Njengakweminye imimandla okanye iindawo zobomi, Kuqhelekile kwaye kuqhelekile ukukruquka ngamaxesha athile esi sibini. Ukukruquka okunjalo kudla ngokuba sisiphumo sento ethile, ebangela ukungabi namdla kwiqabane. Akukho mntu ukhululekile ukuba abe nesithukuthezi amaxesha ngamaxesha, ngoko akuyomfuneko ukunika ukubaluleka kakhulu kule meko. Isiginali ye-alam kufuneka ihambe xa isithukuthezi siye saqheleka nangona sisebudlelwaneni.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye iqhelekile ukuba isibini sibe nesithukuthezi kwaye ukwenza ntoni ukubuyisela umva imeko enjalo.
Ukudikwa kwesi sibini
Uninzi lwexesha lokukruquka neqabane lakho, Kubonwa njengomqondiso we-alamu ukuba kukho into engalunganga kubudlelwane. Ukukruquka oku kudla ngokuvela rhoqo emva kweminyaka emihlanu okanye emithandathu emva kokuba nobudlelwane obuthile. Kukholelwa okanye kucingelwa ukuba luphawu olucacileyo lokuba uthando alusekho lukhuni njengoko lwalunjalo ekuqaleni kobudlelwane.
Nangona kunjalo, le yinkolelo ephosakeleyo. ekubeni sisimo esigqalwa njengesiqhelo ukusa kumlinganiselo othile yaye ngokuqhelekileyo sibakho kuninzi lolwalamano. Yingakho akukho mfuneko yokuxhalaba ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye uphathe le ngxaki ngokubambisana nesibini.
Ixhala lothando kwisibini
Xa uthando luvela phakathi kwabantu ababini, into ebizwa ngokuba yinkxalabo yothando. Imalunga nokuvuswa kweemvakalelo ezahlukeneyo kunye neemvakalelo ezimnandi kubo bobabini abantu. Oku kubangela uloyiko okanye uloyiko lokuphulukana nomntu omthandayo, ekuvumela ukuba wenze uxhulumaniso oluqinileyo ukuze oku kungenzeki. Nangona kunjalo, kuqhelekile kwaye kuqhelekile ukuba ngokuhamba kwexesha ezi mvakalelo zizolile kwaye imeko yokukruquka kwiqabane iphetha ngokuvela.
Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kubalulekile ukuba ungahlali phantsi ujonge izixhobo ezithile okanye iindlela ezinceda ukuvuselela umdla omnye komnye phakathi kobudlelwane. Ukuba akukho nto yenziwayo, ukukruquka kuya kubusa imihla ngemihla yobudlelwane kwaye kubeke emngciphekweni. Ke ngoko, ngumsebenzi wamaqela ukwazisa izinto ezintsha kwesi sibini, ukuze uvakalelo lwemonotony ethile kubudlelwane obuxeliweyo bunokuthi shwaka.
Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba isibini sikruquke
Kunokuthiwa yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye iqhelekile ukuba isibini sibe nesithukuthezi, nje ukuba yenzeka ngamaxesha athile. Ukukruquka kudla ngokuvela kobo budlelwane buhleli kunye ixesha elide. Isignali ye-alam inokuvela xa isithukuthezi sisonde ngexesha kwaye sihlala sihlala sihleli. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kubalulekile ukuba amaqela axoxe ngalo mbandela ngokuphandle kwaye afune esona sisombululo sisesona sinokubakho.
Ukukruquka ixesha elide phakathi kwesibini kudla ngokubangelwa, kuninzi lwamatyala, kukungahoywa okuthile kwamaqela angakhange akwazi ukwenza iqhina elidaliweyo lomelele. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kubalulekile ukubonana nochwepheshe. oyaziyo indlela yokujongana nengxaki ngendlela efanelekileyo ukugcina ubudlelwane. Ukuba amaqela ahlala engenamdla kuyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubudlelwane buphela ngokuqhawula.
Ngamafutshane, akukho mfuneko yokuba wothuswe sisibakala sokukruquka ngamaxesha athile esi sibini. Ukuhamba kweminyaka kunokubangela ukuba isibini singene kuqheliselo oluthile olungaluncediyo ulwalamano ngokwalo. Ukuba amaxesha okukruquka afika ngexesha, akukho nto yenzekayo ukuthetha nesibini ukuze kufumaneke isisombululo ngokukhawuleza. Kuhle ukuqhawula isiqhelo kunye nokwazisa izinto ezintsha kubudlelwane ukuze kuvuselelwe ilangatye lothando. Ukuba amaxesha okukruquka aqhelekile kwaye ayaqhubeka, anokuba luphawu lokuba kukho into engahambi kakuhle kubudlelwane.