Ingozi yokulungelelanisa iqabane

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Akungabazeki ukuba ukukwazi ukudibanisa ngokupheleleyo nomnye umntu yinto emangalisayo kwaye iyingqayizivele. Ingxaki yoku kuxa kuthiwa uthando lubangela ukuba isibini sifezekiswe ngendlela yokuba inyaniso yona ngokwayo inokugqwetheka. I-dealization yesibini esithathwe ngokugqithisileyo inokuphela ibe yingozi emntwini nakubudlelwane.

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Idealization yesi sibini

Akukho lula ukwazi xa iqabane licingelwa ngokugqithisileyo. Ukuziva xa ukunye nomntu othandekayo kumnandi kwaye kuyamangalisa, into esithintelayo ekuboneni ukuba, njengaye nawuphi na omnye umntu, banezidima zabo kunye neziphene zabo. Kufuneka wazi ukuba umntu umbona enezinto zakhe ezintle kunye nezinto zakhe ezimbi kwaye ungamkhweli kwi-pedestal ekubeni le nto ayincedi kwaphela.

Ingozi yokulungelelanisa kubudlelwane

Kwizihlandlo ezininzi, intabatheko yokuqala yenza abantu abaninzi bacinge ukuba isibini sinemida engafanelekanga. Into eqhelekileyo kukuba ngokuhamba kwexesha, umntu ngokwakhe uyaziwa ngakumbi kwaye akabanjwanga esibingelelweni. Ukuqonda ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka kubantu abanokuzithemba okuphantsi kunye nokuzithemba. Ingozi enkulu yombono onjalo kungenxa yokuba kunokubakho ukungeniswa okuthile phakathi kobudlelwane. Inxalenye elungiselelweyo ilawula kwaye ilawula yonke into kwaye enye inxalenye yamkele ngaphandle kokuqhubeka.

Umonakalo kumntu ofezekileyo

Nangona kubonakala ngathi buxoki, umntu ofezekileyo uyasokola kwaye unobunzima. Ulindelo olubekwe kumntu wakho luphezulu kakhulu kwaye uloyiko lokuphoxa iqabane lakho lukhulu kakhulu. Ingcinezelo yokwenza isibini sonwabe ibaluleke gqitha, nto leyo, njengoko ilindelekile, ingayincedi kwaphela ulwalamano ngokwalo.

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Yintoni omawuyenze ukunqanda i-dealization yesi sibini

Into yokuqala kukuhlala phantsi nesibini nize nithethe ngokukhululekileyo ngalo mbandela. Kubalulekile ukuvumela iqabane ukuba lenze iimpazamo kwaye lenze iimpazamo njengaye nawuphi na omnye umntu. Ukususela ngelo xesha ukuya phambili, kuhle ukuqalisa ukubona isibini njengomntu wenyama negazi, onako ukwenza iimpazamo. Kukwabalulekile ukuba uqalise ukuzixabisa kwaye uzithande kwaye ukusuka apho ubonise uthando kwisibini. Kubudlelwane akunakubakho omnye ngaphezu komnye kwaye useke ulungelelwaniso phakathi kwabantu bobabini.

Ngamafutshane, ukulungelelanisa iqabane yinto eyingozi kakhulu kwikamva lalo naluphi na ubudlelwane. Intanda yakho mayibe enyangweni nasesibingelelweni kuthetha ukungaziboni iimpazamo neempazamo onokuthi uzenze kwaye uzithobe ngokupheleleyo kulawulo lwabo. Kubudlelwane kufuneka kubekho ukulingana kwamaqela avumela ukuba asebenze ngaphandle kwengxaki kunye nokufezekisa inhlalakahle elinde ixesha elide.


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