye yee-compadritos zam, ndamkhapha wayohlamba itraki yakhe ... kwaye ngelixa behlamba iloli ndathatha ezinye iifoto ... kwenzeka ukuba ndizilayishe ebusweni kwaye yandichukumisa kakhulu kangangokuba ndacinga ukuba "ndim lowo ...?" Ngapha koko, ebusuku bendiza kutsiba intambo kakhulu, ndide ndibile kakhulu, andixoki kuwe, ndinyamezele imizuzu engama-30 yokutsiba ngokuqhubekayo, ubuncinci iintsuku ezintlanu ngeveki, ungacinga ukuba bendilimaza amadolo am, ukuxelela kubo ukuba bathe bachukumisa indawo yam esezantsi yamadolo beva iintlungu ezoyikekayo kwaye imilenze yam ibibuthathaka kakhulu, kangangokuba ukuba bayandityhala baya kundiphosa ... ndiye ndalahleka ukuya kuthi ga kwi-5 kg, kungoko ukukhathazeka kwam Kungenxa yokuba andizange ndilahlekelwe ngaphezulu, kodwa kwiseshoni yokwenza i-acupuncture, bandifaka nge-astragalus, emva koko ndothuka ndaphantse ndafuna ukuphelelwa ngamandla kwaye ukusuka apho bandixelela ukuba ndibuthathaka kakhulu, enyanisweni iintsuku phambi kokuba abazali bam bakhalaze ukuba Ndandinobuso obuxhalabisayo, kuba ulusu lwam lwaluphenduke lwaba tyheli, nokuba isandla sam sasityheli ... Ke kungekudala emva koko, kwaye ngokusekwe koko bandixelela ama-acupuncturists, ndaqala ukutya ii-beet ezininzi ... Kwaye emva koxinzelelo uhlaselo ebendisokola kulo ukusukela ngoJulayi walo nyaka, ndiye ndatyeba, Ndikwi-80s yam, kwaye nangona ndingakhange ndikwazi ukugxila ekwehliseni ubunzima kwakhona, ngenxa yoxinzelelo, uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo, ndiza kukuxelela nje ukuba loo nyaka uhleli kangaka ulibhityile, AKUKHO kuluncedo kum, kuba Nam ke bendingekatshati .. Ewe, ndiye ndaqonda ukuba xa uthe phithi ngumzimba wakho awuziniki ixesha lokuhlakulela amanye amaxabiso akwenza ube ngumntu owahlukileyo emhlabeni ... Ukwenza izinto zibe mandundu, ke abahlobo bam bandixelele, qhubeka njalo.babefuna ukubona phantsi komhlaba, mhlawumbi intombazana indibonile kwaye yathi "utyebile" kwaye yandicaphukisa ngoba ngenxa yezimvo ezifana nokuba abantu bayasokola ... Inye into oyifunayo ukwenza ithoni emzimbeni wakho kodwa enye into eyahluke mpela kukuba ufuna ukungena kwiingcinga ezisisiqhelo ezithandwayo. Funda incwadi ethi "Teen Diary" nantsi imeko yeanorexia kunye nebulimia .. iyothusa ... Salu95 !!!
Sawubona amantombazana xa ndijika i-14 ndaye ndahamba ngokuzithoba. Oku kwandithatha. Ukuthambekela kakhulu kubunzima bam ngelo xesha yayiziipawundi ezili-130 ndaza ndanesisindo sama-83. Okona kubi kakhulu kukuba wayeyazi into eyenzekayo. ngeloxesha ndaziva ndiphelelwe ngamandla. Izintso zam zibuhlungu kwaye benditshiswa sisisu. Enkosi kuncedo losapho lwam ngokubanzi kunye nemfundiso yam emangalisayo lusien. Kwaye ngokucacileyo ngawo onke amandla am ndakwazi ukuphuma kuwo. Namhlanje ndiziva ndilungile, ndiyazilolonga kwaye ndinokutya okunezondlo. Amantombazana namakhwenkwe nditsho amakhwenkwe kuba nangona ingaqhelekanga rhoqo kuyenzeka ukuba benze le nto. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuziva wonwabile njengoko unjalo kwaye ungenazo izakhiwo.ubomi sesona sipho sihle uThixo asinike sona.Kutheni ungabukhathaleli? Nabani na osithandayo kufuneka asamkele njengoko sinjalo. Ingcebiso yam kukuba wonke umntu azixabise ukuba ungobani kwaye angaze enze nantoni na echasene nempilo yethu.Ndibulise kwaye ukhumbule, akukho namnye unako ukulawula iimvakalelo zethu ngaphezu kwakho.
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Molo, bendinezi zifo, ndiye ndaphelelwa zizo zonke izihlobo. Intembeko yosapho .. Ndaye ndaya kunyango olunzulu ndaphantse ndafa kodwa ndathi xa ndivuka yonke into yahlukile kwaye andaziva ukuba ndineminyaka engama-25k ndineminyaka eli-13 ubudala ndinomama olungileyo kodwa olinxila notata ongakwaziyo ukuma kuba nditshabalalisile Usapho .. Akukho mntu undithembileyo Babendibona njengomntu ophambeneyo okanye umntu ovela kwelinye ilizwe ofuna ukujongwa ... ndedwa. Ndaye ndomelela kuqala kuyo yonke into ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndibonise wonke umntu ukuba ndinako kwaye ndenze ngoku ndoyisile ngoku ndiyindoda yomkhosi ... ndikwazile ukuphuma equleni
NAWE UNAKO ..!