Ukuba likhoboka lohlobo oluthile lweziyobisi kuba nempembelelo embi kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bomntu: emsebenzini, kusapho okanye kwisibini. Kwimeko yokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi, kuqhelekile ukuba ngokuhamba kwexesha ubudlelwane besibini bugugile ukusa kwinqanaba lokuqhawula ngonaphakade.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo Sithetha ngomonakalo obangelwa ziziyobisi kubudlelwane kunye nendlela yokujongana nayo.
Umonakalo obangelwe kukukhotyokiswa ziziyobisi kwesi sibini
Ukuxhatshazwa kweziyobisi kufuneka kuthathwe njengesifo kwaye kufuneka kuphathwe ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuba abupheli ubuhlobo. Ingxaki enkulu yokukhotyokiswa kukukhanyela kwicala lomguli ngaphandle kweminye imiba engalunganga efana nokukhohlisa okanye ukungathembi. Konke oku, njengoko kuqhelekile, kugqiba ukuthatha ikamva lobudlelwane.
Iingxabano kunye neengxoxo zizinto eziqhelekileyo zemihla ngemihla, into ethi, njengesiqhelo, igqibe ukutshabalalisa iqhina elidaliweyo kwaye ngoko ke ubudlelwane ngokwalo. Akukhathaliseki nokuba amalungu amabini angamakhoboka okanye linye kuphela lamaqela. Umlutha sisifo esiphela sitshabalalisa naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane. Ukuba ukukhanyela ebusweni bomlutha onjalo kwenzeka rhoqo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ubuthi buthathe ubudlelwane kwaye bube buthathaka ngendlela enokuthi iphele ngokuqhawula.
Kwelinye icala, kufanele kuphawulwe ukuba kukho ucalucalulo oluninzi ngokuphathelele ihlabathi leziyobisi nokuba likhoboka lazo. Iintloni eziveliswa yile nto yenza iqabane lomntu okhobokileyo lizame ngandlela zonke ukuba akukho mntu ufumanisayo malunga nokulutha okunjalo, nto leyo eyandisa ingxaki yobudlelwane besibini.
Yintoni enokwenziwa ukuba isibini singamakhoboka eziyobisi
Kwimeko enjalo kubaluleke kakhulu ukujongana nengxaki ngqo kwaye wenze umntu okhobokileyo azi ukuba uyagula kwaye ufuna uncedo. Kungcono uye kwiziko elikhethekileyo kunyango lweziyobisi. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba kungekhona nje ukuba umlutha uya kufuna uncedo, kodwa kunye neqabane ngokwakhe. Iingcali kwintsimi kufuneka zizame ukwenza omabini amaqela aqonde umonakalo obangelwa ziziyobisi kubudlelwane kunye nokubaluleka kokushiya umlutha onjalo.
Umonakalo owenziwe kukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi kwesi sibini uphezulu, kungoko bobabini abantu banendawo yabo yobuqu yokulawula iintlungu zabo kunye nokuphucula imeko yabo yeemvakalelo. Ngokutsho kweengcali kulo mbandela, kuhle ukuba ikhoboka lifumane unyango oluthile olunceda ukuphelisa ukukhotyokiswa okuthe kwaye ukuba isibini sifumane uncedo lonyango ukuze siphucule ngokweemvakalelo. Inyaniso yeyokuba akukho lula okanye kulula ukuba ubudlelwane bomelele emva kokuba likhoboka leziyobisi lelinye lamaqela. Ukuzimisela kwamaqela omabini kunye nomzamo wokulwela ubudlelwane ngundoqo xa kuziwa ekunqobeni isifo esinjalo.
Ngokufutshane, ukuba likhoboka leziyobisi sisifo ekufuneka sinyangwe ngokukhawuleza, kungenjalo inokuphelisa ubuhlobo. Ngaphandle koncedo lonyango olufanele lufumane ikhoboka, kubalulekile ukuba isibini sifumane uncedo ukuze sihlangabezane nengxaki yeemvakalelo esinayo.