Los Amasiko okuphela konyaka Ziyisithethe esifanelekileyo sokuqala unyaka omtsha kwinyawo elifanelekileyo. Ke ngoko, ukuba awuphumi kuqheliselo olunje, akulimazi ukuba uqale ukubheja kuyo. Yindlela yokucinga ngazo zonke izinto ezilungileyo eziseza kufika kwaye sibeke ecaleni, kangangoko sinako, yonke into engentle kangako esinayo esingqongileyo.
Ingqondo yethu nayo iya kusibulela, kuba sinika oko umthamo wepositivity kunini ulindile Siya kukubekela ecaleni oko kusikhathazayo, samkele konke okulungileyo kusifaneleyo. Zikuchukunyiswa kokomfuziselo kodwa ziya kusenza sizive ngcono kakhulu. Logama nje sinentshukumisa ethile, siya kuba noncumo ebusweni bethu.
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Yenza ibhalansi elungileyo yonyaka
Xa unyaka uphelile, sihlala sicinga ngayo yonke into esiyishiyileyo kwaye ngaphakathi kwayo, eyona nto imbi kakhulu. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, ayinakuphepheka yaye uninzi lwezi zinto asinakuze sizilibale. Kodwa ngenxa yempilo yethu, rhoqo kukulungele ukuhlala nezinto ezilungileyo kunye nezona zilungileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuyifumana kuba iya kuhlala ikho nokuba ngamanye amaxesha asiyiboni okanye asiyibalaselisi. Akukho nto ingcono kunokwenza uhlobo lokuhlanganiswa kwemifanekiso okanye ikholaji ukuze irekhodwe ukuba ngokwenene ube nezinto ezilungileyo. Usapho lwakho, abahlobo, uhambo, iikonsathi kunye nokunye okuninzi, kuba konke oku kuya kukwenza uncume kwakhona.
amazwi ambalwa ombulelo
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uzithumele, unokuzibhala ngokulula ephepheni okanye kuxwebhu olukwi-intanethi uze uligcine ukuze ukwazi ukulifunda ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Xa uziva ngathi i-negative ikurhangqe kwakhona, kufuneka uvule uxwebhu oluxeliweyo kwaye uyiqonde loo nto kuninzi omele ukubulela ngako. Kakade ke, ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukwenza oko kubantu abakuncedileyo, ngoku lixesha lakho. Inyaniso kukuba nokuba yintoni na, isoloko isesona senzo silungileyo.
Umbala obomvu kwimpahla kunye nemihombiso
Phakathi kwezithethe zokuphela konyaka asinakulibala umbala obomvu. Ngumbala onomdla kakhulu kwaye uyanceda ukuphakamisa umoya wakho, ngoko lixesha lokubheja kwesi siko sinemvelaphi kumaXesha Aphakathi. Ngoko ke kwelinye icala kufuneka unxibe iimpahla ezibomvu kodwa kwelinye, ukhetho lokuhombisa itafile kunye nezinye iimpahla ezilukiweyo endlwini kuloo hue. Yindlela egqibeleleyo yokonwaba, kokukhona kungcono, umbala okhethekileyo. Iyakukuzisela ipositivity oyifunayo!
Fumana iinjongo ezintathu onokuhlangabezana nazo kunyaka omtsha
Zama ukuba ungawenzi loo maphupha aphantse ukuba angenzeki, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo. Eyona nto ilungileyo kukuba ziinjongo onazo engqondweni, iinjongo onokuthi uzifezekise ngokwenene ngomgudu kwaye uya kubona ukuba ngenkuthazo efana nale, ungaya kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Besikhe saxoxa ngayo ngaphambili, kodwa kukuba xa unezo njongo, kufuneka ugxile kuzo kwaye uzame ukunikela ngako konke okusemandleni akho ukuze ukwazi ukuziphumeza. Ukuze ungazilahleki nangaliphi na ixesha, kufuneka uhlale wenze a umboniso ofanayo.
rhoqo kunyawo lwasekunene
Phakathi kwezithethe zoNyaka oMtsha, sifumana le. Emva kokuba uthathe iidiliya, kwaye sele sele ungonyaka omtsha, kufuneka uvuke ngokunyathela ngonyawo lwasekunene. Lelinye lamanyathelo okomfuziselo abonisa oko sinokungena ngonyawo lwasekunene ngendlela yethamsanqa. Akunakuze kube buhlungu ukukwazi ukuzenza, kuba yindlela yokunikela ngayo yonke into ukuze izinto ezilungileyo zisilandele kwaye zisifumane.
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