Ukuba nedayari yobuqu apho sibhala okwenzekayo kuthi yonke imihla lukhetho olukhulu. Kuyinyani ukuba mhlawumbi siyenza kancinci kwaye siyenza kancinci kwaye kukuba amaphephandaba esiwaziyo ngoku ngawona abonakaliswa kubuchwephesha obutsha kunye neevidiyo. Kodwa xa sibuyela kwezindala, kwezo zokubhala, kufuneka siqonde ukuba zineengenelo ezinkulu.
Mhlawumbi ngelo xesha, xa wawubhalile, akuzange uziphawule zonke ezo ngenelo, kodwa lixesha lokuba uyithabathe kwakhona kwaye ufumanise yonke into enokukwenzela yona ngokwenene. Thatha iimvakalelo zethu, iimvakalelo kunye namava ngokubanzi, kuya kusinceda ngaphezu kokuba unokucinga kwaye ngoku sikubonisa yona.
Uya kufumanisa ukuba ngawaphi amanxeba ekufuneka aphole
Ngamanye amaxesha ukucinga ngayo okanye ukuthetha ngayo akushiyi umboniso obalulekileyo njengaxa ubhala idayari yobuqu. Kungenxa yoko uya kuqonda iimeko ezithile eziphindaphindwayo, zeengcinga mhlawumbi ezingakuvumeli ukuba ujonge phambili. Ke, into entle kukuba qho ngenyanga okanye nangaphambili, siye sifunda ngasemva amaphepha ukuze siqonde yonke into esiyithathileyo kwezo veki. Xa ubona apho inxeba okanye ingxaki ikhoyo, kufuneka uzibuze imibuzo ethile malunga nokuba kutheni isenzeka kwaye yintoni obuya kuyitshintsha okanye ungayenza njani ukuzama ukuqhubeka kwindlela ehambelana nawe.
Amaxesha amnandi aya kuhlala erekhodwa
Ngamanye amaxesha asikhumbuli xa into eyenzekayo sele kudlule ixesha elide. Ke ngoko, ukuba sinayo yonke into ngokufanelekileyo, ayisayi kuba njalo. Sinokukhumbula umzuzu ngamnye. Zombini ezo zolonwabo olukhulu kunye nezo zazingekho kangako. Kodwa zombini ngokuqinisekileyo zisenze sakhula kwaye zingamathuba aseleyo kubomi bethu njengezifundo ezifundiweyo. Nje ukuba ube nedayari yakho, awusayi kulibala nto kwaye ubomi bakho buya kurekhodwa ukuze ungaphoswa nosuku olunye.
Uya kuzilungisa iimpazamo
Xa sifunda iphephandaba esele likwiminyaka ethile, ngokuqinisekileyo siyaziqaphela iimpazamo kutshintsho lokuqala. Oko kukuthi, indlela owenze ngayo ngexesha elithile kunye nendlela obuya kuyenza ngayo ngoku njengokuba ixesha lidlulile. Mhlawumbi ngenxa yale nkqubo yokuvuthwa, kuye kwenzeka into efanayo kuthi sonke, kungoko kusoloko kulungile ukuqhubeka sifunda ukuqhubeka sizilungisa ebomini.
Ukugcina idayari yakho kuya kunceda inkumbulo yakho
Ngaphambi kokuba siyikhankanye kodwa ngendlela echuliweyo, ekubeni xa sibhala sibalisa amava ahlala ngonaphakade kwidayari yethu. Kodwa kwakhona kukuba, ngalo lonke ixesha siyifunda, kuya kufuneka senze umgudu wokuyikhumbula, ukuyihlaziya okanye ukuyiva. Oku kwenza ukuba inkumbulo yethu ikhangele kwixesha elidlulileyo, isebenzise nokuba ayibonakali ngathi. Ngoko kuluqheliselo olulungileyo ukuligcina lisebenza ngalo lonke ixesha.
Iyakuphucula impilo yakho yengqondo
Liyinyaniso elokuba izigulo zengqondo zintsonkothile. Kodwa ngokubanzi, ukukwazi ukubamba iimvakalelo zethu ephepheni okanye kwidayari, njengoko kunjalo, kuya kuhlala kusinceda. Yindlela yokukhupha umoya ngoko ke ikwathathwa njengonyango kwezona zilula. Ngokuqinisekileyo xa ubhala imeko enhle, ingqondo yakho iyaphumla kwaye uya kuphinda uhlaziye loo mzuzu ngokumomotheka ebusweni bakho, okuphazamisa kuzo zonke iingxaki ezikujikelezayo. Mhlawumbi ngokuphinda ufunde yonke into, unokufumana oko kukwenza wonwabe ngokwenene okanye mhlawumbi okwahlukileyo koko. Ke sinokukushwankathela oku njengokuzazi ngcono kancinci, nto leyo engasoloko ilula. Ngoku uyazi ukuba kutheni kufuneka ube nedayari yakho!