La usapho yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bethuKodwa ubudlelwane abuhlali bulungile njengoko befanele ukuba njalo. Ngaphakathi kosapho ngalunye kukho iingxaki, izinto ekufuneka zisonjululwe kunye nembali eninzi ethi ngamanye amaxesha ingavumeli abantu ukuba baqhubele phambili. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile kwimpilo yethu yengqondo ukuba ifunde ukunxibelelana kakuhle nosapho.
Sikuxelela indlela yokuphucula unxibelelwano nosapho, into enokusinceda ukusombulula iingxaki esinazo namanye amalungu kwaye siphile ngcono. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba usapho lwethu luyinto ebalulekileyo ebomini bethu okanye ukuba sihlala nabo.
Zama ukulungelelanisa iishedyuli
Iishedyuli zamalungu osapho ngamanye amaxesha azilingani kakhulu, ke abanye banokubonana ixesha elifutshane okanye badibane ngexesha lokutya okanye ngexesha lokulala. Kungenxa yoko le nto kuyo nayiphi na imeko kufuneka sizame ukungqamana ngexesha elithile losuku ukuze sikwazi ukuba nabantu bethu kwaye sizame ukuba nomzuzu apho sonke singathetha kunye okanye senze into silusapho. Ngale nto kufuneka sithethe nawo onke amalungu osapho kwaye sizame ukuba nomzuzwana okanye isenzo esinokuthi sihambelane. Ngaphandle koko, ukuba umntu ngamnye uneshedyuli angadibaniyo nabanye, asizukukwazi ukumisela unxibelelwano olungcono.
Mamela ngokuqinisekileyo
Uninzi lweengxoxo ezibonakala kwiintsapho zivela ngqo kumntu ngamnye ozama ukunyanzelisa umbono wabo, ke bahlala bemamela abanye bebeka izimvo zabo. Oku akumameli kakuhle, kodwa sele sinendawo ethile engathandekiyo kwesi sihloko. Oku kuyakwenza kuphela ungquzulwano phakathi kwamalungu osapho. Kuya kufuneka uzame ukuqonda omnye umntu, uhlala ufumana into elungileyo kuyo kodwa uzame nokuchaza umbono wethu. Kunzima ukufumana ibhalansi kodwa ukuseka unxibelelwano kufuneka sivumele wonke umntu ukuba aveze izimvo zakhe.
Bandakanya wonke umntu kwizigqibo
Izigqibo zosapho zihlala zenziwa ngabazali okanye ngamanye amalungu osapho, kodwa kufuneka zisoloko zisenziwa ngokudibeneyo okanye ubuncinci zixelwe kumalungu onke ukuze bazi ukuba umbono wabo uyathathelwa ingqalelo. Kubalulekile ukudibanisa amalungu osapho kunye kunye nokuxoxa ngezigqibo okanye iingxaki ezinokuchaphazela wonke umntu. Ukufihla ulwazi ukuze ungakhathazeki abanye kudala kuphela ukungathembani kunye neengxaki zonxibelelwano phakathi kwabo. Ke kungcono ukuhlala unyanisekile kwaye uzama ukubandakanya wonke umntu kwizigqibo ezenziweyo.
Sombulula iingxaki kunye
Iintsapho ezilwa kunye xa kujongwa iingxaki nazo zihlala kunye. Amalungu kufuneka azi ukuba ayinxalenye yawo yonke kwaye ingxaki yenye ichaphazela bonke ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto iingxaki kufuneka zikwazi ukusonjululwa ngokudibeneyo. Ukuba wonke umntu uyancedana, kusenokwenzeka ukuba isisombululo kwezi ngxaki sizakufumaneka kwakamsinyane.
Nxibelelana nabantwana nolutsha
Nangona kuyinyani ukuba kulula ukunxibelelana namalungu osapho abantu abadala, kufuneka sizame ukunxibelelana nawo wonke umntu. Kodwa kwimeko yabantwana nakwishumi elivisayo ihlala inzima ngakumbi, kuba belibona ilizwe ngendlela eyahlukileyo kwaye bayakhula, bafunda kwaye baqonde indlela yokunxibelelana nabanye. Ukuba bakhulele kwikhaya elinenkathalo kodwa elinomda apho beviwa khona, kuya kuba lula ukuthetha nabo. Kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kufuneka siziqonde izimvo zabo kwaye sizame ukubonisa ezethu.