Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukugcina ubudlelwane obunobuhlobo kunye ne-ex yakho?

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Abantu abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba emva kokwahlukana, Kunokwenzeka ukuba uqhubeke nobuhlobo obuhle kunye nowangaphambili. Kukho amathandabuzo amaninzi ukuba umntu onombuzo unokuba nayo kwaye nangona iyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ihlala rhoqo, kunzima ukugcina ubuhlobo kunye nomntu oye waba liqabane ixesha elide.

Kusenokwenzeka ukuba kwakhiwe ubuhlobo obuhle., kodwa iingcali kulo mbandela zicebisa ukuba ugcine umgama wakho ukusuka kwi-ex ukuphepha iingxaki ezinokubakho.

Ubuhlobo ne ex yakho

Xa isibini siqhawula umtshato, iimeko ezimbini ezahlukileyo zinokwenzeka: ziphela kakubi kwaye zingafuni ukwazi omnye nomnye ngonaphakade okanye uphela ngendlela yobuhlobo kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane obuhle njengabahlobo. Kuyinyani ukuba kwiimeko ezininzi, kunqabile ukuqhubeka nobudlelwane kunye nomntu ngamnye kuba umntu ngamnye ethatha isigqibo sokushiya ixesha elidlulileyo kwaye akhe ubomi bakhe kwakhona. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, nokuba iinjongo zilungile, uthotho lweemvakalelo zinokuvela ezenza ukuba ubuhlobo bukhankanywe ngasentla bube nzima ngokupheleleyo.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukugcina ubuhlobo kunye nomntu wakho wangaphambili?

Eyona nto icetyiswayo kukushiya ubudlelwane kunye neqabane eliphukileyo kwaye uzame ukwakha kwakhona ubomi bakho. Nangona oku kuqhekeka kuphele ngeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo, kuhle ukufuduka ukuze amanxeba aphole ngokupheleleyo aze aphole ngonaphakade. Inokwenzeka kwaye kukho umngcipheko wokuba emva kobu budlelwane bobuhlobo, into efunwayo kukubuyela kwisibini kwakhona.

Yingakho iingcali zicebisa ngamaxesha onke ukuba zibonise kangangoko kuyimfuneko ngaphambi kokuba zenze isigqibo. KUYA Ukusuka apha, ngumcimbi wesibini ukwakha ubudlelwane bobuhlobo okanye ukukhetha ukulibala ngokupheleleyo.

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Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa kukho amathandabuzo

  • Kwanokuba elinye icala lesibini lifuna ukulondoloza ubuhlobo obuthile, ukhululekile ukungalamkeli olo ncedo. Ukuba awuboni kakuhle, kuhle ukuba uhlale phantsi neqabane lakho kwaye ulenze liqonde ukuba ayingombono olungileyo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukulondoloza ubuhlobo obuthile kunokwenza izinto zibe mbi ngakumbi.
  • Kubalulekile ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe kwaye uzame ukudibana nabantu abatsha ukuphepha ukubuyela kwixesha elidlulileyo. Akulungile kwaye akucebisi ukuhlala kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye ungavumeli ukuhamba kwe-ballast. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba udlule kwinkqubo ebuhlungu yokwahlukana kwaye uqale ukusuka ekuqaleni.
  • Simele sikhumbule ukuba ukuba ngabahlobo akufani nokugcina ulwalamano oluhle. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuphelisa ubudlelwane obuthile ngoxolo kwaye usuke apho, shiya ixesha elidlulileyo kwaye ukwazi ukuqhubeka nobomi ngaphandle kwengxaki.

Ngamafutshane, Kunzima kakhulu kwaye kunzima ukuba ngabahlobo kunye ne-ex yakho. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantu abaphelisa ubuhlobo bakhetha ukwenza oko ngoxolo baze balibale naluphi na uhlobo lweemvakalelo ukuze bakhe ubomi babo ngaphandle kweengxaki.


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