Akumangalisi ukubona indlela izibini ezithile ezisebenzisa ngayo izithuko kunye nokungafaneleki rhoqo kwimihla ngemihla kwaye yenze umkhwa. Iingxoxo kunye neengxabano zibangela intlaninge yezithuko ekungafanele zinyanyezelwe nangayiphi na imeko.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo sikuxelela ukuba wenze ntoni kwaye indlela yokwenza xa sijamelene nokungabi nantlonipho kwesi sibini.
Izithuko kunye nokungafaneleki phakathi kwesibini
Intlonipho yenye yezinto ezixabisekileyo ekufuneka zibekho kuso nasiphi na isibini esithathwa njengesempilweni. Ukubizwa ngamagama kukungabi nantlonipho kunye nokuziphatha kakubi okungamelanga kunyanyezelwe. Ngesithuko elinye lamaqela lixhaphaza ngokweemvakalelo kwiqabane labo. Ngelishwa, Izithuko ezikhankanywe ngasentla kunye nokungafaneleki kuye kwaba yinto eqhelekileyo kwizibini eziselula.
Iimbangela zokuthukwa kwesi sibini
Kwiimeko ezininzi, unxibelelwano olunobundlobongela kunye nobudlova Kubangelwa koko kwafundwa ekhaya ebudeni bobuntwana nakwixesha lokufikisa. Ukuba umntwana ukhulela kwikhaya apho kuthukwa emini, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uya kuphinda loo mzekelo xa eqalisa ubuhlobo nomnye umntu.
Iiklasi zokuthuka kwisibini
Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo apho izithuko ezahlukeneyo phakathi kwesibini zingabonakaliswa:
- Mhlekise lowo umthandayo.
- Ngabom nangabom umjongele phantsi.
- Ulwimi oluphoxayo ngenjongo yokumthoba isidima.
- Ulwimi olubi ukwenza umonakalo ngokweemvakalelo.
Yintoni enokuyenza phambi kwezithuko zesi sibini
Kukho izibini ezininzi ezibona ukuthukwa njengento eqhelekileyo kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Le yinto ekungafanelanga ukuba ivunyelwe njengoko luhlobo loxhatshazo olunokuvelisa ezinye izinto ezicekisekayo ngokulinganayo ezifana nomona okanye ukuxhaphaza ngokweemvakalelo. Ukungabikho kwentlonipho akufanele kube khona kulo naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane. Ukunika oku, kubalulekile ukuhlala phantsi neqabane lakho kwaye ufune utshintsho olunceda ukuba nobudlelwane obunempilo:
- Isibini sifanele sifunde ukulawula iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ukuze ungaphulukani nolawulo nangaliphi na ixesha.
- Ukuba unxibelelwano olunobundlobongela nolundlongondlongo luye lwaba ngumkhwa, kubalulekile Yiya kwingcali ekwaziyo ukusombulula le ngxaki.
- Ukuba nangona zonke izithuko zisekukhanyeni kwemini kubalulekile ukuphelisa ubudlelwane. Awunakukwazi ukuba kunye nomntu ophindaphindayo ngendlela eqhelekileyo kunxibelelwano olundlongondlongo noluxhaphazayo.
Ngamafutshane, izithuko kunye nokungafaneleki azifanelekanga kuso nasiphi na isibini. Intlonipho ifanele ibekho ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye ukhethe uhlobo lonxibelelwano olungonakaliyo isibini. Ukunyelisa kunye nokwenzakalisa ngabom umntu othandekayo yinto engafanele ivunyelwe kulo naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane. Ukuthukwa luhlobo lokuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo kwaye kwenza isibini siphile kwinqanaba elibalulekileyo letyhefu.