Sisoloko sithetha lonto kufanelekile ukuba sibe lolona hlobo lubalaseleyo lwethu, ukuphucula yonke imihla kwaye oku kuthetha ukukhathalela abanye kunye nokusingqongileyo. Ukuba kumanyano yindlela yokunceda abanye nokubeka bucala ukuzingca okuxhaphakileyo kuluntu. Baninzi abantu abazimanya nomanyano olubangela ukuphucula ubomi babo nobabanye.
Kukho Izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni kulungile ukuxhasa, kwaye yinto ekufuneka siyijongile, kuba ikumgangatho olungileyo womntu. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ingaba njani kwaye kutheni ingumbono olungileyo, siza kuthetha ngezibonelelo ezibandakanya oku.
Siya kuba nethemba
Ukwenza eli lizwe libe yindawo engcono kunye nesimo sokuxhasa apho sinceda abanye ngendlela yokungazingci yinto eyenza Masibone izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo ngakumbi. Umhlaba uzele zizinto ezingalunganga nezingalunganga, kodwa xa sonke sihlangana ukwenza yonke into isebenze kwaye sincedane kulapho sikholelwa kwakhona ukuba inokuba yindawo elungileyo yokuhlala. Umntu unomgangatho wokumanyana nabanye, wokuba novelwano nokunceda. Ukubona indlela umhlaba onokuba yindawo engcono ngayo enkosi kuthi kunokusenza sibe nethemba mihla le.
Kukunceda ukuba uphuhlise izakhono zentlalo
Ukuba kumanyano kusenza ukuba sihambe kwaye sinxibelelane nabanye abantu abafuna iinjongo ezifanayo. Ukuvolontiya kunye nokujoyina umbutho ongenzi nzuzo kunokuba yimibono elungileyo ukuqala ukubonisa ubumbano. Ngaba Abantu abaninzi abathatha isigqibo sokuphuma kubulolo babo bayabaxhasa, ke yonke into ilungile kubo. Ukuba asinabo ubudlelwane obuninzi kwezentlalo, kweli hlabathi apho sifuna ukunceda khona siya kufumana abanye abantu abanenkxalabo efanayo kwaye oku kuya kusinceda ukuba sonwabe ngakumbi.
Nciphisa uxinzelelo lwakho
Ukunikezela ixesha lethu kwinto esiyithandayo kwaye izisa izinto ezintle kwabanye abantu okanye kwezinye iimeko yinto enokunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lwethu. Uxinzelelo lubakho ngenxa yezinto ezininzi, kodwa kumaxesha amaninzi inxulumene nento yokuba asonelisekanga bubomi bethu kwaye oku kudala uxinzelelo. Khangela indawo apho siziva sikhululekile ukwenza into esiyithandayo kwaye ukongeza kwiziphumo ezilungileyo eluntwini, kunokuba yindlela yoxinzelelo olunokuncitshiswa. Izinto endizithandayo ezisinika into elungileyo zihlala zilungile ukunqanda uxinzelelo kunye nazo zonke iziphumo zalo.
Sifunda ukuba nesisa ngakumbi
Siphila kuluntu oluqhubeka lusanda, apho kubonakala ngathi wonke umntu kufuneka azikhathaze ngezakhe. Oku kusenza singabi nesisa okanye silibale ukuba njalo. Ukusebenza neeNGO kunye neminye imibutho kusenza sibone kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba sabelane kwaye sibe nesisa. Ukwabelana ngezinto nabanye kunokusinika okuninzi ngokweemvakalelo, into engafiki kuthi ngezinto nezinto. Kunzima ukukufunda kuluntu lwabathengi ngolu hlobo, apho ulonwabo lusekwe kwimpahla, kodwa siyakuyiqonda kwangoko nje xa siqala ukubona iziqhamo zesisa. Ayisiyokunika kuphela izinto eziphathekayo kodwa kunye nexesha lethu okanye ubulumko, umzekelo ukunika iiklasi abantu abazifunayo okanye ukwabelana ngexesha nabantu abazifunayo. Konke oku kuyinxalenye yokwabelana kunye nenkqubo yokupha kwabanye abantu.