Ungaluhlaziya njani ulwalamano lwakho nabahlobo

Ubuhlobo

Ukuba nabahlobo kuyinto elungileyo, kuba iyinxalenye yobomi bethu ebaluleke kakhulu phuhlisa ubudlelwane nabanye abantu kunye nokuzazi thina. Kodwa ubudlelwane nabahlobo akusoloko kulula, kuba kumaxesha amaninzi kufuneka sisebenzele kubo ukuze baphucule kwaye bapolishe iingxaki.

Siya ku ndikunike iingcebiso zokuphucula ubudlelwane bakho nabahlobo. Ubuhlobo obuhle bobuhlobo busityebisa kakhulu kwaye buhlaziya ubomi bethu. Isinceda ukuseka ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nokuphucula njengabantu, yiyo loo nto kubaluleke kakhulu.

Hlala nabani na onegalelo kuwe

Kwizihlandlo ezininzi siqhubeka sinazo Abahlobo esingasenalo unxibelelwano olukhulu okanye azilunganga kuthi. Abantu bayatshintsha kwaye ubomi babo buyatshintsha kwaye kungafika ixesha apho uziva ukuba awunanto idibene naba bantu kwaye awunikeli nto komnye nomnye. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uzive unetyala ngokuhlala kude nabantu ongafuni kuchitha ixesha nabo. Ixesha lakho lelakho kwaye nguwe okhetha ukulichitha nabani kuba liyinto enexabiso ngokwenene. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka unamathele kubahlobo abakuphathele into.

Nceda abahlobo bakho

Ubudlelwane nabahlobo bakho

Ukuba ufuna phucula ubudlelwane nabahlobo bakho kubalulekile ukuba nincedane. Xa abahlobo benengxaki, kufuneka ubekhona ukuze ubamamele. Asinakusoloko sisombulula iingxaki zakho, kodwa ukunceda kubalulekile. Ewe, olu ncedo luyasinceda sonke, kuba bayazi ukuba sikhona ukubaxhasa kwaye ke sikhuthaza ukuncedisana. Ukunceda abo sibakhathalelayo kubalulekile kulo naluphi na ulwalamano.

Hlala nabo

Ukufuna amandla kwaye xa kufikwa kubudlelwane bobuqu ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka senze iinzame zokubonana. Namhlanje sinobomi obuxakekileyo kodwa inyani yile kubalulekile ukuba sikwazi ukuba nexesha lethu. Ubudlelwane yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kubomi bethu kuba ziphucula imeko yethu kwaye zinciphise uxinzelelo. Ukuhlala nabahlobo ngokwasemzimbeni yinto ebaluleke kakhulu. Kule mihla kuthungelwano lwentlalo kuyinto eqhelekileyo kuthi ukuba sihlale ngokuthetha ngefowuni eziphathwayo kwaye nangona oku kusinceda ukugcina unxibelelwano, inyani kukuba ukubona abantu nokuthetha buqu kubaluleke kakhulu.

Funda ukuphulaphula

Xa sithetha abanye abantu abafunda ukumamela yinxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu. Ukumamela abanye abantu kwaye kwenzeka ntoni kubo kubanika inkxaso yeemvakalelo efunwa ngumntu wonke. Ukuba siyathetha kwaye siyathanda ukuxelela izinto zethu, kufuneka sazi ukuba kwimiba yobuhlobo, zombini ezi zinto zisisiseko. Asifanelanga ukuba sikwazi ukuxelela iingxaki zethu kuphela kodwa kufuneka sifunde nokubamamela abanye. Kunye nabahlobo, omabini amaqela abalulekile. Unxibelelwano olulungileyo lusisiseko salo naluphi na ulwalamano lwabantu kwaye siphulukana namandla okunxibelelana ngokuthe ngqo. Ukumamela yinxalenye esisiseko yabo bonke ubudlelwane, nkqu nobuhlobo.

Hlonipha izithuba

Ubuhlobo

Enye indawo yokuphucula ubudlelwane nabahlobo bakho kukuba kufuneka uzihloniphe iindawo zabo. Kukho abantu abafuna ukuchitha lonke ixesha labo nabahlobo okanye abaxhomekeke kubo. Ngamanye amaxesha abahlobo bethu banabo abanye ubuhlobo okanye iindlela zokuzonwabisa apho bafuna ukuba bodwa. Zininzi iindawo zobomi babo nezethu esingabelani ngazo, ke kufuneka sifunde ukukuhlonipha oku nathi. Kulungile ukuba nezinto ozithandayo kunye namaxesha ahlukeneyo. Ubuhlobo buyaqina ukuba akukho kuxhomekeka macala.


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