Ikratshi yenye yezona ntshaba ezinkulu kwikamva elihle lalo naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane. Umntu onekratshi uya kuhlala efuna inyathelo ngaphezu kwakhe nabani na, nokuba omnye umntu liqabane lakhe. Oku kubangela uhlaselo oluqhubekayo kwaye lwenza ubudlelwane bungakwazi ukunyamezela.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha nawe Indlela ikratshi elinokulonakalisa ngokunzulu ngayo ulwalamano oluthile nento omawuyenze ukuphepha ukuzingca ngolo thando.
Iimpawu zabantu abanekratshi abanamaqabane
Kukho uluhlu lweempawu okanye izinto ezibonisa ukuba umntu uyaziqhenya ngothando:
- Umntu onekratshi kufuneka ahlale elungile kwaye akazamkeli ezinye iintlobo zezimvo ngalo mba.
- Ngabantu ababeka iimfuno zabo kuqala apho isibini esinokuba nayo.
- Kunzima kakhulu ukukwazi ukuncokola ngendlela ezolileyo nezolileyo, kuba zitshintshwe zibe ncinci.
- Bangabantu abangakwaziyo ukuvuma ukuba baye baphosakele kwaye abafane bacele ukuxolelwa.
- Abantu abanekratshi banomsindo amaxesha amaninzi. nto leyo eyenza kube nzima ngokwenene ukugcina ubudlelwane nomnye umntu.
Izizathu zokuba kutheni umntu enebhongo kubudlelwane bakhe
Kwiimeko ezininzi, emva kwekratshi elikhulu kukunqongophala okucacileyo nokucacileyo kokungazithembi. Ukususela ngoku ukuya phambili, uloyiko, uloyiko kunye nekratshi livela elinokonakalisa ubudlelwane. Ngaphandle koku, kusenokubakho olunye uthotho lwezizathu okanye izizathu:
- Ukuba nabazali abazingca ngokugqithisileyo, ukuba abazithatheli ngqalelo iimfuno zabantwana.
- Yiba nobuntu obulawulayo kunye nokubangamela.
- Ukungazithembi kunye nokungazithembi isenokuba ngunobangela wehambo yekratshi.
Yintoni enokuyenza ngenxa yekratshi ayilitshabalalisi iqabane
Kubalulekile ukunqanda ikratshi ukuba lingagqithisi, ngakumbi xa kufikwa ekuqinisekiseni ukuba ubudlelwane abukho buthathaka ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ngenxa yoku, umntu onekratshi kufuneka afune ukutshintsha kwaye afune ukuphuma kuloo kuziphatha kuyingozi kwisibini.
- Kubalulekile ukusebenzela ukuzithemba kunye nempilo yeemvakalelo ukususa loo mthwalo wekratshi.
- Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ngalo lonke ixesha ukuba isibini sinothotho lweemfuno oko kufuneka kulinganiswe kwaye kulinganiswe.
- Awusoloko ulungile ngakumbi ukuba kukho izibakala ezingqiniweyo ngayo.
- Kufuneka uyazi indlela yokuvuma iimpazamo xa kufanelekile kwaye cela uxolo.
- Umntu onekratshi umele asebenzele ekubeni novelwano phambi kwesi sibini.
- Ukugcina ukuzeyisa ingundoqo xa kuziwa ekubekeni ikratshi ngasemva.
Ngamafutshane, akulula okanye kulula ukuphatha umntu onekratshi. Kuthatha kakhulu ukuthatha inyathelo ukuba unengxaki yokwenene. Nangona kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukugcina iqabane elithile, xa ukuzingca kukho kwaye rhoqo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha ubudlelwane buba yityhefu kwaye akunakwenzeka ukufumana impilo-ntle elangazelelwa sisibini.