Xa umntu eqala ubudlelwane obuthile cinga ukuba iya kuhlala ixesha elide kwaye iya kuhlala ngexesha. Nangona kunjalo, le yinto ngelishwa engaqhelekanga ukwenzeka, kuba zininzi izibini ezitshatayo ezizahlulayo kwaye zingafumani siqhamo. Zininzi izizathu zokuba kutheni isibini singafumani siqhamo kwaye sigqibele ngokuqhekeka.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha ngezo zinto okanye izinto eziyimfuneko kubudlelwane bokuqina kwaye kugqityiwe kule minyaka idlulileyo.
Ngaba isondo kubalulekile kwiqabane elide?
Inkolelo edumileyo icinga ukuba isini siyinto ebalulekileyo kwaye kubalulekile kubudlelwane obuthile ukuze ihlale ixesha. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kwezimvo zoluntu, Ukwabelana ngesondo kuhlala kwindawo ebalulekileyo kuzinzo lwezibini kodwa akubalulekanga kwaye kubalulekile njengezinye izinto. Ukwabelana ngesondo kufuneka kubekhona kulo naluphi na ulwalamano kodwa ukuba amanye amaxabiso abaluleke kakhulu awakhathalelwanga, kunokwenzeka ukuba esi sibini siza kuphelisa ukwahlukana size siphele.
Iinkalo okanye izinto eziyimfuneko kubudlelwane obuhlala buhleli
Ukwazi ukonwabela ubudlelwane obunempilo kunye nokuhlala buxhomekeke kuthotho lwezinto esiza kubona ngezantsi:
- Kubalulekile ukuba isibini sikwazi ukwabelana ngazo zonke iintlobo zexabiso njengenhlonipho, ukuthembela, ukhuseleko okanye uthando.
- Esi sibini kufuneka sibe nesiphelo okanye injongo kwaye ayikho enye into ngaphandle kokufumana ulonwabo. Intlalontle yabo bobabini abantu ibalulekile kwibhondi eyenziweyo ukuba ihlale iminyaka.
- Enye into engenakwaphulwa phakathi kwesibini lunxibelelwano. Ukuba akukho nxibelelwano lunjalo, kunzima kakhulu ukuba esi sibini sihlale kwaye sigqibe ngokuqhekeka.
- Ukuthembana lelona xabiso libalulekileyo kwisibini. Ukunqongophala kokuthembana kuphelisa ulwalamano ngokwalo.
- Uvelwano kwiqabane lakho yenye into enceda ukwenza ubudlelwane buhlale. Kuya kufuneka uyazi indlela yokuxabisa iinzame zomnye umntu kwaye wazi nendlela yokubulela xa kufanelekile kwaye kufanelekile. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuzingca kwaye ungafuni ukubona into eyenziwa sisibini yonke imihla, ihlala ingunobangela wokuqhekeka kwekhonkco.
- Esi sibini kufuneka kubekho ubulungisa. Akunakubakho mntu uhlala enika kwaye enikezela kwaye omnye aqhubeke engafakwanga kwaye anganikeli nto. Ukuba neqabane kuthetha ukuzibophelela kumacala omabini kwaye ubeke usukelo olufanayo oluza kuzuza ibhondi eyenziweyo.
Ngamafutshane, ukuba isibini sihlale ngaphezu kweminyaka, ukubandakanyeka ngokupheleleyo kwabantu kunye yomzamo wemihla ngemihla wokuqinisekisa ukuba ibhondi ayibi buthathaka ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ngaphandle kwalokhu kufuneka kubekho ubudlelwane, umboniso rhoqo wothando kunye nentlonipho kumntu ngamnye. Ngale ndlela, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubudlelwane bunyamezele ukuhamba kwexesha kwaye bomelele.