Izizathu zokuba ibhinqa linokungathembeki

ongathembekanga

Ukungathembeki kunokukhawulwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ngokuxhomekeke kwisibini esichaphazelekayo. Okushiya ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo kukuba ukunganyaniseki kudla ngokubangela umonakalo omkhulu ngokweemvakalelo kwesi sibini. Nangona kwiminyaka eyadlulayo ukukrexeza kwamadoda kwakuxhaphake kakhulu yaye kuqhelekile kunokungathembeki kwamabhinqa, namhlanje izinto ziye zalungelelana, kukho ukufana phakathi kwamadoda namabhinqa.

Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha nawe zezizathu ezinokubangela ukuba umntu wasetyhini angathembeki kwiqabane lakhe.

Izizathu zokungathembeki kwabasetyhini

Wonke umfazi wahlukile ngoko akunakubakho ukwenza ngokubanzi ngokubhekiselele kwizizathu zokungathembeki. Nangona kunjalo, uthotho lwezizathu zinokuchongwa eziqhelekileyo kwaye ziqhelekile:

Unxibelelwano oluncinci ngokweemvakalelo kunye neqabane

Kwiimeko ezininzi zokungathembeki ezenziwa ngabasetyhini ngokuqhelekileyo kukho ukungabikho kothando olucacileyo oluvela kwiqabane. Uninzi lwabafazi abangathembekanga benza ngokuqhutywa kukusilela okucacileyo kokunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo kunye nento yokuba baziva bengaxabisekanga kancinane liqabane labo. Baziva benesithuba esikhulu abazama ukusivala ngokwenza ukungathembeki.

imiba yokuzithemba

Ukungazithembi okuhamba nokungazithembi kunokukhokelela umntu obhinqileyo ekukrexezeni. Uthe ukungathembeki yindlela yokusaba ukuze uzive ubalulekile kwaye uxabisekile kwaye unqweneleka.

ukungoneliseki ngokwesondo

Esinye isizathu esibangela ukuba umfazi angathembeki kwiqabane lakhe Kubangelwa kukunganeliseki ngokwesini. Kungenzeka ukuba iindibano zesondo onazo kubudlelwane zimbalwa kunye nomgangatho ophantsi, obangela ukungathembeki okukhankanywe ngasentla.

yohlwaya iqabane

Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukwenza ubuhenyu ngumphumo womnqweno womfazi ukwenza isenzo sokuziphindezela kumlingane. Kukho umnqweno onamandla wokohlwaya omnye umntu ngokumphatha kakubi phakathi kwesibini okanye ngenxa yokungathembeki.

isibini esingathembekanga ngokweemvakalelo

isithukuthezi kunye nesiqhelo

Ulwalamano oluba yindinisa kwaye lube yindinisa Isenokuba sesona sizathu sokuba ibhinqa ligqibe ekubeni lingathembeki. Ukungena kwindlela eqhubekayo ngaphakathi kwesibini akulungile kumacala omabini njengoko kunokukhokelela kwizenzo ezingafanelekanga ezifana nokungathembeki.

Iingxaki ezithile zobudlelwane

Kwenzeka ukuba ukungathembeki kubangelwa iingxaki kubudlelwane, njengokungabikho kwezinto ezithile ezibaluleke njengenkanuko okanye ukusondelelana. Ngenxa yoku, umfazi ujonge ngaphandle kwesi sibini kwizinto asweleyo kubudlelwane obuphambili.

Yintoni omawuyenze xa izizathu zokungathembeki zicacile

Ubukho bezinye zezizathu ezibonwe ngasentla Azithetheleleki xa zisenza ukungathembeki. Ukuba nayiphi na kuzo iyenzeka, kuhle ukuhlala ecaleni kwesibini nize nithethe ubuso ngobuso ukuze kufumaneke esona sisombululo sisesona sisesona sinokwenzeka. Kungenzeka ukuba ugqibe ekubeni ulwele ubudlelwane okanye uphelise.

Ukwazi ezi zizathu okanye izizathu kunokunceda ukuthintela ukungathembeki kunokwenzeka kunye thatha uthotho lwamanyathelo azuzisa ubudlelwane ngokwawo. Kwimeko apho ukungathembeki kwenzeka, kuya kuxhomekeka kumaqela ukuba alwele ubudlelwane okanye aphule ibhondi eyenziwe.

Ngamafutshane, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani owenza ukungathembeki, kufuneka kuthiwe ngokuqhelekileyo kubangela umonakalo omkhulu weemvakalelo kwiqabane. Namhlanje amabhinqa enza izenzo zokungathembeki njengamadoda. Ngokumalunga nezizathu okanye izizathu zokuba ibhinqa lingathembeki, kuyimfuneko ukuphonononga ukungabikho koxhulumaniso lweemvakalelo kunye nesibini okanye ukuba uphathwa kakubi kangakanani na phakathi kobudlelwane. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba wenze nasiphi na isenzo sokungathembeki, kungcono ukuba uhlale phantsi neqabane lakho ukujongana neengxaki ubuso nobuso kwaye ufumane izisombululo ezingcono kakhulu.


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